If you've actually talked to people you'd realize that the majority is absolutely abhorred by democracies. What is the average voting participation percentage globally? Say, 50-60%? From those who actually show up to vote how many do actually think that they are conscious citizens, changing or at least defending their status quo? 10 to 20%?
What percentage actually believes in democracy? And by "belief" I don't mean "gives lip service to" but actual deeds: who regularly discuss and watch parliamentary coverage, who read 2+ newspapers a week, who reads beyond the titles of internet articles, who… should I go on?
How many of you, defenders, re-definers, re-contextualizers, re-actualizers of democracies actually believe in democracies? None. And you all know it.
So talk to regular people, and they will tell you, and you will understand what they say if you have the ears. And when you witness them vote for and join fascist parties, or more mundane, naturally, just switching from one to another, without aim or reason – a truly democratic outlook –, you'll better see on the one hand the implicit anti-democratic subtext in the fascist politics, and realize that is their number one strength, and on the other, see the lost souls never-ending quest for democracy, in which there's no actual aim or goal.
You either let our potential allies join up with implicit anti-democrats (whose form of anti-democracy is barbarism), or you let them wonder aimlessly, worse, you join them, playing the reformist game, losing them and yourself too in the process, or, finally, you proclaim yourself a 21st. century communist, and attack democracy on all fronts in order to save what is worth of its legacy, and surpass it.