It's pretty easy for a woman to find a mate, it's also really easy for a man to find a mate.
A woman who wants to marry will be submissive and obedient.
A man who wants to marry will be aggressive and dominant.
These are base biological drivers. Aggressive women, especially sexually aggressive ones are simply uninterested in raising children, so you just need to find girls who are disinterested in sex and more interested in pleasing you in more meaningful ways: cooking, crafts.
Stay away from liberated women or intelligent ones, since both are incredibly broken. Your wife will be cunning no matter how dull she is, because women are forged in the crucible of deception. No matter her breeding or background, she can never be fully trusted or tamed, like a wild animal caged, part of a marriage is understanding this and not getting burned. Women are simply incapable of celibacy or true philosophy, because these are traits dominated by self-control and a rejection of all emotions, and women are hardwired to feel pain on a monthly cycle, it is part of their formative youthful experience and cannot be ignored since it is their burden in birthmaking.
Step 1: Be assertive and dominant, through silence and physical strength.
Step 2: Show you are confident and secure, financially and physically by training your mind towards higher income and your body towards sexual stamina
Step 3: You will now attract a broad range of women, you must sample them all to determine the qualities that you value. Often physical beauty fades and conscientiousness, tidyness, a sense of humor is what is far more important.
Humour is how we view the world, lolvaginas is not humour, unless you are a joyless feminist trapped in your own web of political correctness.
Conscientiousness means mindfulness, politeness a sense of propriety and duty. A respect for your elders, a strong moral compass, bonding early on through mutual interests.
Tidyness is fundamental to an ordered life, it is at the core of the home, and next to sleeping and eating will cleaning consume most of your waking life.
If you are upfront about your desires, 4-5 children, a lifetime partnership, creating a big family, you will find that compromises are much easier to be reached and you can forge a lasting bond with almost any woman who shares your priorities. There are as many young women out there who want big families are young men, it is a modern taboo. The meme pushed by global domino players who want to reduce the population, but you cannot suppress the natural urge to have a household filled with happy little people, learning and growing.