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I'm extremely allergic to cats and would die. It's not an option.

HOLY FUCK, op is baiting anons into just fucking up their every chance. IGNORE THREAD, SAGE AND WHATNOT, KILL YOURSELF OP

If she lives near enough for you to meet up, then you need to do that. If she doesn't live near enough, then you're wasting your time on her. Seriously, every moment that you spend on skype or whatever, is a moment that should be spent doing literally anything else - fuck, working out would be better.

pick one

I'm not OP. My advice is solid. But yeah, I am MGTOW. I'm forty-fucking-two. I've been everywhere and done everything. I'm not trying to convince you to go MGTOW - that's why I gave honest and useful advice. I'm just telling you the long-range truth.

fucking this

hang up a picture of elliot rodgers ms "just go for it, kiss people wildly, be "bold"" and then hang yourself next to it

Regardless, you should absolutely fucking kill yourself if that's how you got women. What you're doing is the equivalent to telling someone who wants a legendary monster fish to try digging in the mud by hand for it. All you'll "catch" is gutter scum.

Wait WTF are you talking about?? Here's my post:

I stand by it. It's good advice.

Someone replied to my post here:

So I replied again. What the actual fuck are you talking about "if that's how you got women" - I haven't said anything remotely offensive to anyone. Maybe you should kill yourself since you can't read.

I have a crush on my sister, she's 4 years older and has always been there for me, she was my BFF growing up, and looked after me more than our mother did, our mother was abusive and neglectful towards us and my sister always was willing to sacrifice herself to protect me from her, our father was never in our lives, but I think he would have been a lot better to us than our mother was.

however, now that we've both moved out of the house, we have had less time to spend together, we try to see each other whenever we can, and constantly talk to each other when we can't, our unusual closeness has made it so that we don't have any other social lives out side of each other, even the few friends we had made before moving out disappeared due to how we neglected them in favor of each other, when this was pointed out to me i started to question my relationship with my sister.

she has had boyfriends and i have had girlfriends, but we are both currently single, and i think we each would like to focus on other things besides dating, like hanging out together.

there has always been a physical closeness between us, never sexual, but definitely something that could be mistaken for romantic, we tended to sleep together in each others arms while wearing clothes when we were in the same house, and are comfortable with talking about anything with each other, even subjects that other siblings usually avoid, finally we have seen each other naked on numerous occasions, as both of us have always been comfortable in the buff around each other.

secretly, i find her the most sexually desirable creature imaginable, in fact, i have had sexual fantasies about my sister in the past, and i continue to have these fantasies, of course, she isn't my sister in the fantasies, as i imagine I'm some other man, who is not related to her, but when i finish masturbating, i still have to still with the shame that comes with using a mental avatar to imagine having sex with her.

I've never told her that i find her sexually attractive, but i think she is suspicious that i do, if she does know about this, she's never shown any sings of discomfort about it, but i know i shouldn't be thinking about her this way, and it scares the fuck out of me.

this isn't like one of those /incest/ fantasies, as these persistent sexual feelings towards my sister are legitimately disturbing to me, i definitely don't want to act on them, as i am afraid of what telling my sister that i have fallen in love with her would do to our relationship, that i am more than happy with in the state it currently is in.

even if she accepts and ever reciprocates my love confession, incestuous relationships between full siblings is illegal where we live, and the punishment is likely worse than those of half siblings, and as the man, i would be more likely to be severely punished for it than she is, as for our mother and father, i sure neither of us would give a fuck what they think of us having a romantic relationship together, in fact, if they disapproved of it, it would probably make it feel even better for us, finally pregnancy is no concern, my sister is on the pill and i would take a lot of care not to get her pregnant, though it would be nice to adopt some children together if possible.

the most upsetting aspect is the lack of westermarck effect here, we were raised together in the same household for our entire lives, and there was never any doubt that we shared both parents with each other, in fact, no one could ever mistake us for anything but siblings, due to how much we resemble each other, so why has this happened to me?

and if westermarck isn't as effective as people think it is, then how many other sibling romances are happening out there in secrecy?

i feel like how i imagine a closeted homosexual or anti-pedo pedo would feel, being constantly tormented by desires to do what you and society considers reprehensible, and are afraid of hurting someone you care about should you ever act on them.

i know this is some heavy shit, and i probably need professional help with this, but I'm going to see if i can get a psychiatrist, and for now am more willing to ask about it here than on yahoo.

Ooh yeah, I know this feel and I can tell you it sucks.

Look, first she should understand that your internet is shit and you shouldn't apologize for it. Don't get into the habit of apologizing all the time because then she would expect one from you even if you didn't really do anything that bad.

Second, LTRs suck, try to avoid them as much as you can in future, try and see her in person now that you two know each other well BUT instead of going all the way to her place, it would be 10x better to get her to invest and take the risk and come over to your town, if she can't pay for her own travel expenses then you can pay for them if you have the cash but then again…

You have to get the cash to move on, there's nothing really you could do about it except reassure her that your shit is serious and you want to see her one day.