How do you get a gf?

Being passably attractive is not enough to get a gf. You might be able to fuck some bar sluts, but that's about it.

It's very unlikely you'll get an attractive gf just from looks if you're poor and aren't charismatic.

I REFUSE TO SETTLE.

I DESERVE THE BEST.

My confidence is slowly growing with my new meds and hobbies. It's only a matter of time before I land a young scarlett johansson. Not to mention that I just got a well paying job after 2 years of being a NEET,

I've been told by people all my life that I'm really hot, I know it's subjective, but I feel like I'm objectively a 7/10 given the feedback I've gotten, and I've gotten a lot of feedback from dudes and girls.

I'd just steal their shit and sell it.
If they're rich they won't miss anything.
Also use them if I really dislike them.
I like white girls as my friends (I'm not gay) but I haven't talked to a ton of people since school ended.

Very handsome boy

Probably a little above average. But that alone isn't enough. You need to get some money, and the confidence that comes with it, then you'll stand a better chance. Especially with a weirdo NEET background.

IT'S WORTH THE WAIT.

I'm on the way there, I understand. Thanks for simplifying what I need to do, btw.

Head outside and talk to anyone you meet. At the bus stop, at the bookstore, at the tills in the shop when there isn't a queue. Get comfortable with having normal openers beyond the usual "Nice day we're having today"

After that, start getting into the habit of smiling more. Don't look surly and don't stare. Just walk up to people casually and make conversation because you want to get to know more people. Get used to asking about peoples day and finding out about them without being interrogative or shy.

After that, start talking to women who you're comfortable approaching. Always approach groups if you're in a party environment. Girls are a lot more comfortable around their friends. If you're a decent guy that's got used to socialising, making their friends laugh will help you out when you get her number. They'll encourage her later on.

When you're out at the shops, get used to asking girls at the tills in particular, or girls on duty. You'd be shocked how many of them want a quick chat to lighten their day. Don't go into "Ohh you're so pretty…" or anything like that. Keep it casual and show a normal, friendly interest in them.

I think that's honestly the biggest key for getting an LTR in my opinion. Meet a girl in a familiar place who you like and make casual conversation. See her a couple of times and then ask them if they want to go out some time if you get on. Go hang out as friends, invite her out for a drink etc etc.

After that, it'll build naturally.

Just never get desperate… Never treat her as "The one" and make sure you look after yourself physically and emotionally. She isn't there to fix you and she isn't there to be your Gf at first. You're there to give her a good time and it'll naturally develop from there. You just kind of figure it out after that, based on little social cues and injokes you have.

Sounds like a lot of fucking work, tbh.

what are examples of good openers i suck at thinking of ideas tbh
i've missed opportunities because i cant think or what to say, there was this qt arabette the other day who was blatantly eyeing me up but i couldn't think of anything to say

Honestly, I just say shit like "Hey, how's it going" or "Alright, how's your night going?" or "Had a good night?".

For shops and things "Ohh do you know which aisle X is in?".. "Ahh thanks a ton, Cooking a stir fry tonight at a friends and my mates sent me out for some daft ingredients. Are you up to anything this weekend?"

Trick is just keeping it casual and sticking to small talk. People usually get wrapped up in talking when you ask them about themselves after giving a little bit of what you've been up to. Heck half the time, I just make shit up to make people comfortable. That night I could have been making pasta that night, and known full well where the rice wine was. Doesn't matter, so long as you have a quick story to give people a little interest and open conversation to ask them about their day.

There isn't much work to it tbh, it's awkward the first couple of times, but after a while it just becomes natural.

first you need a scheme, cant do anything with out a proper scheme.
volunteer at the elder-center, be super nice and friendly with the elderly, have them show you pictures of their kids and grandkids, when you see something you like, tell them how cute that person is and jokingly ask if they have a boyfriend. If you are lucky and charming enough, the senior will suggest to to set you up with a date, you must then accept but in a way that doesn't make it to obvious that this was the plan all along.

And if that doesn't work you can befriend the nurses and join them when they go out in the weekends.