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For indeed man was not created for the woman's sake, but woman for the man's sake.
- 1 Corinthians 11:9
The man gave names to all the cattle, and to the birds of the sky, and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him.
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The man gave names to all the cattle, and to the birds of the sky, and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.
"At last!" the man exclaimed. "This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! She will be called 'woman,' because she was taken from 'man.'"
- Genesis 2:20-23
While all things are created for the glory of God, and while we are under no obligation to marry but rather to glory in God, woman indeed was made for man to be his companion, his helper, and so together in marriage they glorify God as one flesh (and literally join as one flesh (sexually) and form one flesh (baby))
TL;DR
user actually does say right when he says
THIS IS ACTUALLY TRUE
Man leads woman, not woman leads man. The reason your women have lost themselves is because your men lost themselves, and the reason both lost themselves is because they both abandoned God.
Find peace and reconciliation in Christ Jesus as Lord, repent and turn to Him in Gospel truth according to Scripture alone, living in grace of God by faith alone, and in committing yourself to living according to the virtues of God alone you will become a new man, a virtuous man, one who by Christ is worthy to hold and lead a virtuous woman.
TL;DR YOU CAN'T FIND A GOOD WOMAN BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A GOOD MAN
BECOME RIGHTEOUS IN CHRIST AND YOU WILL, IF BY WILL OF THE LORD, FIND A WOMAN TO LEAD IN RIGHTEOUSNESS