You're seeing the symptom, but you arent analyzing the problem. Yes, society is broken right now, the culture of the west has become toxic especially to families, and theres a general lack of tradition and meaning in life. But you need to trace back down the root (we all know the very end of that root, but lets not go COMPLETELY there just yet, since theres no point as you all know the answer anyway) and stop looking at the branches on the tree of shit. And more importantly, you need to realize that the incoming admins in the western world are working to actively destroy those roots and purge the corruption (and also why Gen Z is rejecting all of these things that have wrecked "our" generation)
So, why have all those things gone by the wayside and why would a simple change of administrations work toward fixing these problems? Pretty simple really, money and pussy problems. Since the millenial generation came of age we've had basically 16 years of shit leaders, especially in the US, who have sold out our nation(s), destroyed our economies to the point most of us can barely scrape by, flooded our nation with illegals and criminals who want us dead or as slaves, and pushed agendas and narratives that tell women from childhood that men will only make them miserable and that they're better off never getting married or having kids, and that divorces are good for them and so are abortions
This has all caused a chain reaction, as the people pushing it knew it would, of younger women attacking men and refusing to adopt traditional roles because they're "oppressive," meanwhile jobs are gone, incomes are shit, and people in our generation have struggled to stay afloat, which has led women to adopting a culture of sluttiness and drug use because humans simply dont have meaning in their existence beyond achieve and procreate, but the ability to achieve has been greatly diminished and procreation is expensive and something most cant afford with the terrible state of our economy, many who DO become parents end up on federal programs for free money in some way, which should tell you how bad things are.
And of course for men they see women who have become more parasitic and corrupt, who have bemused themselves with being sluts and users (both of drugs and men) and who have no loyalty to anyone (not even themselves really), as well as seeing the financial burden women and children bring, the stress, drama, etc that modern women bring, and instead of trying for it, they simply opt out and choose to go after their own goals and desires. But it all stems back to the push for women to hate men, kill babies, divorce and suck husbands dry, and think these are all good "empowering" things, while the economy is fucked and our nation is flooded with violence and parasites that most would not want to raise a kid in, thus they never get married and never have kids.
But thankfully two things are changing. The first, is the new admins in the west. They are pushing back HARD against these narratives, holding up classy family women who are happy and fulfilled and LOYAL to their husbands, while also bringing back jobs and boosting the economies and kicking out the parasites thus fattening the wallets of men who will now feel more room to breath and who will be comfortable affording children. The second, is that Gen Z is coming of age, and looking at their Gen Y counterparts, the males are lonely and depressed, they struggle to keep going much of the time and have abandoned women due to women in their age group being rude, disgusting, useless, fat, lazy, and disloyal parasites who will murder babies and suck a husband dry until he eats a bullet, or who will NEVER have a man and instead just be cock-coaster sluts who end up used up and dry like their older cousins/siblings by the time they're 30 and live alone in poverty with 20 cats. The new gen of men refuse to fall into that same fate we have, and the women refuse to follow the route of their older kin either. They instead want husbands and to cook and clean and be happy building a home for a husband who (after seeing what their gen COULD have turned into) is truly grateful for his wife and works to provide her with all he can, and to have children together to feel their human instincts fulfilled and to build the next generation to be even better