Sexual degeneracy

So I am a virgin and something that I see in Holla Forums and /r9k/ is basically a trend. The longer someone stays a virgin, the more he is sexually puritan and resentful. I think there is really a concept such as "virgin rage".

Anyway I am not myself, the only thing I noticed that I am naturally unaccustormed to sexual matters and reading about some other people's sexual experiences is "exotic" to me. Also the feeling of missing out. So I guess like the fox and the grapes, telling yourself that you don't want it in the first place is a coping mechanism.

Before I make this post too long, because I could talk more about myself, what do you guys think about this?

Don't think too much about it. Sex is like eating food or taking a shit. It's a necessary component of life.

To me the exact opposite happened. I was a greasy autist for a long time and couldn't get deflowered at the same time as most of my friends. It took me a year to change my life in that regard, I became /fit/, clean and developed some sort of fashion style (not like a chad, still alternative but pleasing to the eye).

I was able to get laid and became an absolute degenerate for a few years to make up for my teenage years that I missed. I slept with girls left and right simply because I wanted somebody to desire me sexually. For that reason, I was into average looking girls (not ugly, just arround 6/10) with few sexual experience since they really wanted to fuck me, while the really beautiful chicks usually were already over-saturated due to the masses of chads they fucked. I honestly think this is some sort of mild narcissistic disorder that I have that was maybe caused by my role as an outcast in high school and first college year with only 3 nerdy friends.

i don't think much of sex

if i meet a girl and shit happens then shit happens

OP here. I am really major sex starved.
I wouldn't even want to sleep around. I never get the appeal of why you need to sleep around if you can just have the same amount of frequency of sex with just one person (at least then I understand, if the other partner just denies sex).

I also for some reason really developed a hug and cuddling "kink" (to not say fetish, because how can that be a fetish).

Well for me sleeping arround wasn't just about who handles your dick the best, but to see different different reactions on your varying sexual partner. Was mostly into shy girls because their reactions turned me on the most.

I also liked to sleep with different ethnicities and I'm afraid that's because deep inside I get a hard on by some sort of colonial domination and just "choosing" one of the oppressed ethnicity to have sex with me and she being grateful for it.

I think that makes me a major fuck up, but it's really just about sex and doesn't influence ideologically.

literally what does this have to do with socialism

Literally in every other board you will have a /pol /ack coming at you, shoving the red pill down your throat and telling you how and with whom you are allowed to have sex.

I myself have nothing against casual sex, just wanted to say that.


Kek, sounds like you have a spook.
Countries or concepts such as colonialism cannot have sex with other people.

In much the same way, the entire ideology of Holla Forums can be reduced to (mostly racial) anxiety and ressentiment about “their women” “cuckolding” them with the Other (races).

I myself became more lefty at precisely the moments in my life when in a stable relationship, and sometimes drifted rightward when I'm single :^)

Well isn't sex just a spook in general? I mean, it's really just mental, similar like a religious person praying in a church stimulates a certain area in his brain as well.

do you not know what a spook is?

That's not what spook means. :)

Spooks are concepts (like ideology, religion, ideas) which come in conflict with your self-interest.

And I can't see how sex is just mental. Seems very physical to me.

I am pretty fucking lonely…

Then how is somebody who receives neurological stimulation by praying in church not acting in his own self-interest when he carries out religious traditions to receive sad stimulation?

When I submit myself under the abstract concept of modern fashion to attract the opposite gender, am I spooked?

Praying is fine, but the spook lies where it comes in CONFLICT with your self interest.

So for example upholding all the religious laws, especially things like going celibate. Celibacy is pretty fucking spooky.

Nope. In the same way unspooked as you deciding to use the english language to talk to me, because you want me to understand what you say. :)

Sex is pretty neat, its the best around a partner where you can constantly experiment and explore your kinks and his kinks. But sex itself without any connection to the person you are doing it with is just masturbating with a human sized hand, can be fun but isnt the best thing ever.


Everyone that isnt a conciouse egoist is an unconciouse egoist as you still use stuff for your own sake just as you use religion to gain spiritual wellfare or when you use the state to protect your property. But the thing about unconciousness egoism and its possessedness is that you are bound to the means wich you gain your wellfare and maybe even become dependent upon it to maintain your wellfare wich is granted on your submission to your means. Example being that you need to fullfill the idea of masculinity or social constructed male attractiveness to be able to get a female to have sex. You depend on the idea and want to fullfill the idea to satisfy your wellfare of wanting to have sex or whatever. You are possessed by the means/spook as you use it cause you dont realize that there are other possibility's wich you can take property off.

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Just cuddling with somone would be pretty nice.

Pleasure from sex is a material fact, a physiological reaction of your body. It's totally not like praying, unless you remove praying from its religious context and treat it as a simple act of meditation.

There are plenty of spooks concerning sex, obviously, but that's another story.


The definition of self-interest that you're using includes absolutely every action that one performs. It's a valid, but completely meaningless interpretation. A much narrower, useful definition of self-interest is not being bound by external irrational concepts and codes of conduct.


You're certainly not spooked when you consciously adopt a spook to achieve your selfish goal. It doesn't make it any less of a spook.

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I think spooks are more like ideas/beliefs that absurdly uphold systems that may or may not be in direct opposition to your belief, for instance censoring art for "moral decency" is spooky.

Movies with a message that says "It might not be the best system we've got but I'm fighting for it because it is "ours" or whatever" you know the type… Stories that challenge the character's beliefs by presenting an antagonist hell-bent on destroying the hypocritical system the heroes defend, they come to a point where they acknowledge the Villain's claim as having some form of validity, or at least they are presented in a reasonable light to the audience, but the brave protagonist struggles out of some sort of convoluted sense of duty and loyalty and comes up with a "you're right about our flaws, but we can change it in the future!" type of argument.

Then the status quo is restaured and the system is perpetuated in all its corruption.

I'm not sure. I lost my virginity a decade ago at 14 and most sex partners I've had have been non-emotional and usually brief so I've got a different perspective and can't relate. I do think some cope by telling themselves it's degenerate or that virginity should be prized, but I know a good looking girl whose a virgin at 25 who wants it but is just waiting for someone she's comfortable with.

That said, you may find fucking at least 3 girls a week(which if you're reasonably fit you can pull off through hookup apps) or a partner that's dtf all the time to be finding out what you wanted wasn't so great. I could get either but I'm lonely and want someone I can hold hands and cuddle with and talk about books or movies or philosophy. Sex is great but it's better with a gf/bf because you have a good idea of their limits and looking into their eyes when they cum is amazing.

I agree with eveything you said and don't see anything we disagree on.


Truth, Justic and the American way! :DD

Fucking This!

I just want to cuddle with someone. I don't even care if he is a guy.

What's stopping you?

found a way. I had a 3 year dry spell while I was dealing with the fallout of addiction, shitty friends, and weight gain.

normie genocide when tbh

gee I wonder