Shrug, it's a creepy thing from a bygone age.
I understand the impulse most people have around collectivism. With the right ideas and leadership maybe this time (gee why hasn't this been tried before?) we can instill good ethics and morals into a younger generation, creating respect and stability, an honorable society filled with upstanding individuals who seek to improve it.
Then they invented advertising and television and you didn't need organisations like this anymore because you could program people remotely from childhood and they would cloak themselves in ignorance gladly because it triggered the primal reward mechanism without having to do anything.
There is very little functional difference between: Freemason, Protestant, Hindu, Scientologist, orthodox Jew, Maoist, Catholic, Mormon, Satanist, Buddhist, Muslim, Marxist, Atheist, Spiritual New Age Multi-Theist.
They are people, often too busy living or otherwise disinterested in understanding. They would prefer, because it's convenient, safe, reliable, practical, to just be spoon-fed some rules which they will obey in return for peace of mind.
Because without these rules there would be discord. A horrible form of lawless anarchy where the strongest and smartest survive and thrive, and the weak must be manipulative and deceptive or flounder. Before the rise of civilizations, no matter what some idiots in the 19th century writing chick lit for bored horny housewives might have wanted you to believe, primitive nomadic life was not pleasant and peachy. It was rape, torture and murder for mostly everyone including the raped and tortured. The last nomadic people left alive today, the Gypsies of Eastern Europe, a den of murderers, rapists and thieves, destabilizing any region they inhabit.
There is a dark violent undercurrent to human intelligence, a biproduct of being a curious apex predator which can adapt technology over biology. A man can learn to suppress it by breeding, by will, by law, or be consumed by it.
But obviously your intentions are not wisdom or information, they are distraction and obfuscation. J-j-join my club goys, it's totally c-cool!
Adapt your friendshipzonecult into a distributed decentralized anonymous network or suffer the fate of all that came before you. Infiltration, sedition, corruption, decay, insignificance.
But hey at least you can convert the poo in the loos. You lost the white males in the 50s and you'll never get them back. The reeking desperation of this thread should amuse any who understand where the wellspring of power lies.
The history and culture of your people is in your DNA and can never be forgotten or destroyed.