I feel I fucked up some but not big time. I didnt have a kid I cant afford. Ive never been arrested for crimes or drugs or whatever. Everytime I do any kind of test of my potential I rank higher then others (ex: IQ in top 1% apparently). I'm in this cycle where I dont have the money to be happy and I dont have the attitude to make money. I see liars and thieves everywhere, karma doesnt exist in my reality.
I assume I'll be shredded but maybe someone can enlighten me. Worth a shot.
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Society kind of sucks in this regard. Almost makes me wish I lived in a socialized country.
It baffles me just how much more succesful you would've been in life if you were raised in a socialist-democratic European country.
This shows how drastically college fees influence someones life.
boo hoo. get help or take the lead pill
even with the free education and healthcare of the civilized world, even with a little red passport and european lineage, op would spend his days in poverty or a padded cell
because he's a burgermutt, he only has Holla Forums
this. the paranoid idiot with the super duper IQ score thinks every shit tier job he has had was out to get him. what a fuckwit
should i go to college guys? (((datamining)))
This is exactly what I deal with. I never said I had an impressive IQ, I stated that it was in the top 1% and thats supposed to be good implying it should be a boon to my situation.
Every job I have ever had has gone back on the offers made at time of employment. At about a year in, following all the rules and making the company a profit while exceeding the expectations for preformance I am presented with a "Well user, we just cant keep our promise because blah blah blah, hold out a few more years" I make the decision to not be continually lied to and resign from the job when the promises made are not kept without any actual reason. Now every job I seek jumps to this same conclusion. "oh, he must be taking a piss" because what are the odds right? (((datamining)))
tl:dr: "Sorry, we arent interested in butt fucking you because youve been butt fucked a lot in the past and you cry about it"
I'm literally a late 20's version of OP living in a socialist country. How the fuck does that help? (((datamining))) It just raises the barrier to success you retard.
or
yfw you worked all week to be $50 better off than a fucking welfare bum. And then your car needs fucking tires, or something breaks.
Add the 40 year fucking mortgages to buy a home - assuming you can save the 20% deposit protip - you can't
>HURRR DURR SOCIALISM WOULD FIX IT :-DD
The problem is simple market dynamics, oversupply of humans and lack of demand for the cunts. And you can guarantee some fucking pajeet is willing to do your job cheaper, take out a longer mortgage than you et cetera.
Your money handling skills must really, really suck to have worked for 10 years and have nothing to show for it fam,
It may be the reason, or partly, why your family doesn't just blindly give you any, there is no incentive that it would even help you.
Most late teens working entry level jobs can cobble together 1k to buy a beater or a 450 supermoto some squid dropped one too many times.especially if at the time your dad was paying your biggest and most important bill, rent.
What have you been doing all this time? (((datamining)))
What have you done with your income? (((datamining)))
I mean, if this is a 'coasted off my parents till 25, now I have quad gtx1080 titans, a fridge fill of hot pockets and an extensive anime figurine collection' we have no sympathy.
Unlike OP tho I have a decent car, two horses and couple grand put away. So yeah.
This is what I'm saying. Im not some weeb with a 10k meme station that pisses in bottles.
The highest paid job I've had was $13/hr
$2080/month
-%30 taxes ($624)
-$550 rent
-$100-$200 food(includes food for 1 cat)
-$200 electric, internet, gas etc…
The left over $500 a month I would try to save but
it always gets eaten by something. I wont deny my money handling skills need work. I just feel the only thing I can do to save that little bit of money is to completely forego all activities that arent completely required (no tv, no web, no vidya, no friends etc) and live on milk and beans, spend all my savings on debt and then on investments for another 5-10 years. Seems kinda crazy to work 40/hrs a week, spend your free time getting chores done, traveling to and from work and winding down so you have the energy to get up and do it all again.
is the only way to get "ahead" by being dishonest? (((datamining))) Is my problem that I want to do what's right and honest? (((datamining)))
You're not supposed to be doing this alone user,
You where supposed to find a girlfriend and live as a couple, or at the very least have a housemate or two that share common interests.
Trying to cover the cost of living solo is an endless grind, and left for people who truly enjoy being alone (And pay for it), Not for people who never found themselves
You don't have to be dishonest, but quitting when you don't get what you wanted, or even what you where promised isn't productive. If you don't like where you work, look for a better job BEFORE YOU QUIT.
Jobs are like women, easier to get one when you already have one, not to mention it's how society is structured, you're supposed to have an entry level job, and use that to leverage a better position, and continue on until you're content with the workload vs income
Great advice thank you.
I did have a gf for about 3 of those 10 years but she was just leeching my income and sleeping with other guys. That set me back some for sure. The whole finding a new job before you quit, tbh, I never understood that in the early days. I was unaware that leaving a job because of mistreatment would halt further job opputunities. I felt, in all those jobs, that I was biting my tongue about mistreatment and hoping it would pass. Only to increase and thus my patience would break forcing me to leave vs. knocking the fuck out of a manager for fucking me over
It's hard for me to see niggers collect more money then me because they knocked up some bitch or jumped infront of a lambo for the disability. Its hard to watch these autistic fucks 10years my senior making 100k+ on twitch and youtube. I'm patting myself on the back for not killing myself or someone else, but it doesnt amount to shit.
Thanks for reading guys and thanks for not completely flaming this post. I'll keep on grinding…
You need to find a job that you enjoy and excel at. I have silly morning job (that I enjoy), and they are currently paying me to not work while I am recovering from my injuries. They actually appreciate their employees. It's not a dream job but it's playing my bills until I finish my internships so I can get my dream job. Sometimes you got to settle until you find your way.
No one fucking cares, you God damn peacock!
GO JUMP ON ONE OF YOUR MAJESTIC BEASTS AND RIDE OFF INTO THE SUNSET!
Don't worry, 30's is a good age.
So long as you have a place, a car and money for dinner, there are plenty of career focused girls looking for that last dick to get them pregnant and settle down before 40
And to be honest, their the great looking, smart, experienced women who skipped over the sea of chads and made it to personal success.
Just work on you, join a gym, get some personal training, take an interest in how you present yourself and branch out a little, find some chill dude to split the bills with, a gymbro or dirtbike bro with a huge friends list.
Seriously, women, especially those who have been through the grind themselves, don't care about what's in you wallet, But what you do with what you have.
You'll never truly know the profound impact a simple chan post can have. Thank You
You will have your majestic beast someday user.
you're not alone, user.
the best job i ever had was working for a government agency dealing with child abuse. i worked the night shift, had zero social life, but the pay was decent and they didn't lie to us.
every job i've had in the private sector has lied to me about the real job duties, had zero chance for advancement, low pay, shitty people, no recognition for intelligence or productivity. they just want another pair of arms, that's it.
i eventually saved enough money that i started a new life in a foreign country. im still trying to make it work (getting a long-term visa or residency is a bitch unless you're wealthy).
the good thing i no longer have to clean puke off sidewalks.
Checked, this user is right op. If you can't make money you can always work on your physical equity. dunno about the girls stuff tho they're gross tbhsmhfam
THIS!
A wise user here…with nice things to say about women…scary….
I know I will. There are stables for rent right by my house. I will get one and buy a horse once I am more successful!
I WILL RIDE OFF INTO THE SUNSET!
One day….
Do you have any idea how much college costs in the US? (((datamining)))
I still have no idea why anyone would bother. It's cheaper here, but still not free. Unless you're studying medicine it's almost certainly better to just go into a trade oh but i'm too smart to be a mere tradespeasant
If I were you I'd join the army. It's pretty easy if you're not a fat shit couch potato and can follow stupid and boring orders like picking up pinecones and cleaning all day.
And, unless you pick an infantry MOS like a retard or something like 25U or 88M the odds of seeing combat is almost nonexistent. I think they'll even pay off your student debt for you but I don't know how that works. Age limit for enlisting is 35, godspeed user.
That's a nice narrative you got there buddy but it's not backed up by facts. The cost of college is also directly related to what op wrote if you actually read it.
Forgot to add that you need to read your contract top to bottom be signing it and any enlistment bonus or thing of that nature isn't going to happen if it isn't in the contract. Make sure you get the quick ship bonus for an ez $20,000.
I dont have an issue with combat. I would actually prefer it, had we a real enemy. I have a few cousins that have gone to the desert to shoot towel heads and while theyre deployed their wives cheat on them with other men. Now theyre stuck with the kids and half the bill all because "Well we gotta get married before deployment for the tax benefits etc." Not to mention Ive seen how the government treats soldiers like disposable commodities.
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He talks about it like its par for the course
That's the product they sell, yeah.
lol if you have a girlfriend/wife in the military she is going to cheat on you. now that gay marriage is a thing a lot of dudes are starting to just marry a male friend and share an apartment with the free BAH and BAS.
would like to see a comparison to the various trades & the earnings being a contractor
Had a good kek about this. There's no good-looking unmarried woman in her 30s who "skipped over the sea of chads." More like "who spent the last 15-20 years being buffeted about by endless waves of chad cock and is now looking to settle down with an accommodating beta who's okay with her past and her herpes."
Let's be clear about this: women in their 30s aren't willing to finally date you because they've realized what super guys your type are, they're willing to date you because they've hit the wall, and chads now prefer women 10-15 years their junior. They'll tolerate you, but keep in mind that if they get drunk on a "girls' night out" and Chad Thundercock hasn't managed to go home with a younger woman by the time the bar closes, he's going to be balls deep in your gf or wife before she comes home.
you sound like all you care about is money. you deserve your pain.
yeah tell me about it when you move out from your moms house
What if she was a super fatty recluse and has lost all the weight and doesnt have the social bravery yet to fuck chad? (((datamining))) What if she was prescribed psych meds wrongfully at a young age and was completely convinced by religion to stay "pure" but now that shes gotten off the meds realizes that life is more complicated then that? (((datamining)))
MOST american or w.european women
Forget excelling and forget 'enjoying', I haven't even been able to find one I can at bare minimum tolerate. They're all dead-end shit where I live that I can't stand for longer than a month. The one time I found one that I could somewhat bear and thought I could stick with for a while the place barely gave me any hours. turned out to be mismanaged, and was dishonest as fuck.
I've got somewhat of an idea of what I want to try out, I like working out so I might as well try shooting for working at a gym or something at least, but I'll need to go through the education system again most likely and for that I need money. I fucking wish I knew what I wanted to do 4 years ago. God damn it.
Call me when the world stops draining money.
You may as well be looking for a fucking unicorn. You're working with the same odds.
Super fatties are even bigger whores than normal women. They're easy because sexual attention boosts their self esteem. So instead of having been fucked by chads, she was fucked by any guy with a hardon who was willing to respond to her craigslist ad or Tinder profile.
The only recluses who don't get laid are male recluses. If you're a woman, you don't need to leave your house to get cock. The cock comes to you.
>lost all the weight and doesnt have the social bravery yet to fuck chad? (((datamining)))
Unless she's a mess of loose skin, she'll be on chad's dick long before she ever looks your way. And if she is a mess of loose skin, she's not attractive (and we're talking about user's mythical attractive 30s women), and she still spent her 20s getting railed by anything with a pulse.
>What if she was prescribed psych meds wrongfully at a young age and was completely convinced by religion to stay "pure" but now that shes gotten off the meds realizes that life is more complicated then that? (((datamining)))
What an utterly contrived scenario. Reread what you wrote and think about how stupid you sound.
Wew. You know, the handful of exceptions to the rule are irrelevant. Are millions of beta men like you in their 30s going to share the couple of dozen attractive women who made it to their 30s without being chad's cumsock? (((datamining))) Guess you'd better start working on legalizing polyandry, and hope you draw a low number so you can have sloppy 100ths instead of sloppy 10,000ths. The fuck outta here.
Man, I thought my life was fucked up but you got it bad man. I'm sorry you didnt get to fuck the cheerleader when you were 15. Keep pressing that self-fulfilling prophecy. Probably like traps at this point, definitely dont think much of women.
Wow, you are so self defeating user, it's sad
Do you even know how many women study and work hard through their 20's? (((datamining))) no, you don't
Just like everyone they sacrifice having a personal life to do what they feel they where born to do, be a doctor, a mma fighter, an airline pilot, the list goes on
Men in their 30's are in their prime, they are the strongest they'll ever be, the most attractive they'll ever be, and have gained the most financial Independence and and understanding of how the world works
Unless your faggity ass likes twink boys, just look at 'sexiest man of the year' awards, popular actor and fitness models, for men they are almost exclusively 30-45
This kind of 'women are really just settling for you after being pounded by chads' delusion only suits men who want to blame their insecurities on others.
You have never met a woman in a profession, who grinded, sacrificed and gave up her 20's to be there, because you prey on scrags and never leave your house
inb4 more; But, but, all women are whores! Im not a failure u all are!
This guy gets it
No. user there is a lot of respectable women for various different reasons (religion, good parenting, personal goals, or just social retards) who aren't complete slut bags. I met one who refused to date any men until she was the head of a medical department. She just got married this year, in her late thirties, I might add. And she is the head of the entire fucking hospital! Her entire office is the third floor.
THIS!
Your understanding of the world is comical and naive. Let's break it down:
Pounded by chad doctors and medical students. Do you think female doctors were celibate when they were in med school? (((datamining)))
Pounded by chad mma fighters. Do you think female mma fighters are celibate when they're not training? (((datamining))) Also, talk about an example that really proves my point. What percentage of women are mma fighters? (((datamining))) Holy shit, user.
Pounded by chad pilots. Do you think female pilots are celibate when they're not flying? (((datamining))) Fuck, do you think they're celibate when they *ARE* flying? (((datamining))) Ever heard of the "Mile High Club"? (((datamining)))
I'd love to hear it. Your Disneyesque take on the world is the funniest thing I've seen on Holla Forums all day.
I know there is a lot of girls like that. The majority sadly. They rely on men for everything, use them up, leave them hurting. You just have to weed through it. Take your time. Shit people everywhere, be weary.
Wow, good thing women can't have sex without dating.
welcome to adult life you whiny millennial cunt.
waaahhhh!!! corporations are big meanies and I'm being bullied! moooommmmmiieeeee!!!!
I don't think would have sex without being married, or at least in love. She's not that kind of woman. I believe her. Super Cristian, just saying.
Tell me, user how old are you
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stay mad fat boy
We get it already, everyone but you is a chad, all women are whores and you feel compelled to scream it from the rooftops.
I'm sorry for you user. You have a fundamental critical failure in understanding the dynamics of society, and absolutely zero comprehension of women.
What's worse it this thread wasn't about relationships, you where just lurking through and decided to go off on a "reeeeeeee" tirade.
We get it, you where probably 17, imagined the rest of your life together like some neet fag, and she moved on. Let it go, move on yourself. Stop flaming image boards with your self loathing attention seeking crap. No wonder she left.
45, HS dropout, make 90k working in IT. ? (((datamining)))
Oh, user. You do realize that being Christian doesn't mean that she wasn't born with the same needs and desires as every other woman, right? (((datamining))) But that it does incentivize her extremely strongly to keep her indiscretions under wraps? (((datamining)))
"Super Christian" women fuck just as much as everyone else. They might beg God for forgiveness afterward, but only because they think he knows everything they do anyway. They're content to leave mere mortals in ignorance of their horizontal tangos.
Clearly, you don't.
Hardly. I'm in good company on 8/b/.
To be fair, this is not correct. Some women are in comas.
But they'll be whores again as soon as they wake up.
Indeed, but you're the one who felt compelled to bring relationships into it for some reason. >>7790055
Spoken like a man who can't address the actual content of what I'm saying. Since we're spinning tales about each other, let me take my turn. You've developed a fragile fantasy about the "pure" woman you're with. You want desperately to believe that she didn't spend her college years getting Eiffel Towered by drunken frat boys, and you eagerly slurp up her lies about how she was "too busy studying to do that kind of thing", but you suspect that there's more to the story, and it nags at you. Frankly, it eats at you. When your girl smiles up at you when she's about to give you your twice-annual blowjob (your birthday and your anniversary, but the latter only if you've treated her to something expensive), you want to believe that two dozen guys haven't seen the same sight, her on her knees, moistening her lips, getting ready to suck.
But you know they have.
Man she really fucked you up good mate
You should really talk your frustrations out with someone, or in a group setting.
Just stop doing it here
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You have serious insecurities about women who've had sex in the past
Stay away from children user
This is going to sound fucktarded, but hear me out. Move back in with your parents and save up. If they love you, they'll let you, if not, kick their ass.
yeah man ive thought about it but its not really on the table and even if it were it would mean giving up random sexcapades
Says the guy who's desperate to believe in an abundance of attractive 30-something women who didn't spend their 20s using their free pass to Chad's Cock Carousel.
Also, two responses to the same post four minutes apart? (((datamining))) Don't be so shook. Calm down, take a few breaths and think about all of the desperate rationalizations you want to include in your post before hitting that button.
If you're having sexcapades, stop bitching.
Bro, I turned 20 recently and have never had a job, I can't even get started. I feel you on the world being out to get you OP, people trying to manipulate and mess with you is happening more and more to everybody it seems.
Honestly I don't know why you'd want to buy an old junker car, it's a money pit. I'd bike so I can keep up with a fitness routine to and from work, or take the bus and walk as a backup plan.
I have goals in life, but no drive, I've had no dopamine rush for accomplishing them.
A majority of starbucks iPhone ugg western white women are nigger-loving dog-fucking cockmumblers that commit bestiality of all kinds. Send them all to hell. I don't know why my fellow peckerwoods are still attracted to that trash. My fellow vanilla niggas, don't mess around with these basic hoes.
I was 'bitching' about money. Not women. That other dude starting going off about women. Im not worried about that. As far as the bike thing, thats all nice if you live in a warm state. I live in the north east US were a good portion of the year is snowy, rainy weather. Theres no way I could cycle to a job 10-15 miles away in the rain. Youre basically saying "Save some money by risking your income" lol
I appreciate the advice, things are just more complicated and the honest truth is I need to eat shit at a bad job until I can afford the prerequisites for a better job
Same, north east US, maybe I'll move further south to the Red States where people aren't so Nu Male Pax East Fez 2 Montreal archetypal sissyboy black cock rapers that voted Hillary "I acquitted a child rapist" Clinton or Bernie "Communist Cuck Cuck Cuck" Sandahs.
Living closer to the money will also help if you can put up with roommate assholes living closer to the city, so biking and walking are more plausible.
Yeah, ive lived in a college town and beach town where you can get everything done on foot or by scooter. In this area you cant get to a grocery store without walking 2hrs and in bad weather fucking forget it. Location is a big part of it. Like $13 an hour is really good around for jobs that dont require a degree but rent is generally $750-$1300 for a two bedroom. So at $550 im in a fucking steal for getting to live on my own. Roommates suck so much dick and generally fucks your friendship up when youre constantly bombarded by each others idiosyncrasies. It was ok when I was roomies with my girlfriend but then you get the "Oh I cant afford the rent this month" while shes on the final stroke before you cum, lol
There's a butcher shop that sells organic meats looking for a FOH person (basically a cashier)
They offer $10-$12/hr but want you to have an associates degree and 3years experience. The wage and the experience dont correlate. Entry level for an associates degree is easily $15+ with all the fixin's
do you have any idea how much college cost before access was socialized? (((datamining))) low enough that you could work your way through. this is what loading the system with dead weight does.
euro colleges cost just as badly but it's obfuscated in to taxes.
There is a lot of guys here who are really shy and awkward around the opposite sex. Is it so hard to believe that there is females out there with that same problem? (((datamining))) I get that vibe from her.
I believe she didn't get there by dick riding. She got there with hard work and actually fucking caring about the patients. I cried too. That's why she pulled me aside. Meeting her made my daily existence a little easier.
Ok, I know this isn't true, but it still made me laugh my ass off. That's for the chuckle.