Can sexual fetishes go away? Can I get rid of them?
I think the thing that causes my fetish is my terrible fuckup of a life and the fact that I hate myself. I feel inferior. So the fetish sexualises it I guess. But the question is if I improved my self esteem and fixed my life a bit, would it reverse the fetish? Or is it always going to be here?
Not to be mean but I really don't want peoples opinions, but what people know for sure about this stuff. Is there anyone here who really knows what they're talking about on psychology and can help?
Charles Myers
STOP MASTURBATING
Juan White
This Also Varg is a massive faggot
Jackson Garcia
Yeah, I took it as a given that I'd need to stop whacking off and looking at porn. But would this actually remove a particular fetish given time?
Christopher Walker
You have to build your mindset properly, to push all the fetish and pron shit away from your head the moment it enters your mind.
Connor Kelly
What fetish?
Owen Fisher
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Brayden Wood
What's the fetish? Tell us so we can make fun of you. Seriously, that'll help, associating it with shame. Unless that's the fetish itself.
With pedos they make them learn to associate children with things they hate, like spiders, vomit, tumors, etc. You have to make your brain associate the fetish you don't want with things that disgust you.
Christopher Collins
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Hunter Gray
I love monster girl now tho.
Oliver King
where are the ponies?
Dominic Long
if you get addicted to 2D just think about your fav 2D when u fug
Evan Evans
Yes. But you have to understand that sexual want is the same, maybe worste than drugs addiction or alcohol addiction. So you have to fight hard, and the certain first step you can chose is to gtfo out anything related to your sexual deviance. Leave Holla Forums. Seriously, if you continue to come here (I'm never here btw), you'll become the same as the other posters, meaning you'll certainly be a faggot, or a pedo. Not because you were born on, but because you become perverted. Saying that "faggotry" is something you're born with is fucking retarded. You become a faggot by perversion. It's actually one of the first perversion some huge pervert catch. There is an after. After, it's BDSM, it's pedophilia, scato etc… And other nasty stuff, because you jerk so much you need more.
Yes, you can stop being a faggot. Yes, you can stop being perverted. But you'll need to work hard. Beat yourself up each time the bad idea comes up, the same as alcohol (even worste, since sexual pleasure is the greatest pleasure of all). Don't fall for the LGBT propaganda. Don't fall for the pornographer that promote pornography. Remember that the first people that want to promote pedophilia are the one at the head of the mafia making billions out of it. They want you to fall for it. LGBT want you to become a faggot, as it'll strengthen themselves and legitimate them even better.
First step: Get the fuck out of Holla Forums. Psychological wound takes more time to heal. Fight my friend. Chose order upon chaos.
Leo Morris
sorry for the bad english. Happen too much I want to write "one" and my hand write on…
Brayden Hernandez
I can't see women's feet in real life without wanting to smell and lick them, feet is the only thing that makes my cock hard.
A barefeet girl or a girl using flip flops is enough make me pre-cum.
Adrian Powell
Ah, good thing I never come to Holla Forums anyway . I just came here to ask this because I didn't know where else to go.
But you sound right and give me hope. Thanks friend.
Ryan Roberts
Varg is a mentally ill murderer, kill yourself.
Justin Hughes
That's extreme. In my case something to think about when fapping, because I can mostly control my hardons in public. I am curious about two things:
1. Since when did you like feet? (OP pay attention to this one) 2. Do you have preference for certain feet?
My own answers: 1. Since before puberty believe it or not. 2. Big, slender, smooth soles and skin.
You can control your own impulses. But to actually get rid of them brain damage and/or castration are probably required, to unwire your brain. I know you think you can unwire it manually: I say no, because shame is not strong enough an emotion to power your will to undo loving what has pleasured you for years. But who knows maybe I'm wrong, good luck to you.
Samuel Rogers
Last month I fapped while smelling my aunt's socks, a 8/10 milf, at a ily reunion
Same as you, I discovered almost at the same time that I discovered masturbation
Big and smooth
Charles Cook
Nice, a bro who likes what I like! If you want, upload your big feet videos on >>>/feet/ because that place is dead.
Evan Williams
I don't have many, but I'll see what I can do later.
Carson Morris
life is suffering sometimes
Christian Brooks
FEET CONFIRMED BEST FETISH
Ryder Lopez
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Joshua Harris
fighting against your fetish is retarded it is like forcing yourself to eat vegetables when you in fact desire steaks.
Connor Kelly
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William Young
then why are you not fucking sharing it with us?
Thomas Cox
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Noah Nelson
just replace it with a better fetish
Nathan Ortiz
It is possible to retrain your tastes but it's about as difficult as unlearning the piano
Zachary Jackson
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Isaac Thomas
I used to have midget fetish but it disappeared. Btw, no, I'm not a subhuman pedo either.
Ian Rodriguez
I wonder this myself. (((Google))) is no help because if you look up how to have normal sexual thoughts they tell you that the degenerate shit in your head is normal.
Connor Evans
w e w l a d
Mason Fisher
When I was a kid I had a vore fetish. I used to re-read stories talking about dragons and dinosaurs eating people over and over and over. I experienced my first erection to this. By the time I was a teenager it didn't interest me anymore. As an adult though I am not sure.
Jason Baker
easier said than done, user. I'll take yor word for it. a hobby or skill is a good substitute in the past, just hard to keep up. I think I'll want to start doing more things.