The love of my life went to Sweden and is now fucking the son of christian extremists...

Holla Forums is more full of autistics like me and makes getting problems off my chest a little bit easier.

But thanks, I will definitely check it out maybe it can help

Im not gonna go full autistic by debating christianity now. As long as she is happy with it im glad for her. But I ain't gonna go crying to any god for mercy.

I think her idea is more like to pervert the perfect christian boy. Like a mommy complex of some type.

What took you so long.
I expected this as a first comment.

Sorry, I was fapping to lolis

No need to apologize, at least you got here.
Also, I hope you had a nice fap

Only the best faps can keep me from an an hero thread

I had a similar situation. The woman in my situation didn't move country, but she picked some fucking dweeb from my uni that runs a fucking vape stall over me. Not that I think I'm "better" than him, but I did think I had much more in common with her than him.

Like most people on here, I'm socially retarded so this was the first real female contact id ever had. It took me like 2 months just to convince my self she wasn't just pretending to like me as some big joke to hurt me ( girls often did that to me in high school, the old "haha he though I actually liked him. I'm gonna go tell my friends and laugh about it to humiliate him" game.)
I found it really hard to show how much I liked her, I'd stiffen up when she went for a hug or kiss. I think this is why she left looking back on it from a more self critical stand point.
It really fucked me up for months afterwards. I hated her so much, but I was also completely obsessed with her. I eventually got the "let's just be friends" line after a few months of dating. Then I found out she was seeing this other guy the whole time.
After she asked just to be friends with me, I'd still go out and do shit with her between lessons (stupid I know). One day we were walking around the museum beside uni and she asks if I want to go meet with "scott" (the vape stall guy), so I said yeah of course. On the walk to meet "scott", she drops "oh yeah, scotts my boyfriend"

"oh. Right"

"oh did I not tell you, I thought I did"

So basically at that point I found out that she'd been lying to me about being interested in me. I was nothing more than one sided emotional support and someone to fuck. I fucking told her I loved her and shit because I really did, the 6ish months we seen each other for were really happy times for me. But I was only a side project in the end.

It's shit. Women are shit. But you eventually get over it and imo going through stuff like that is "good" for me as i never knew what women were like before this.

Hopefully you get over it someday, just try and keep your head up. I started running and reading to take my mind off it. Just find something that works for you.

post fapping material or it didn't happen

I just want to fit in guys

Glad to hear that dude.

Yeah, kinda the same situation, except that we didn't formally go out. We just kinda where fuck friends while she was going through harsh shit (moved to sweden because stepfather beated her)
I was her emotional support, and at that time it was fine, we weren't in love we just hanged about and fucked. Perfect relationship so far.

But after some time she just blocked me out completely, had to gain her trust again up to the point where she told me she was feeling stuff for me just before she left and thats why she was so blunt. That sparked my emotions somehow and I fell for her. Bad idea. Kinda felt used in 1 occasion where we met for a week for a concert and fucked once.

And a month after things kinda seemed to be starting to work again she just goes out with this guy.

Feels like shit, will try running and reading, maybe it will work out. Also will try distracting myself with something else.

Still feel completely like shit though.

Youre just in a rut right now..if youre white spend your time in strip clubs or with backpage girls bit use protection. The pain will eventually go away..if youre non white just kill yourself.

How about you beat a noose around your neck and jump off of a bridge?

what diday excpect

where's the third nipple?
and I don't see miley
My fap could have been much more extreme

Also important note

We are still friends and she will probably tell me everything she does with the guy. Can't leave her be because she has suicidal tendencies and I fear that if the guy leaves and im not helping she may just end it.

Im white, but a poorfag right now, strip clubs won't work. But if I get a part time job soon I may try that. Always interested in trying that.

Nah, I don't think i wanna die, I just want to cease to exist for a while or feel something other than excruciating pain.

Try CP, it seems Holla Forums is having an uproar with it right now, I don't aprove it but you will fit perfectly.

You must be new here

Nah but it had been a while since so many came to the website, you could see 1 thread a day or such. but now 50-60% talk about it since the page number fail the mods did.

I mean, the pedo content has always been there. We just tolerated it because there wasn't a lot of it, and they knew not to spam the boards
And they weren't stupid enough to continuously post cp

You're exactly right. It will calm down eventually, or at least I hope so.

I'm glad we agree oldfriend

Im going to give you the best advice of your life. Dont be a clingy fuck. Be an alpha male. Make like you have moved on and are having a good time. When she text you wait 2 hours, hell maybe even a day before you text back. If she asks why make up like you did something fun and exciting that day. Only when she thinks youve mover on and have confidence will she want to hook back up. When that day comes fuck the shit out of her for a little while, then cheat on her with a prettier girl or at least make her think you did. She will be insecure and know you can get better chicks and wont leave again. After that leave her in no longer than a years time. Youre transformation into alpha will be complete and a decent white woman will come your way. Until then backpage girls are only 100 bucks. You have got to get a job though, first and foremost. The best one you can find.

pick one

Sounds like clasic depression to me. Here is some legitimate advice OP.
Lost love feeling never truely goes away but it can be "overwriten" like overwriting a videogame save file by starting a relationship with any other girl. It's the most effective way.
Get somewhat /fit/ to help with girls and improve depression.
Begin a brand new social circle from a regular extra activity like learning a new language, sport, martial art, gym, job,etc.
Also voluntary work does wonders for depression.
If you want somenthing you never had, do something you never did

Best way to get over a girl is to get under another one. This seems harder when youre younger. YOU, my friend are in the "friend zone" with this girl. Never ever be in the "Friend zone". You are giving the emotional support and a shoulder to cry on and another guy is getting the benefits.

If any of us really had our shit together we wouldn't be here

Op cares more about him being a "christian extremist" than being cucked from every side… made you think.
She was a whore whoring and you were and are ok with that, you are the problem, tell her the truth, cut everything and think that maybe being a christian isnt that bad, btw, christian, already have pagan qt, satanic qt and fedora qt, they are all cheating whores like catholics, maybe protestant qts are ok?

Sounds possible. Gonna try it but not gonna live for it.

Sounds like a good advice. Thanks, i always wanted to learn some type of martial arts or just general boxing.

At least once a year I need advice, and the best ones suprisingly always comes from Holla Forums.

I care because I had been listening to all the problems she had just to become friends with him, and i thought myself to be a better man for her. It seems I was wrong. But yeah im the problem, not because I am or I am not religious, it's my attitude as a beta.

Yes, I know. That's why I need to get away.

You care a lot about that, its even in your first line.

I care because it surprised me that even with his inability to socialize (which came because of religious parents) he got something that I couldn't.

I understand your point but really, religion is not the issue, just another point to express my situation corrrectly.

Well, i am in the same position than him and i am a manwhore according to Holla Forums standards, christians got pagans, satanics and fedoras, not sure why, but thats the reality. My point is more "freudian", about you giving fucks internally about something, just read your own posts, now to the girl, you have a system, it had consequences, you already know what will happen, it happened and now you are focussing on saying that you arent focussed on x thing not related to your "failure" according to you, its like hearing a cradle of filth song or Holla Forums blaming jews for everything.

Can you tell me about the circumstances under which your friend punched you? What happened leading up to that?

Now well that's fucking it OP, life is suffering in general, we just tend to ignore that part because we are faggy weaklings brought up in a society that gives us illusions of a "normal life". Tell me, what would this "normal life" be OP? Having shit degenerate friends that betray you the second they would have to sacrifice even the tiniest bit of their hedonism for you? Having a girlfriend that not only leaves you, but the entire country, because she's gotta "live her life" or some stupid shit that women in their twenties I'm guessing that's around the age both of you are OP think because their head is full of hormon fueld nonsense? Fuck OP, a normal life nowadays means being a piece of shit that buys lots of stuff and gets drunk all the time. If this was your first traumatizing expierence, well though luck there will be many more. If it wasn't, maybe you'll finally realise that in this life you can either be a defeastist that constantly puts himself into the victim role and whines about the most insignificant bit of trouble, or you find the strength to put yourself together and focus on improving your position and not being miserable. All that pain and anexiety you feel, all of it is energy that can drive you to improve yourself, and the most important part of it is finally standing up for yourself. You should be the first one that you care about, ignoring your own shit for the sake of others will just fuck you up in the long term and poison your relationships. If you're weak and miserable people will notice, and no one wants to be around someone who's weak and miserable, so this is the only advice I can give you, get fucking productiv and improve yourself, get a job, read books, lift, focus on your studies and most of all, realise that everything you have, and be it only your physical health, is valuable as shit.

Also you're just miserable for the moment, sooner or later you'll fall back into your daily life and forget how terrible it feels, until you hit another bump in the road and end up in the very same position again, complaining again, and forgetting again. Most people just don't draw conclusions once they no longer suffer immediately, don't ever ignore your actual problems and blindly hope for betterment, take fucking action.

You may be into something but i still doubt it's hat i really feel. I may have to give some insight to myself for it.

Keep in mind that we HAD a friendship, he wasn't a stranger or someone I knew, we where friends and did this types of comments of each other all the time.

That is basically it. I think he was going through some stuff which i didn't know but still I didn't want to keep being friends with someone like that. So contact was completely lost since then.

It wasn't my first encounter with something like this. But yeah you are completely right. We both are in our mid 20s. . I am currently getting some kind of timetable for stuff like that, gonna limit my autism time (games and being a shut in time) and change it into running, lifting reading and trying to forget this shit.

I know misery is temporary. I kinda have a fast healing time already, I am much better than yesterday. Soon it will be behind me and I will be able to joke about that shit.
Thanks, it is a solid advice.

Good idea, the best advice I've ever gotten in terms of scheduling anything is actually scheduling a day that you enjoy, which includes not only chores but also relaxation or vidya time, it really is up to you.

I will do that, that way it won't feel forced.

At least they're Cristian. :3