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6. With zero exceptions under even the most extreme circumstances, never tell her about your intel gathering, and practice strict opsec. Use electronic intel only to understand how to change her understanding; to test the efficacy of your designs and to recognize any threat facilitators that must be eliminated through subterfuge.
7. Eliminate her trust in her ability to get away with things by consistently catching her through being unpredictable. On occasion, show up at random times. When she's supposed to be at a restaurant/friend's house etc and is not, invent something that is drastic, thoughtful, dynamic, and real to justify why you had to stop by to surprise her. For example, claim that you were nearby and someone sideswiped your car–just lightly scrape a pole to cause inexpensive damage–and, since your phone was dead, you had to stop by to use her phone and report it ASAP. Now it's too late, and all because of her lie! The sting of such a lash will sustainably bring such perfidy to an abrupt halt.
8. Before marriage, place all your major assets in a pass-through entity that you control, or at least set one up even if you put nothing in it. Your attorney can manage the specifics, but, if done properly, this will shield all your assets without even needing a marriage contract, even in community property states, because the entity pre-dates the marriage.
9. Do not tell her about #8 until years later when she starts to waiver in her love and you already have children. With artful sugarcoating and presumed innocence, ensure she discovers on her own the legal reality of her situation while having nobody to blame but herself. She will then know her yoke, for she cannot walk away with anything besides minor alimony, thus leaving you alone with the incentive to end the relationship if she proves unworthy. This is not to be the jackass who abuses her but to eliminate the incentive for impugn theft that encourages women to ruin the lives of those who love them. Meanwhile, you'll simultaneously and permanently reinvigorate her incentive to be good to you and your family.
10. Above all, be good to her. While my approach has eliminated my wife's incentive to leave me, she's no slave. Rather, she's a wife, and that means we love each other within the institution of marriage, wherein we each play distinct roles designated by the natural order. I want it this way; that's why I've got a wife. If this is what you want, go out of your way to make her happy–a happy wife is a happy life. If you just want a slave, escorts are a lot cheaper and never age.
It goes without saying that you have to be capable of filling the man's role if you want this to work. You must be able to provide her with a home, steady income, and enough attention. Stop now if you think she's going to cook in your parents' basement or your crackhouse after you roll in at 3AM drunk with lipstick on your cheek for a quick bite and sex before work.
Every girl who is not irretrievably brainwashed dreams of having a man worthy of serving. Be that man and she's yours to keep forever; be a typical guy, and she'll treat you as such. But, likewise, girls are naughty sheep, and a pack of wolves will patiently wait for years and engage in the most extreme deceptions to lead her astray. In such an environment, you are ignorant to accept the commoner's wisdom that you should let her wander freely in hopes that she comes back. You must eat or be eaten, so there is nothing wrong with seizing your home turf to maximum advantage, nudging her away from danger, and crushing in their infancy competitors who will happy destroy you once fully grown.