Have a wife who is on your side no matter what. My case - her family alienated her so I had it even easier. Good raw material in spite of (and as a direct reaction to) her matriarchal family. Don't worry about the polish, worry about the raw material. Don't listen to women, but listen to your wife. Don't follow her, but listen to her. Be a leader and the wife will follow.
Teach the children our principles, the ones that made our race and nation great. Family and God first. Truth and Beauty(and thus how to discriminate positively toward the good). Strength and Honor. Intelligence and Pragmatism. Individualism. Correct mistakes, punish lies.
Don't drown them in the abstract, but demonstrate belief through action. Give them hypothetical scenarios so that they can learn how you think, how to respond, and what principles guide you. Show them your world and they will explore it. Expand your own interests for their sake.
You don't have to homeschool, but dear God get them into a fucking private school. Confessional Lutheranism is my particular brand of parochial school but find whoever shares your beliefs (more or less).
I don't really censor or deprive my kids of much media, but they already are pretty balanced and I can just turn stupid shit off because I'm their dad. Stories that emphasize honor, heroism, self-reliance. They will never fall for Marxist equality so long as we tell them heroic stories. In current culture: Ninja Turtles isn't too semitic, Batman, a little DBZ, et cetera. I don't censor, I discern and discriminate. It is never too early to train them to filter out Marxist culture. Tell them why you turned Daniel Tiger off, and that it is because he is a helpless effeminate pussy.
My 1st grader read the "Great Illustrated Classics" version of Robinson Crusoe last year, a decent abridged-for-kids series of old non-pozzed classics. Count of Monte Cristo is next up for vengeance's sake. We have read Tolkien and Lewis to them (really should do it more often). And the Bible, for about 10 minutes at night. Tonight was Galatians 3-4ish, a good selection to undermine the semitic "chosen people" meme.
Yeah kids programming is shit. The non-kids PBS has cooking/fishing/hunting shows that they actually enjoy more.
Get them a knife and teach the distinction between using it as a tool and weapon. Personal responsibility. Considering getting a $30 Daisy BB gun, but first things first.
Not on welfare, but EBT/Medicare is nice. I also don't consider it stealing, the government is reimbursing me for a valuable service I am rendering to them, namely, crafting the next generation of white American patriots with my loins, my hands, and my mind.