How do i get over my ex?

2 years ago i broke up with her after she cucked me, and i still love her. i still have dreams about her. how do i finally move on and purge her from my memory?

Suicide tbh fam

im in the same boat. Except it was gf of 15 years, married her for 5.

She fucked around on me once. And i caught her. And that was that.

it's been over one year, and 2 months.
and she messaged me yesterday (she usually randomly does this)
and i finally told her to just leave me alone.
IT's hard

I think it's because you really do still love her, but the question is. Can you live with her adultry? If you can, then get back together. But for me, i just can't.

Similar situation, but somewhat reversed. My ex cheated on me and left me two years ago. I went nuts for a while afterwards, but I cut her off completely. Yes, part of me will always love her, but when a girl cheats on me, she's dead to me.

In order to get over her I radically changed how I date and adopted the "pair and a spare" principle. I kept havine oneitus. "Her face isn't as pretty." "Her tits aren't as awesome." "She's an even bigger slut." etc. I realized I wasn't going to find one perfect girl right away to replace the feelings I had for her, so I just slightly lowered my standards and overcompensated by dating three girls at a time.

Now she calls me every once in a while with a new number sad that I won't talk to her, and I don't give a shit.

i think i'm in the reverse situation with the messaging. it sounds like she's moved on fine. i haven't contacted her but i want to. i want to unblock her on facebook and tell her that i'm still in love with her, but i know it won't make me feel better.

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see, when your with someone for 15 years and you marry her. Its' not as easy as just "cutting her off".

I really did love her.

Infact, we were about to start trying to make a kid, and retirement (million dollars) was only 5 years away.

She threw all of that away. And what really pisses me off. She's not with the
guy she cheated on me with. She left him 2 months after she left the house.

So I ask myself this everyday. "why". Why fuck up something good, only to start yourself over from square one.

Makes no sense.

I was just looking for a thread to cringe up.
Here's my weekly diary post on Holla Forums.
1o/6/2769 slept 17somethng-oooo. nightmares are worse than ever, invading my waking more and more. Really should not be hungry after eating great food. before o43o finished th tom sum and cola w/ bread, hard to use my damned mug w/o th handle but replacements are $1o in th mall, everythng is jacked up worse nw than in th hyperinflation. Accidentally slept from like 13-192oish, dressed and walked quickly, got there 2ooo, mat was playing at a full table so I went to sit next to jade, he had to point out a chair for me again, I’m being to hard on myself but I feel so fucking incompetent all th fucken time. They were in a game, jade asked how I was, I can’t explain, asked how much his shrink is, he said to get a trust to pay for th first 1o, didn’t really get to talk to him after that, he was busy w/ richard & his gf & her brother, ewen asked me to buy boosters so I did, 2$15 15 card boosters, he said to get th 5th down on th 3rd row, that one had a $6o foil mythic, jade put it in a sleeve & in his bag, he left w/ it, should sell it, I nw have too many cards to hold in th box, everyone else has lives going on, jade is back in his cage & had 3 job interviews since richard last saw him, had a trial he has been working at this wk, but if he gets another job on monday he’ll swap, richard said jade is ‘fucking’ getting back together with Kosh.
I feel so fucken hollow. Later julian & amie showed up, amie asked if I wanted to move in with them, I agreed, mat has plans going and amie wanted to get her sister a bf so she asked mat and mat played her of to vincent who mat wanted to get laid, mat & jade spent awhile arguing about netflix & petrol money while amie & mat seat swapped so he could ask me to move in, I tried to keep up conversation w/ her but I was also still ina game w/ richard’s group, I need to u my interaction w/ them. After 22, as ewen, walt & aaron & his crew had to go, I talked to mat alittl, mat had already eaten mcd so I stalled to see if anyone else wanted to go but when jade & julians game ended rich & julian decided that was it, so amie asked if I wanted a ride, I stalled seeing if we were doing anythng else, mat was supposed to get a ride w/ us but he was late so I asked about it, amie answered but I couldn’t hear her, then she explained she was eavesdropping in his plan, so I trusted that & we went w/o him, no idea how that went. In bed 23oo.

Smoke weed/bang escorts
Done and done

Murder