How do i get over my ex?

2 years ago i broke up with her after she cucked me, and i still love her. i still have dreams about her. how do i finally move on and purge her from my memory?

Suicide tbh fam

im in the same boat. Except it was gf of 15 years, married her for 5.

She fucked around on me once. And i caught her. And that was that.

it's been over one year, and 2 months.
and she messaged me yesterday (she usually randomly does this)
and i finally told her to just leave me alone.
IT's hard

I think it's because you really do still love her, but the question is. Can you live with her adultry? If you can, then get back together. But for me, i just can't.

Similar situation, but somewhat reversed. My ex cheated on me and left me two years ago. I went nuts for a while afterwards, but I cut her off completely. Yes, part of me will always love her, but when a girl cheats on me, she's dead to me.

In order to get over her I radically changed how I date and adopted the "pair and a spare" principle. I kept havine oneitus. "Her face isn't as pretty." "Her tits aren't as awesome." "She's an even bigger slut." etc. I realized I wasn't going to find one perfect girl right away to replace the feelings I had for her, so I just slightly lowered my standards and overcompensated by dating three girls at a time.

Now she calls me every once in a while with a new number sad that I won't talk to her, and I don't give a shit.

i think i'm in the reverse situation with the messaging. it sounds like she's moved on fine. i haven't contacted her but i want to. i want to unblock her on facebook and tell her that i'm still in love with her, but i know it won't make me feel better.

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see, when your with someone for 15 years and you marry her. Its' not as easy as just "cutting her off".

I really did love her.

Infact, we were about to start trying to make a kid, and retirement (million dollars) was only 5 years away.

She threw all of that away. And what really pisses me off. She's not with the
guy she cheated on me with. She left him 2 months after she left the house.

So I ask myself this everyday. "why". Why fuck up something good, only to start yourself over from square one.

Makes no sense.

I was just looking for a thread to cringe up.
Here's my weekly diary post on Holla Forums.
1o/6/2769 slept 17somethng-oooo. nightmares are worse than ever, invading my waking more and more. Really should not be hungry after eating great food. before o43o finished th tom sum and cola w/ bread, hard to use my damned mug w/o th handle but replacements are $1o in th mall, everythng is jacked up worse nw than in th hyperinflation. Accidentally slept from like 13-192oish, dressed and walked quickly, got there 2ooo, mat was playing at a full table so I went to sit next to jade, he had to point out a chair for me again, I’m being to hard on myself but I feel so fucking incompetent all th fucken time. They were in a game, jade asked how I was, I can’t explain, asked how much his shrink is, he said to get a trust to pay for th first 1o, didn’t really get to talk to him after that, he was busy w/ richard & his gf & her brother, ewen asked me to buy boosters so I did, 2$15 15 card boosters, he said to get th 5th down on th 3rd row, that one had a $6o foil mythic, jade put it in a sleeve & in his bag, he left w/ it, should sell it, I nw have too many cards to hold in th box, everyone else has lives going on, jade is back in his cage & had 3 job interviews since richard last saw him, had a trial he has been working at this wk, but if he gets another job on monday he’ll swap, richard said jade is ‘fucking’ getting back together with Kosh.
I feel so fucken hollow. Later julian & amie showed up, amie asked if I wanted to move in with them, I agreed, mat has plans going and amie wanted to get her sister a bf so she asked mat and mat played her of to vincent who mat wanted to get laid, mat & jade spent awhile arguing about netflix & petrol money while amie & mat seat swapped so he could ask me to move in, I tried to keep up conversation w/ her but I was also still ina game w/ richard’s group, I need to u my interaction w/ them. After 22, as ewen, walt & aaron & his crew had to go, I talked to mat alittl, mat had already eaten mcd so I stalled to see if anyone else wanted to go but when jade & julians game ended rich & julian decided that was it, so amie asked if I wanted a ride, I stalled seeing if we were doing anythng else, mat was supposed to get a ride w/ us but he was late so I asked about it, amie answered but I couldn’t hear her, then she explained she was eavesdropping in his plan, so I trusted that & we went w/o him, no idea how that went. In bed 23oo.

Smoke weed/bang escorts
Done and done

Murder

i've only fallen in love once. dated 15 grils in total, thought i'd been in love, then she came along and… oh wow. yeah, THAT'S what real love is like. absolutely motherfucking life-changing.
then she left. so i started using heroin and crack. she's still gone. it's still as raw as ever. its been 4 and a half years. i will never get over her, never. i rarely even enjoy sex any more.
get high, op. just smoke it all away.

I know it sounds cliche but it just takes time. There is nothing you can do at the current moment except kill yourself to dull the pain.

You just have to ride it out. I've been there man.

I got you fam here is guide how to forget ex gf.

1. find nearly same gf as first gf

She might not be perfect as first one but it will make everything else easier.

t. cuck who had enough

what if she was the only woman on the planet who doesn't find me completely disgusting? how do i find an alternate gf if they don't exist?

woah there i never said it will work if you are fat or ugly. If you are then im sorry never gf for you pal.

kys

You have something what i call "Rei complex". In your mind you have made woman so perfect she fit all your attributes emotional and sexual. You dont love the woman you were with you only love that memory. In fact there are plenty reis out of there who can make you even more happier if you wish for it and let old rei die.

With a truck or a heavy car. Will purge her from your memory and existence in general. Not sure about the legal ramifications.

you're misunderstanding what i'm saying.
i'm not saying i can never love another woman. what i'm saying is that my ex was the only woman in the world who loved me back

i've approached plenty of woman i thought were charismatic and funny and sexy and cute and interesting and everything that i want in a gf, and every single one shut me down and rejected me. aside from my ex, the only other woman who was attracted to me was completely uncharismatic and bland, never had anything interesting to say, didn't seem very bright, was too fat for me to be able to tolerate, etc. that's when i realized that that's what my "league" is, and i gave up on dating. my ex was with me because she's so insecure and i met the only 2 bullet points she needs.
1. i'm not ugly or fat
2. i like her
it was a fluke. i'm not going to find someone like her ever again.

you sound like that youtube guy who harasses girls on the street asking them to go out with him. stop spering out and girls will start to like you back

Why did she left you if she is fat and ugly.

because he was the same

i asked out women i'd already known for years. i don't approach strangers on the street like a retard

So you are saying that you cant find another fat and ugly girl like her. Are you really saying this on anonymous image board.

my ex is beautiful and cute.

the fat ugly girl i was talking about was someone else i met on okcupid, in the aftermath of me leaving my ex after she cucked me.

No, i'm saying that the OP is a fat and ugly faggot. Can you read?

and now everyone thinks i called my ex "fat and ugly" because this dyslexic idiot can't read.

So you are fat and ugly or she is fat and ugly.

neither of us are fat or ugly.
she was never ugly, but maybe she got fat since i last saw her, i don't know. i haven't seen her in 2 years.

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fucking fat fuck, I saw you in the hall the other day, you look like a bowling ball.

yeah i bet you did


i'm 6'2" 150lbs. i was considering posting a picture of my face, but what's the point arguing with trolls?

just try to get another bro

Jesus, you are a skellington

Just do it, faggot

what's the point in posting a selfie like a turbo faggot?

so you hopefully post EXIF so we can dox you.

now i have a legit reason beyond not being a faggot

I died.

Your big mistake was to break up with her because she cucked you. That is a minor offence. You don't dump your girl over something petty like that

Just kill yourself. That's not petty, it's a clear sign that you need to find another girl unless you are a complete retard.

become poly-amorous. Disregard females acquire currency.

Cheating cucking whatever you want to call it, happens all the time. I haven't seen a relationship where the partners don't cheat on one another. The point is if you want to be with her despite that. If you do then its not a major issue

Can confirm. Personally considering open relationship. How to convince current girls to agree beyond me.

it wasn't just because she cucked me, its because she refused to stop fucking this guy and having him in her life. she even claimed that she's "polyamorous". would have loved to continue the relationship if it wasn't for this shit. i wasn't about to throw my dignity in the garbage disposal just to be with her.

Now those are new details you failed to mention in the OP. That, to me goes beyond routine cheating which everyone does to almost humiliating you. In that case, dumping her was the right move. Now you have to learn to get over her

Are you dumb or do you try to be dumb for attention?

If a girl cheats on you, she will do it again. It's in her blood. She will probably do it more after the fact that you have accepted it as being okay.

Yeahp she fucked you. The best friend comment. If your not your girls best friend. She isn't your girl.

basically she wanted an open relationship that included this other creep. i'm monogomous, she said she was too, she betrayed me and refused to legitimize her apology with her actions.

None of my exes cheated on me
I'm too violent for that
One did break up with me because she literally wanted to travel the world and didn't want kids

Go directly to jail, do not pass go.

Violence isn't the answer.

Cuck in training
Good boy.

If she cheats on you then you can cheat on here. It goes both ways

Ugly feminist detected
Men are violent
Women are passive aggressive
Don't be a woman if you have a penis

here, i fixed the proportions of your pic related

You won't be able to beat her up with a No. 2 pencil, kiddo. Go to the principal's office.

Then there is no relationship

99% of men in relationships are cucks. Welcome to the real world. The only way to avoid being a cuck is to spend your life as a lonely virgin in mom's basement. Can't get cucked if you don't have a girl

Violence is naturally abhorent. Valour is praise worthy.

There is nothing warlike or valorous in striking a woman. Specially because you were cucked. Can't control your emotions? Be a man. Cultivate dispassion.

Uh okay child, you keep using words to solve your problems like female authority figure told you to
Good boy.

90% of men are beta or less
Not my problem, I'm Alpha

Keep buying into the violent alpha ideology you can never match, and if you try hard enough will ultimately end up dead or imprison.

But Not you! You are the toughest. For sure!

I don't even know what that means. Anyways, i'm just stating that you are an edgelord, nothing more.

You seem to lack reading comprehension
I never been cheated on cause my women know I'm too violent to try

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Of course there is. Your girl friend is your automatic date. Unlike other girls you can skip the pleasantries and get straight to fucking. That is the advantage of having a girl friend. By girl friend I am talking about a girl who is really into you. I'm not talking about some fake girl friend who uses you for money

Keep buying into feminist ideology and renouncing your manhood
Congrats on believing only convicts are violent

You're stating that you fear me and your only response is to deny it
I own your mind because you are weak

Unlikely. Only about .01% of the men are true alphas in that no one dares touch their girl. Every one else deludes themselves into thinking they are alpha.

If she fucks other people then she's not yours

implying you would make good on your threats. Implying you are incapable of controlling your emotions.

Life has some L's. Convincing your self you will dish out L's with violence will ultimately result your violent death or long term incarceration.

Violence just isnt' the answer.

No, I am laughing at you.


Please be trolling.

Nice sources
Keep rationalizing your beta mindset

Wrong. You own a car, some of your friends occasionally drive your car but it still is your car. Girlfriends are not that different

Violence is immoral and illegal unless you are acting to defend yourself from an immeadate physical threat. There no valour in threating or striking a woman. Its not a feminist ideology, its part of an ethic thousands of years old.

Your just trying to justify being an emotional pussy by the word feminism

You keep deluding yourself into believing you are an alpha

Violence is always the answer
Threats and implied threats as well
But you wouldn't know what that's about
I'm 5'10" and 245 bulked right now leaning down to 210
My appearance always installs fear whether I wear a suit or under armour

you have no idea. i figured it out in the morning and texted her about it and she admitted to cheating. later that exact same day, she openly went to his apartment, fucked him some more "slept" there for, went to see a movie with him (also known as a date) and admitted to doing all of this shit while i was happening.

the day i broke up with her about a week later, she was with him at the DMV helping him register his car and she had the cognitive dissonance to beg me over the phone not to dump her, despite what she was doing and where she was at that moment.

Denial is a powerful coping tool

You want to believe I'm not, that's fine Anonymous

Internet tough guy. 5 10 is average height. 210 is really all the heavy. Get over yourself. There even some lil men that will handle you.

You've provide no proof that you are an alpha other than your say so. That to me appears to be someone who is probably delusional

He could be Mike Tyson tho but highly unlikely

and using anonymous threats on the internet is a powerful coping tool as well.

I'm not scared of you kid. People who use edgy memes to try to be powerful are usually scrawny faggots who secretly love to suck rock hard cock.

Some women are predetermined to never settle even if they marry the god king emperor
So you work to filter them by triggering situations to out such behaviour
If it doesn't show and you are your own man then she will stay faithful

If someone asked to drive my car I'd break them for daring

Oh you're that guy that believes knights and soldiers of old we're all chivalry

What if the guy was 6 foot 6 and built like a hulk?

Okay big man

Just start tucking more girls
Go for younger and never expect anything

Not quite what you think.

I am a believer in individual liberty and Non-Violence. Thats all. Open the door or don't . Just don't attack people.

please respond.

that comment was made 6 hours ago, learn to into timestamps.

I know it was posted when I settled in for 8chins fr th night.
I'm attention whoring.

Did you ask her? What'd she say?

There are no muscles big enough to stop bullets.

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STOP VERBING NOUNS

stop. caring. about. people.

there isn't a single one that won't hurt you. your best hope of happiness as a sensitive person (if it requires others to feel fulfilled) is to stop caring, and learn how to pretend that you care.

That seems rather bleak

You won't get over the last one until you're under the next one.

Just try looking at it from a chemical point of view.
You most likely only miss her because of the levels of Oxycontin she caused on you, now you're feeling the drop on Oxycontin. Which makes you sad - Time heals all wounds

just Holla Forums yourself

Life is bleak.