Becoming a Man / Deprogramming

One of the big problems of our generation is being a generation of men raised by women, in a society that's gradually been pushing effeminization over the last few decades - bringing us such joys as the trans movement and other pleasantries. Everywhere I look it's boys in mens bodies. We've lost what it means to truly be a man, as it has been shrouded in obscurity and lies.

I'm sure many of us grew up in broken homes, with broken relationships - divorced parents, comical examples of role models, many of our families serve as examples of what kind of people we shouldn't be. Respect, true, honest respect is almost nowhere to be seen, along with good, strong, male role models. Honestly we've probably learned more from video games and anime about what good male figures are.

How did you learn to become a man? I honestly didn't learn from my father. He was responsible, but was he somebody that I wanted to emulate? No. Now I'm in my 20s, but I still feel like a kid inside sometimes. Doesn't help that I have student loans, have no house, no health insurance and feel like I have to pussyfoot around life just to get by.

It's hard not to feel like a hamster on a wheel in the shekel generator. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels that way. It doesn't help that everyone around has the idea that this is the way to live, and not only that - they want you to live like this too. It can really lead to a feeling of insanity, from a constantly sensing an overwhelming feeling of restraint. Many also feel directionless, like trying to wander in an unknown land without a map.

Society is obviously trying to cut our balls off, both literally and figuratively at this point, though the effeminization of men is done through many subtle ways that many people probably don't even sense. How do we learn to become men in the modern day? Even the very definition of what a man is has been so skewed and twisted - so many don't even know down from up.

What keeps me going is a sense of purpose deep down, something that I have to dedicate my entire life to, and become the very best at it. But there's so much more to being a man, and I agree that alot of it is the individual journey, but where are the guides?

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example of then vs now

There's no specific way to "become a man." It's something you realize far after you've become one. It varies on the experiences you have in life. And if you "try" to become a man, you'll never be one.

Many of the 'men' i know are just acting.

STOP FAPPING
Your Testosterone(TM) levels will promptly increase and keep on increasing.

I try to cut myself off from the 'normalfag' society as much as possible, focusing on bettering my mind and body. I'm in pretty much the same state (age, broken home, being poor, etc) as you OP, I think the trick is to learn to be comfortable alone and you'll be able to grow correctly.

I've seen so much conflicting info on this. do test levels continue rising or do they peak at three days and sort of stay there? fapping is my nastiest addiction and it has been an ordeal trying to stop

I still don't believe your test drops when you fap. I think that's broscience bs. Plus if I don't fap I will murder someone by day three (no gf).

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They always increase


stop the Talmudic injuctions, lads. do you imagine Hitler, Napoleon, ??
Wagner,Dante, masturbating??
sitting in a room, dimly-light, stroking their weiner over some yuri fanfic about mermaids and nymphs???

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nofapping definitely has it's benefits, even the size and quality of your benis It's just I go fucking crazy and want to kill/fuck everything around me after 10 days or so.
I find most of my fapping is a response to stress - it's a drug, a quick escape from shitty surroundings.

Shill shit.

You can't even nofap for a week so you get saltier than the Dead Sea.

You are addicted no doubt. You shouldn't fap because all it does is emasculate you and fuel the Jewish porn industry
Honestly not supporting the porn industry should be reason enough for you faggots.

Fine, I'm hopping back on. best i ever felt was 30 days into nofap and no alcohol while working out. felt like a fucking god.

MFW 260+ NOFAP streak
ah!!the world is so clear now.

I heard it increases for a week, then goes back down, and repeats, but gets better each time. So it's like a cycle. I'm referring to this image ( )
Whatever it is, there's no harm done by not masturbating and nothing good but pleasure coming out of masturbating, so the 'correct' action would be to not do it.

If you ejaculate frequently and do not get enough zinc in your diet, your test will plummet because you just won't have the zinc to make it. This can be avoided by eating oysters whenever you ejaculate for whatever reason.
Or maybe if you go outside and chat to every dateable girl you see, you'll get a gf by day three? It would work if you sincerely tried, unless you're un/fit/. There are plenty of single girls out there, very few are waifu-tier, but if all you want is a gf to kiss and bang for a few months then you can probably get that as long as your genes are decent.

I learned to do my thing my way and took matters into my own hands, trying to do things that would normally make me uncomfortable. National Socialism is one of the reasons I became more spiritual and more focused in improving myself and cutting out addictions (like smoking and drinking). I started to lift eat healthy, to read and to draw.
The best way to grow and become a man is to throw yourself into things you'd normally avoid, something which the leftypol (which are the exact same as liberal) will never do.


This. However, not masturbating is a form of self control. If you keep masturbating you will lower yourself to your lowest lust of pleasure. Seek pleasure in doing something else, like tending the garden, finishing things up etc.

I think porn is the thing that causes the most damage however. Video related youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY

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Nearly everything I do is to escape from the shitty surroundings. Playing games, smoke a cigarette, listen to music, go online. Hell, sometimes I like to go for a walk just to see some other shitty surrounding as a change of scenery.

Meh, didn't even get a boner.

I think it was this article but it may be one of the other that detail this (parts 1-8 are well worth reading as well)
dailystormer.com/the-jew-as-adversary-in-the-battle-over-obscenity-pornography-and-sexual-morality-part-9-jews-and-porn/
So yes porn is inherently Jewish.

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Through struggle.
Toil and hardship make strong men and this what most young men lack these days. Most of their needs are catered to; be it transportation, food, tools. They never have to walk 3 miles every day to work or school, or learn to cook a meal or repair a broken axe.
It is through work that you learn to rely on yourself acquire the skills necessary to preserve yourself and those who rely on you. So don't shy away from work, as difficult as that may be. Lift weights, train cardio, work with your hands. All of these go into making a better man.

It aint a bad article.

Yet the reason it's so big today is due to the Mafia. They were the ones who bankrolled Deep Throat and many subsequent XXX features after that during the "porno-chic" era which burned porn into our subconscious.

The whole "Jews run porn" thing originated from professional piece of shit Al Goldstein.

Reported.

Forgot Reuben Sturman as well. He was the king of porn for many years before getting nailed by the feds.

Reminder to read Libido Dominandi. Michael Jones is a massive redpill on everything jewish.

give me the tl;dr

ill read it, but the author of the article's name is also raising some major red flags


what?

dailystormer.com/aryan-continence-the-ancient-art-of-sexual-restraint/

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You want to know how to be a man? Stop waiting. START DOING. You can wait for your shitty situation to change or you can DO SOMETHING about it. Are you a man or a dog?

Hey man I'm not their biggest fan ever, however those are some great, well written and well sourced articles. Just because Anglin is retarded some times does not mean everyone who gets pieces published there are also retarded.

Thank you and I do understand your concerns. If there is something inherently wrong with it please point it out.

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I know that feel too. What I found works best is going camping/hiking in National Forest/ Bureau of Land Mgmt. land. It's free, and way easier to be alone/away from the normalscum thank compared to a park, especially a National Park. Good exercise, clean air, and solitude.