Someone please help

Bentley Rodriguez
Bentley Rodriguez

Someone please help. How do I deal with unrequited love, how do I get over someone, how can I move on. Please help, I'm so fucking lonely that I'm begging Holla Forums for help. I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't even ask my family. Please someone

Jaxson Wright
Jaxson Wright

get a few serious hobbies and lose yourself in them. If you are emotionally weak, which you are, idle time will forever fuck you over.

Nicholas Ward
Nicholas Ward

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As comfy as that sounds, I have no knowledge about that anime. I've only seen doujins.
It's Christmas break from school and all I've been doing is working on my webtoon and gaming. I keep thinking about her. Even in my fucking webtoon, im making references to her I'm not even aware. When I'm jerking off, I just imagine her name and I get limp. I can't even remember her face. Nothing is distracting me and im returning to school tomorrow and here I am just sobbing away in the middle of the night. Help please, it hurts so much. I just want to stop. I hate myself so much. I don't know why I'm so unlikeable. I've never had someone interested in me. Please I'm begging you just give me the magic answer

Connor Perez
Connor Perez

There isn't a magic answer. I can only tell you from my own experience that you need to fill up your time with new stuff that you wouldn't normally do. And keep at that shit because you will be visited by those thoughts and feelings constantly. Eventually you adjust and can make do, but that takes quite a bit of time. Find some new shit to do that doesn't have past ties to her.

Jayden Lewis
Jayden Lewis

There is no magic answer user. We've all been there. One day you'll be over it, only to fall in love with another QT, thus repeating the vicious cycle.

If you don't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to love you?

Noah Rivera
Noah Rivera

I want to get into a competitive fighting game because I've never really played a fighting game before but here's the problem. I don't have time to get another hobby. I need to focus on school but every time I focus on school work I remember that she's in my school then I think about her. I'm getting terrible grades because I just feel horrible. I've only been playing overwatch this Christmas break because i could just turn my brain off and mindlessly play but I hate that feeling. I want to actually do things but I fucking can't. Idk what to do. Sorry for typing such long dumb posts but I'm just so lost. I don't even know what to do with my life. I'm fucking thinking about competitive gaming, look how pathetic I am. My webcomic is literally ntr, look how pathetic I am, I play a fucking mindless game like overwatch, pathetic. I can't think of anything else but this one girl. Help.

Thomas Cook
Thomas Cook

How do I love myself? I hate myself so much. I hate how I don't even care about school, I hate how I have no talents, I hate how I have no drive to develop talents. I don't know what to do. My life fucking sucks. And I have no right to complain, I'm spoiled. I hate how much of a fucking baby I am. Of course she wouldn't like me, my hobbies are anime send videogames, I suck. I know the answer but I can't do it. Idk why. I just don't want school. idk I just want to write stories or something like that. I've always wanted to do that.

Jace Hernandez
Jace Hernandez

Get a rifle. Train with it until its an extension of your body. One day, go to school and show her how much she means for you. Offer your Goddess the dead bodies of your schoolmates. You know it and I know it: only blood will satisfy her.

Aiden Reed
Aiden Reed

How do I deal with unrequited love, how do I get over someone, how can I move on
you mean literally nothing to the person you are obsessing over, they are out doing whatever and not giving you one passing thought. Any rumination about these things is pretty much always internal
also, there is billions of girls on the planet, you are getting caught up over one.

no need to beat yourself up over it, just try and relax and put things into perspective, life is going to roll on just the same, so nothing has really changed has it? you like animals OP? if you could manage a house cat or a low maintenance companion dog it might do wonders for you

Most of us have been where you are (unless they are Casanova or a Psychopath) It's just not worth putting so much gravity into, though it's impossible to see that way now. you'll get through it.

Evan Gray
Evan Gray

Man the fuck up, user. Girls come and go. Especially at the age, where it's still too early for serious relationships. Go lift some iron and stop caring so much about some gay ass feel-feels. Crying won't solve anything, because you're a dude. Work on yourself, love yourself and help yourself become better. You will feel better and you will appear better to everyone else.

Jayden Taylor
Jayden Taylor

Not that funny anymore.
It's not even about the girl anymore. Who gives a fuck. I just hate myself. I hated the fact that I was rejected because I'm not delusional, I truly am a person who is pathetic, not worth the effort of attention. I'm not the only one who hates me. My dad works so hard to put her in this school and I don't even care about grades. I'm a fucking cunt. I desperately search for excuses to not do anything. I think me not caring is just an excuse for me not to do work. I jack off to anime, I watch anime, I play video games. I'm such a fucking loser this early in life, I'm so fucking bland, i hate myself so fucking much. Do I even know the answer!? Idk! I honestly don't! I love my dad so much but I'm such a selfish crybaby bitch that I won't even man up and do good at school. I just don't care about school I don't know why. Is it because I was never spanked for not getting bad grades? And I liked about having a webcomic, pathetic I know. Why tf am I lying on here? Idk why. It just sounds so cool to write my in story then put visuals to it but here I am just lying about it so I don't have to work at it. I'm sorry for this long ass post about me just crying. I'm sorry for just being a crybaby but Idk what to do.

I really do appreciate you guys replying though.

Xavier Morgan
Xavier Morgan

My dad works hard to put me in school. I don't even have a job. I'm a loser and my dad knows it, yet he desperately tries to get me on the right track

Zachary Smith
Zachary Smith

I love my dad so much but
suck his dick then?

William Thomas
William Thomas

I'm pretty sure hes into my mom only.

Thomas Long
Thomas Long

Time and busy work is all that will help, try and make other improvements to yourself so that it will have been worth the loss.

Luis Carter
Luis Carter

he's used to you dressing in her clothes anyways

Oliver Harris
Oliver Harris

uni is shit, you should quit and become an aprentice

Robert Collins
Robert Collins

Here's another (You).
Stop circlejerking about your self pity, fag. Noone really gives a fuck. Only one that really will care about you, is you yourself. Noone else will. Maybe yeah, this is a reason, why parents should punish physically their kids, so they don't become massive faggots, like this kiddo here. How's it too hard to understand that complaining won't fix anything? You have to do something in order to fix anything.

Carson Jenkins
Carson Jenkins

School is (gay) mind programming thats why you hate it. Love yourself by being with people that you love and relax, go out to nature. Meditate, anything to get you mind off her.

School is made to milk you off your money, especially college, then you will be a dept slave for the rest of your life. Your dad is normie and dosent know better, so he thinks he is helping you, when in reality you need love and a time to reflect on what happened.

Love you op

Zachary Ross
Zachary Ross

It's easy just dont fall in love with a thot you nigger

Jose Taylor
Jose Taylor

dept slave
the b and p keys aren't even near each other
What was that about school being a scam?

Brandon Gray
Brandon Gray

Not really.
I wasn't even planning to go to college.
Circle jerking? If no one gives a fuck get out then. Let me be another miserable cunt begging for answers. Putting such a simple answer there won't help me because guess what, I've tried it. And yeah, I already acknowledged that I should've been spanked.
That I think I could agree with. School is just shit. Why am I learning stuff I'm not even interested in? If I want to learn something, I could just learn it myself. And I really want to just love myself. I want to figure out who I am and just love him but there's just so much crap bothering me. And if I really do just not go to school and take time out to love myself, my family, my friends, my teachers, classmates, my dad, they will all shun me and be disappointed. I don't know what to do. Should I force myself to go to school or focus on myself even though people are going to get disappointed. I doubt you love me but thanks anyways.

Caleb Smith
Caleb Smith

Keep moving forward and refrain from wallowing in self pity, you're basically shooting yourself in the foot and then coating the wound in salt. That's literally all you can do. Also like another user said school is shit, very shit. Especially in America, get through that and then try to get a job or a hobby.

Xavier Bell
Xavier Bell

i'm giving you unhelpful answers because several people already told you the best possible methods, and you just keep going anyways and ignore advice/continue to bitch anyways

So in the even you are somehow NOT doing this for shits and giggles, you might wanna start at the "not ignoring advice i've asked for" as a stepping stone to hating yourself less

Now, hurry up. Your dad is waiting for his blowjob

Gabriel Gomez
Gabriel Gomez

event*

David Gonzalez
David Gonzalez

No you nigger, I'm not just discarding the answers people gave me. This whole thread has honestly helped me. Now get out with your weird daddy kink.

Dylan Allen
Dylan Allen

I've been doing that for so long. I've been trying to force a smile and just laugh everything off and being optimistic but there's days like these where I just get worn out and I feel like venting. I know, crying won't fix it, so that's why I'm gonna continue to put a smile.

Isaiah Barnes
Isaiah Barnes

Now get out and exercise more, go get some weights if you don't want to go to a gym. Ask for a dog or something, get a hobby, hang out with friends. Anything but staying inside will help you.

Jack Ross
Jack Ross

turn to alcohol like your four fathers before you

Ryder Russell
Ryder Russell

It's not even about the girl anymore. Who gives a fuck. I just hate myself. I hated the fact that I was rejected because I'm not delusional, I truly am a person who is pathetic, not worth the effort of attention. I'm not the only one who hates me. My dad works so hard to put her in this school and I don't even care about grades. I'm a fucking cunt. I desperately search for excuses to not do anything. I think me not caring is just an excuse for me not to do work. I jack off to anime, I watch anime, I play video games. I'm such a fucking loser this early in life, I'm so fucking bland, i hate myself so fucking much. Do I even know the answer!? Idk! I honestly don't! I love my dad so much but I'm such a selfish crybaby bitch that I won't even man up and do good at school. I just don't care about school I don't know why. Is it because I was never spanked for not getting bad grades? And I liked about having a webcomic, pathetic I know. Why tf am I lying on here? Idk why. It just sounds so cool to write my in story then put visuals to it but here I am just lying about it so I don't have to work at it. I'm sorry for this long ass post about me just crying. I'm sorry for just being a crybaby but Idk what to do.

I'm not just discarding the answers people gave me. This whole thread has honestly helped me.

You aint fooling me you stupid faggot, this thread is now for me to image dump in.

Caleb Price
Caleb Price

Just send her these, OP. she'll be slobbing your knob in no time

Ryan Thomas
Ryan Thomas

Yeah alright. I just need to get a distraction and put another hobby under my belt. Maybe I'll actually start a webcomic finally. Thank you, I really appreciate it.
I don't even know what you were trying to prove there. Niggers going to be niggers though, go ahead and waste your breath then.

Aaron Cook
Aaron Cook

don't even know what you were trying to prove there
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Luis Stewart
Luis Stewart

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Austin Collins
Austin Collins

Holy shit what's the point of putting this much effort into this situation? I actually do appreciate that list the, not even joking.

Nicholas Rogers
Nicholas Rogers

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It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.
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Justin Nguyen
Justin Nguyen

"Real modesty is to be disgusted with improper activities, and beauty is to possess good qualities such as detachment. Real happiness is to transcend material happiness and unhappiness, and real misery is to be implicated in searching for sex pleasure. A wise man is one who knows the process of freedom from bondage, and a fool is one who identifies with his material body and mind."

Srimad Bhagavata Purana, 11:19:41

Ryder Rogers
Ryder Rogers

Today was my 3rd therapy appointment.

We'd been talking a lot about how I keep having these looping thoughts where I argue about what happened in my head. I imagine how I'd prove she was wrong and the things she did. I think about why the things she did were terrible.

Then my therapist finally came to the conclusion that I don't trust myself. She said, "You have done so much reading that I'm pretty sure you could teach a class on BPD. I haven't had to tell you anything. You don't need anymore information. You need to trust yourself. You may have read all this information, you may know exactly how BPD works, you may know the cause of this and that, but you still spend all your time analyzing the relationship to make sure you weren't at fault. You need to trust yourself."

This really blew my mind. It's true. I keep going back and thinking about it and the things I'd say to her because even though I've had all this reassurance from reading articles, posts here, posts on /r/bpd, and a million other things, I still keep coming back for more informaiton. I am getting my reinforcement form external sources instead of from myself.

I don't know if anyone else is in this situation but I thought I'd post this breakthrough I had for people who may be fixated on what happened and can't stop letting it interrupting their day.

So far every time it has come I just tell myself, "You already know you're not at fault. She is mentally like a child and you can't reason with a child. There was nothing for you to do and there is nothing to do now. Resume your life."

Bentley Baker
Bentley Baker

You gotta do something. Anything.

Start thinking.

Listen to podcasts.

Go for a walk. Strike up a conversation with a stranger.

When you feel your thoughts sliding back to this girl, DECIDE FOR YOURSELF that you will not think of her. You will think of something else.

You do not need distraction.

You DO need a goal.

A goal has three characteristics (if the goal does not have these three characteristics, it is not a good goal).
1: It is definite. Earn 50 bucks in a week. Paint your entire computer blue. Get brutally rejected by beautiful girls ten times today. You'll know whether you've reached it or not, because you can count or measure the goal.
2: It is passionate. It is something you want. You've sat down and thought about what you want and you've reached the definite decision that you'll do whatever it takes to get there.
3: It was a specific timeframe. You'll know you have to act now or risk betraying yourself by breaking the timelimit of your goal.

My goal is to continue my education. This is not a life-long, "someday maybe I'll" goal. It's definite, I have to take actions every day. It's something I want, since learning these skills matter to me. And it's definite in time, since if I don't take actions, my opportunity will slip away.

Anyway you gotta stop listening to your feelings so fucking much. It's hard. It's totally fucking hard. But you gotta do it, for you. 'Cos no one else is.

Jason Wright
Jason Wright

NNOOO, it's not about having "another hobby". you gotta decide what your life MEANS.

ONE DAY YOU WILL DIE.

When this day comes, and you ar elying in your coffin, and your family, friends and coworkers, your relatives, the ones you spent your time with – WHEN THAT DAY COMES, What would you like others to say of you?

"user always helped me."

"user never looked at me."

"user was a great cook."

"user's collection of vintage Bad Dragon Dildos really surprised me but then again they never spoke to me or even looked at me, so how was I supposed to know they wanted to get to know me?"

"user is the greatest person I've met and I'm sorry they're dead."

These are all possibilities for two people: one is the person who sets goals and works toward them. The other is the one who does not.

You can do or you can do not.

Brandon Carter
Brandon Carter

You go to school to learn and to meet others who want to learn.

Being with others who want to learn the same things you want to learn is one of the best things you can do for yourself.

Joshua Lee
Joshua Lee

What does hating yourself accomplish. It doesn't make you a better person, it doesn't fix your grades. It doesn't stop you from doing all the shit you already do.

Ryder Scott
Ryder Scott

;(

Zachary Baker
Zachary Baker

You've successfully identified the problem, now you have to figure out how to fix it, step 1 is /fit/index.html

Bentley Martin
Bentley Martin

Jesus Christ brings comfort to those who seek him. Apart from that, I really don't know how to help you besides suggesting that you possibly turn to Christianity and forget about your love life.

The things of this world bring pain and the average man loses everything in this world, including but not limited to: his hair, car, friends, life, etc. Our sins would also send us to hell if it weren't for Christ's sacrifice.

Jeremiah 29:13
You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.

Easton Gomez
Easton Gomez

how does OP manage to be such a disgusting nigger? like in all seriousness how does a full-fledged black as soot charcoal ass wesley snipes looking kony ass nigger mother fucker straight from the heart of africa chasing lions and elephants with his spear and shit swinging on jungle vines from tree to tree banging on bongo drums with a bone through his nose and a fucking dinner plate through his lower lip manage to operate a computer and shitpost all day?

Jack Collins
Jack Collins

Avoid the person and try to distract your mind with other thoughts. I can't emphasize the first part enough, you can not be near the person in question. Also don't fap to them, it'll only make it worse.

Owen Cook
Owen Cook

people giving serious, well-intentioned life advice to a faglord like OP

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I WANT MOMMY'S AND NO OTHER'S!
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GIVE ME MILKY, LAZY SOW!
UNTIL YOU DO I'LL SCREAM I'LL SHOUT!
I'M CRY I'LL WHINE AND STOMP ABOUT!
UNTIL MY BELLY IS FULL AND HAPPY!
I REFUSE TO TAKE A NAPPY!

Isaiah Miller
Isaiah Miller

I'm old, wealthy and have a lot of kinky sex.

Which means I got pretty good at translating womanese. Seeing the patterns in the code.

Been here on TRP/MRP for 2 1/2-3 years, Didn't even comment for a year… I was learning. Reading. Seeing what theories matched up with my real life experiences. Putting it all together.

TRP is an extended release capsule… you can't crush it up and snort it.

Wish I had this resource when I was 20.

So, if you're 20…..beginners guide to life…

If you are here and willing to do the work, you'll be drowning in pussy….

Aaron Barnes
Aaron Barnes

The best advice I can give you is put your own oxygen mask on first. That means putting yourself first. If you don't you become part of the problem, not the solution.

Nobody is going to hand you an amazing life. You have to do it.

You are a man. The world will try to twist you to accomplish their goals instead of your own. Recognize this, do the things that YOU want to do.

Develop your frame. Be aware of the intrusion attempts. Everybody wants something.

Lift. My submitted history has a long post on the benefits of lifting. It's not just about getting jacked. But it kind of is. But not really…Just read it and get your ass to the gym.

Josiah Martin
Josiah Martin

Get your career and finances sorted out, and start saving. This is KEY. It's a true shame there is no standard education about becoming a financially secure adult all through school - should be a HS course like math. Compound interest means the sooner you start saving, the sooner you'll be a millionaire. 10% of your income. You won't miss it.

Bentley Richardson
Bentley Richardson

Use this resource. Absorb it. Yeah, it's big and fragmented and full of conflicting information, but you need to realize the sub is trying to describe complex intersexual dynamics - not an easy task when everybody wants a shortcut.

This sub IS the shortcut. Don't look for the cheat codes, there are none and a lot of what you read you need to go practise/tweak/modify to match your individual life. Make the effort in real life.

Caleb Gonzalez
Caleb Gonzalez

Consider your sources. The vast majority of guys here are just getting started or are angry at something. Watch for flaired members' posts, check post history, and realize that points and upvotes here mean NOTHING (since the vast majority of voters don't know TRP yet, they vote with their opinions, not their knowledge). Opinions are common, everybody has one and you never need to defend an opinion. Knowledge, you need to work for that, and you will need to defend your base. Few have knowledge.

That's why you see pandering feel good posts upvoted to the moon, but zero flaired comments in the massive "attaboy!" comment section. See if the EC's agree. Otherwise realize there are a lot of blind here who are unwittingly leading more blind, often in the wrong direction.

When it comes down to it, this place just describes the tools necessary to build what you want to build. Your job is to choose the right tools.

Without a man or a plan the best toolbox in the world is useless. If you don't practice with the tools on a regular basis, they get rusty and your skills diminish.

Finally, you're young. You're BOUND to fuck up. You'll fuck up multiple times and in multiple ways. That's expected. What is not tolerable about these fuckups is if you don't learn from those mistakes. To the point where your mindset should be..

"There is no lose, you win or you learn."

How bad do you want the life you want?

Brandon Perez
Brandon Perez

just stop

Josiah King
Josiah King

OP wanted advice, i'm providing.

Connor Morris
Connor Morris

WAIT UNTIL YOU FINISHED PUBERTY. IT ENDS WHEN YOU'RE ABOUT 20-25

Jonathan Kelly
Jonathan Kelly

Isn't life grand, with all its ups and downs, nothing mattering beyond emotions?
Accept the painful lesson Universe bestows upon you, cry your eyes and wake up a better man.

Aaron Hughes
Aaron Hughes

I am sad to hear this. I hope you can move on eventually.

Oliver Bennett
Oliver Bennett

I don't have real advice for OP, but I can relate, as I'm sure many here can. I'm such a faggot that I still think every day about getting friendzoned in 2009. I have a GF now but not one I'm actually attracted to. She's right next to me as a type this but it doesn't help. Just makes me more angry that all the ones I actually liked rejected me and I'm essentially a beta provider with an obese christmas cake. I can't bear to keep looking because I can't handle more years of rejection. I'm trying to go back to school now to get a real job because my first degree was a scam, and the only thing that keeps me going is the dream of getting that job, getting real money, getting a nice house, and then keeping all 3DPD as far away from it as possible. I'm so bitter I don't even want other girls anymore. I just want to be able to reject them and make them feel as bad as they've made me feel. But I can't. Because even if I did get to reject them, they could just turn around and say yes to the next guy who offers them companionship. They would never be alone for years, facing rejection after rejection, like me. They'd never be left with their only option being solitude, or a mean, obese retard that I can't even get hard for. I shouldn't have wasted my mana.

The only solution will ever be robowaifus. 3DPD are raised to be terrible. If you want something done right, you have to do it yourself. You have to create your own waifu.

/robowaifu/index.html

Love yourself by being with people that you love
That's his problem. The one he loved rejected him. This is like saying "JUST B URSELF." I know you'll say just be with your family or whatever, but he clearly has problems there, too.

School isn't for people who want to learn. It's for people who want to socialize, be part of a club, and sometimes get a piece of paper that says they went there.

Ethan Fisher
Ethan Fisher

Fuck someone else. Every time I've had strong feelings for a girl, I've only really gotten over her by fucking another girl. And I'm not some pussyhound alpha. Far from it. But I've been with some girls. And there is nothing like getting with another girl, however you feel about her, to release you from being hung up on one girl. Maybe it's as simple as confirming that someone (else) can want you. That you are desirable. Likeable. Lovable.

Cameron Perez
Cameron Perez

QUit being a pussy and go back to Reddit

Benjamin Ross
Benjamin Ross

If you had to boil all this down to one sentence, what would it be?

Luis Sanders
Luis Sanders

warning, good advice with tons of bad advice mixed in

jesus is literally the devil

Jaxson Rivera
Jaxson Rivera

That ruthless self-promotion is the key to happiness

Thomas Davis
Thomas Davis

Death is the only true release

Lucas James
Lucas James

Make a tulpa of her

Landon Morgan
Landon Morgan

Op here. Thanks for the advice everybody. Especially the guy that was spamming pictures and porn or whatever.
Seriously, making me feel like such a cry baby kinda made me mad and then I just got mad at myself. I'm honestly going to try to just improve for myself and no one else. I just want to make myself happy. I don't need my dad's approval or the girl I had a crush on for years. I just need to be content and I can't do that while I'm pussying out because it's too hard. I salute you before going in head first to war. Wish me luck, thanks for the hard truth.

Austin Bailey
Austin Bailey

Sounds familiar
Micah?
iktf Holla Forumsrother

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