men go on dating sites to find someone, women go on dating sites to tier up
men who feel inadequate because irl they dont have a chance to imbibe from the holy grail are they type of person who resorts to using tinder to find "love"
women on the other hand will typically have a que of men wanting to acces her vagina who are quite prepared to pander to her needs. she will manage them via facebook, her digital harem of men who will cater to her various whims.
now if shes not currently happy with the current hand shes been dealt via her network, say shes missing a rich guy, or a big black dick, theres a website she can go to boost her ranks.
now theres going to be many common low tier cards, every single one of them will be "hey how it going? oh i like coldplay too". that would be the equivalent to the white backing on a card, or maybe a 1 or 2 of spades, basically something that every single card has, ie common.
but her hand would already be filled with commons, so shed be looking for fine, rare, exotics and legendaries etc.
so yh unless you own your own business, have dick the width of a tree trunk, roid boosted abs, basically something that makes you anything other than common. you are fucked, you are trash loot.
basically it boils down to hypergamy, you just made the assumption that women and men get dealt the same hand, when a man browses tinder, he typically does so because he has nothing in his hand, but a woman would already have a hand full of commons, probably some fines, maybe her favourite rare she shit on too much and got red pilled so shes looking for a new one, maybe she wants to tier up from rares and feels she needs to up her game with an exotic, maybe the bitch is so solipsistic that she think she deserves a legendary.
maybe shes not even serious about her game, maybe she just wants to have a browse of the market just to see how her hand fairs. consider that sometimes property owners put their house on the market not because they want to sell and move, but just to see how their property value compares to their neighbours and to advertise the fact.
and its so true, the more you self improve the more you dont care about bitches the more they want you