Women

The thing to keep in mind is that 10 or 15 guys a day are "attempting conversation"

To understand what that's like, go look at the Holla Forums catalog. Imagine that every thread on Holla Forums was created just for you. For this analogy, imagine that a thread isn't a group of people talking to each other - imagine it's a person who specifically wants to talk to you.

You breeze through threads like they're nothing. The vast majority fail to hold you attention for more than a second or two. Can you even remember the thread you looked at before this one? I can't. We forget them as soon as we click away. Can you remember the thread that was next to this one in the catalog? Nope.

…would you care if a thread was emo because you didn't post in it?

That's what life is like for women. They're awash with attention (at least until they get old). They're not on tinder to give you a fair chance to connect with them. They're on tinder so that you can entertain them. And if you don't, they're off to the next guy just as quickly as you go to another thread on Holla Forums - and they instantly forget about you.

They don't think of you as an equal - you're not equal in this situation. You're a monkey. Your function is to dance in order to amuse them. Quick frankly, you're lowering yourself if you play this game. It'd be better to be a forever alone and have some personal pride than to stoop to this. Every minute you spend on tinder would be better spent on pretty much anything else - but definitely better spent on bettering yourself as a person. You could read a book right now - it could have a positive effect on your life that will last your entire life. Or you could dance like a monkey and have your soul crushed just a little bit more.

Damn. So basically it's like winning the lottery. Thanks user.

PS Diablo 2 is shit, all Blizzard games are shit

then again there is the possibility of bots. hang in there user, try to speak to some women you have an interest in in real life

I've tried those, spaghetti as usual

I applaud you, user. Very well put. Absolutely true.

The best way to turn things around on them is to get off of social media completely. Too many m'ladying white knights and faggots killing themselves to impress a girl, any girl.

Leave the competition behind and stop dancing to these whores' music. Make them dance for you by making them give you one on one attention IRL.

IRL, your competition is one. Her. On the web, your competition is the entire world full of neckbeards ready to jump to get her attention.

You didn't follow what he said. Of course, being a redditor, you're going to have hard time catching on to a lot of things. Let me catch you up to speed.

Yes, it's like winning the lottery, except she's the one who's won it, and you're one of the millions who's giving her your money, time, attention. Good luck on getting her to notice you only.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality

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on line 3DPD maybe like 3+/10 get more then 50 matches, so if you don't push her right buttons from the get go, she'll fuck off to the others.
keep trying

Op lower your standards, target the fatties

Tinder and all of these "hook-up" apps should be banned.

They are facilitating casual sex, something that should not be encouraged.

We have an STD epidemic that nobody talks about. Over 100 million people in the US are infected with at least one STD. This does not bode well for people trying to do the right thing and build a family.

Hook-up culture disproportionately affects the availability of mates in the younger generation, you know, the ones who matter because they are of breeding age.

Don't fixate too much on "turning things around" - that's a revenge fantasy. You'll destroy yourself in a quest for revenge.

Focus instead on finding happiness in the world the way the world actually is. What I'm pitching here is sort of a Buddhist philosophy. Turn inward and find real happiness instead of obsessing over external things.

The great irony is that lots of rich men are depressed. Lots of Chads are unsatisfied, angry even, and they don't know why. The truth is, the things you desire (money, women) don't actually make you happy. It was all a lie to start with. There is a certain euphoria that comes with the attention of a girl - but what it really is, is the validation. "If she likes me, I must be good; I must be a valid man." But that's like a drug and you'll never be able to get enough of that.

This is also why so many women are unhappy. Sometimes we envy the attention they get on tinder and the like, but it's really a curse. They're able to get external validation so easily that they become dependent on it very early in life. And then when they hit the wall, they crash hard.

Don't be that way. (At least try not to be that way) Don't allow your happiness to be external. Don't allow it to be based on anything going on outside your own mind. Don't let it be based on validation from women, or on "turning things around on them."

Happiness is a spiritual problem, not a practical one.

You can't. And you're just setting yourself up for more frustration by even trying.

…however, you should go out in real life and participate in social activities. And you should be exercising and eating well and being a good steward of your physical health. And you should be establishing real, meaningful and lasting friendships by building bonds of trust (as opposed to just hanging out and gossiping). And you should be cultivating your intellect (by reading, studying (which is different from reading) and honing your profession), and guarding your financial situation by saving and investing.

Basically, you should be a Renaissance man as much as you can be. Nobody is perfect. But you should try to be the best you can. And what you'll find is that you can be happy and content. And you'll find that you have "enough" women. Not all women. Just enough of them. And when one of them starts to act crazy or something, you wont get angry, you'll just move on.

Well said, lad.

Why write a wall of text when you could just summarize it with the last paragraph?

Grannies gave you monies

don't like tinder? don't use it

problem solved

Dating sites only exist for whores to hop from chad to chad. You wont find anything good there. This is what happens when women aren't punished for being whores.

I posted my pic on Tinder once… got so many VERY strange replies from many STRANGE men! Must all be trolls, surely?

What? They call the cops 100% of the time?

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Chads don't use Tinder btw.
tinder bitches are mediocre quality and have stds.

Chads can get batter deal irl.

just saying.

tinder sluts are the bottom of the barrel, a cliché of what /r9k/ think about women.

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gtfo of here, chad. No one wants you here. although, your advice is factual

Agreed, but how could that logically be done by the government?
wtf r u srs

I do tbh

STOP SAMEFAGGING CHAD

lel, thats not me

thanks, user.

just a tip, don't use tinder and avoid bitches that use it.

hooking up with a tinder slut is 90% chance of std

pic or its you

pics of what?

this

men go on dating sites to find someone, women go on dating sites to tier up

men who feel inadequate because irl they dont have a chance to imbibe from the holy grail are they type of person who resorts to using tinder to find "love"

women on the other hand will typically have a que of men wanting to acces her vagina who are quite prepared to pander to her needs. she will manage them via facebook, her digital harem of men who will cater to her various whims.

now if shes not currently happy with the current hand shes been dealt via her network, say shes missing a rich guy, or a big black dick, theres a website she can go to boost her ranks.

now theres going to be many common low tier cards, every single one of them will be "hey how it going? oh i like coldplay too". that would be the equivalent to the white backing on a card, or maybe a 1 or 2 of spades, basically something that every single card has, ie common.

but her hand would already be filled with commons, so shed be looking for fine, rare, exotics and legendaries etc.

so yh unless you own your own business, have dick the width of a tree trunk, roid boosted abs, basically something that makes you anything other than common. you are fucked, you are trash loot.

basically it boils down to hypergamy, you just made the assumption that women and men get dealt the same hand, when a man browses tinder, he typically does so because he has nothing in his hand, but a woman would already have a hand full of commons, probably some fines, maybe her favourite rare she shit on too much and got red pilled so shes looking for a new one, maybe she wants to tier up from rares and feels she needs to up her game with an exotic, maybe the bitch is so solipsistic that she think she deserves a legendary.

also this

maybe shes not even serious about her game, maybe she just wants to have a browse of the market just to see how her hand fairs. consider that sometimes property owners put their house on the market not because they want to sell and move, but just to see how their property value compares to their neighbours and to advertise the fact.

and its so true, the more you self improve the more you dont care about bitches the more they want you

that?

i remember one dating site said to enter in your salary

to me, and i swear to most men this seems strange

a man would care for any damsel in distress, whether they have money or not

but to a woman, they would never tier down for a man that earns less them or less than their previous partner ie hypergamy, and wouldnt bother talking to them

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Yea that works. Good job chad.

yeah okcupid has that

i managed to get some matches even with that bit filled in, but knowing how women lust over material, it's definitely best to keep that info out. even job shit can fuck you over if they know ahead of time.

….uhhh user, this might be the one time you should "bee urself"

more guides?

this is the smartest thing i have read on this shit filled cesspool. some of you faggots arent completely retarded.

what makes you say that? if i haven't gotten so far with the girl as to meet up irl, what makes you think she wants sex from me?

thats how tinder works,
lude not crude
then crude
dont take advise from me

Spot the cuck.

what are you even implying?

i implied women are degenerate whores

and if anything i implied that people who pander to women and use tinder are cucks

i expressed mgtow viewpoint, how could anyone who holds mgtow values, ie actively shuns relationships with women be cucked by a modern degenerate woman?

Try drinking tea when you're thirsty. I especially like stuff which incorporates coconut, rose or blackberry.

Other than that I don't know what you can do. I managed to go cold turkey on soda the first time I tried, but then again I didn't drink it very often back then anyway.

actually tbf i can see how it can read like im condoning this behaviour, or implying that "white women want black cocks".

i originally considered writing the line you quoted something along the lines of

but then i felt i would be obliged to expand upon the concept that women perhaps use dating websites to indulge in activities she might consider to be a social faux-pas irl, using tinder as a clandestine method of obtaining resources that she wouldnt normally have access to so she can indulge her degenerate tendencies without compromising her social status

i flet this bloated my already long post and detracted from the point i was trying to make

in hindsight i could have just as easily simply put "a big dick" instead of a "big black dick", to imply that a woman would such a fickle cock craving slut that she would select a guy only if he had an exceptionally large penis to illustrate my point that only males that fall above a certain standard deviation would have any chance attracting a tinderella, but i decided to qualify this with adding that she would be interested in race mixing to also imply that a woman might have an additional degenerate motive.

There's only such a heavy backlash to the subject because of the intense amount of attempted social conditioning going on. All of the cuck threads and the amount of black fetish porn on porn websites has gotten people fed up.

If black male on white female porn wasn't shilled so hard, it would get ignored just like a very similar type of porn: scat.