Did anyone else have a narcissistic bitch for a mom?

Did anyone else have a narcissistic bitch for a mom?

Nope.
My grandmother is that way though. I blame the Jews for a damaged society.

My mom was a narcissistic con artist sociopath, she was pretty cool though and killed herself. Good job, mom!

I've been studying personality disorders recently. Right now I'm working with narcissistic people and they have been getting on my nerves, so let me tell you about them. I'm almost free from them, the cowards. The only solution or how to "win" with them is to go NO CONTACT.

My understanding is that narcissists, attention whores, cluster b's, psychopaths, etc are all the same. These creatures have no empathy, or inner self. How violent/destructive/malignant they are is all a matter of how well "socialized" they have been, or how well they were taught to mimic real Human sentiments and thus remain somewhat functional. Still, being around them is unbearable, especially if you are aware, due to the constant psychological warfare they employ in attempts to boost their artificial egos. You will notice this psychological warfare and abuse on chan and by shills, because surprise surprise, that's their tactics. It causes cognitive dissonance and brain trauma in their innocent victims. Narcissists are always looking for the next hit, by artificially elevating themselves at the expense of others.

Up to 65% of the world population is these soulless abominations. It's getting worse due to overpopulation. If you go back 100 years or so, society was much more sane because of this. Now, it's the inmates running the asylum. Due to their grandiosity (desperate ego trying to cling to life) they seek positions of authority to abuse. Narcissists are completely incompetent and overestimate themselves, so they screw tons of shit up. That doesn't matter to them, as long as they get their narcissistic supply, or attention and validation. In the past, tribes would usually kill these people when they were discovered. And why not? That's the final solution. These things are the walking dead with no higher aspirations or chakras and deep down know they are dead inside, some even want to die (and project this worthlessness onto others with their sick minds). They exude a deathly gray energy, it's very destructive and sickening. That's why their victims usually get sick, because they are energy vampires. One term for them is the fae people, and fae means "fated to die"…

It goes on and on. My dad died recently so I'm all she has, too. I've no idea how to get away from her. She'd resent me forever if I just left to chase happiness and would probably commit suicide.

why is that bad though

That would make me sad. I just want her to get her shit together and become independent.

Its impossible and you know it

/r/raisedbynarcissists/

I thought all moms were like that

This is why I don't visit reddit.

My mom is my best friend. My only friend. Who /mommasboy/ here?

This thread almost feels like it's speaking directly to me. I'm so fucking miserable at the moment, and it's entirely because of my mother, who has to insert herself into every god damned thing, who absolutely will not ever fucking leave me alone, who has burned every god damned bridge in her life, and continues to actively try and destroy mine.

From the moment I got a job, it's all about me "spotting" her. Paying for her gas, her meals, taking her to the movies. I'd planned to spend the night with my girlfriend, but my mother insisted on stopping by, and I did not want to risk them meeting because my mother obsessively tries to sabotage every relationship I have, so I relented and we went to go see a movie.

I'm buying the tickets, and she has to make her awkward commentary. I'm twitching because I don't know how bad it's going to be, in the past she's lead people to believe I was retarded by talking about me like I'm 12 (she's actually introduced me as her "gentle giant") in other cases she talks about me like we're dating. It's awkward and embarrassing. This time wasn't too bad, just her typical oddness. After I pay she says "I'm the adult." I interject "Senior." because I know that's what she meant. "Yes, we're both adults. But he looks like the senior and I look like the child." The girl at the counter gives an uncomfortable laugh, and I dart to open the door for my mom because I can tell now she's in one of her moods. I hand over the tickets, and she won't stop fucking talking, so I rush ahead to the theater to put some distance between us, I figure I can say I was just trying to find it, but I just want her to stop the commentary. This backfires as she begins loudly shouting "CAN YOU BELIEVE IT? INSTEAD OF HELPING HIS SICK, INFIRMED, ELDERLY MOTHER HE RACES FORWARD THINKING ONLY OF HIMSELF. HOW SELFISH, HOW DISGUSTING." I lean down and say through my teeth "For the love of god, would you shut up?" "DON'T YOU TELL ME TO SHUT UP! DON'T YOU TELL ME TO SHUT UP! HOW DARE YOU! THE NERVE!" I throw my hands up in frustration and start to step back, she continues to shout now saying "YOU JUST STAY AWAY FROM ME!" I turn away and walk towards the door, agreeing to her terms. I stand back so pissed she's pulling this shit again. That the people in the theater likely heard her screeching. That now no matter what I do it's going to look awkward. I decide to avoid two hours of this, and just go sit in a different part of the theater. She said to stay away from her afterall. I put my phone in "cinemode" but it starts buzzing like crazy. I know it's her, I ignore it until the end of the movie. She was both texting and calling me the entire film. What was she saying? "Get me a hot dog and come sit by me."

I've posted some stories about her on here in ages past. When I go through all of them, I've had numerous people tell me they're shocked I'm not a serial killer given my background after I go through some of the more screwed up stuff she's pulled over the years.

She's a classic bully, whenever she's given the tiniest bit of power she uses it to torment everyone. That used to be the cops, she'd call the cops to settle arguments for her, until they actually warned her she was going to be put in jail for filing false police reports. She talks endlessly about how she was abused, and how everyone mistreated her, but if you bring up any of her faults? Any bad thing she's done? "NO! I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT! THAT WAS IN THE PAST! I HAVE A HORRIBLE CHEST PAIN, I CAN'T LISTEN TO THIS ANYMORE!" She goes on and on about how my father left her, and yes he had his own issues but the reality is she left him. Literally. She waited until he went to work one day then brought in a uhaul and moved everything out of the house. He came home to nothing but a toaster she specifically left as a fuck you, and then she was shocked when he didn't chase her across the country and readily signed the divorce papers.

Tell her to fuck off so you can solve your problems already.

She's the sort of Christian who curses people in the name of god. Threatens people with him, constantly says they're "going to pay" and "they'll get theirs". The sort who starts praying for god to help her find a parking space. She simply cannot park in the first space she finds, she has to park right up front. She will circle the parking lot for as long as it takes to get a spot in front. She quite angrily points out she's never been fired, because she works in a school system, so instead of firing her they "transfer" her. She's worked at every damned school in her city. She once had a religious group right? I remember when it was disbanded and she was transferred. I told her right when she started that the group was a bad idea. She later claimed I was cursing her by saying this so it was my fault her group fell apart, rather than the write-up her boss gave her of charges which include but are not limited to "referencing another teacher dying of cancer as proof god takes care of your enemies" "a gay student using your computer to access gay porn on school property" "telling the students the girl (a 13 year old student) given control of it when it was taken away from you had betrayed you and you wanted to hire a hitman to 'take care of her' leading to the students having a fight on school grounds."

So anyway, after the movie not a word is said until she's dropping me off. I'm dreading this the whole car ride because I know how it'll go down. I'll say how I felt about something, she'll just reply "no!" because she won't accept someone else's feelings if they mean she's in any way wrong I mean that literally, you can say "I'm just upset with you." and she'll say "No! This is because you're working too hard. Maybe you should quit your job." "No! This must be misdirected because you're upset with your girlfriend. Maybe you should break up with her." etc, etc.

Then it would be rationalizations of whatever she did, completely changing what actually happened and asserting you did far worse things than ever happened, continually interrupting and talking over you until you snap and she can then claim you're aggressive or irrational or some bullshit after she's made it clear the only way you're going to get any words out is to raise your voice, and WHILE she's in the middle of yelling. Then if that doesn't work she'll just order you to leave and refuse to participate in your half of the conversation. She always has to "win" she always has to have the "last word" no matter fucking what every fucking time.

So we had our usual argument, all the same shit happen, and when I finally snapped I just said "THIS IS WHY YOU'RE GONNA DIE ALONE." Before she could reply, I got out of the car and slammed the door. Robbed of the last word, she honked her horn, loudly. Why did she do that? Because it pisses off my neighbors that she honks her horn every fucking time she drives up and several of them have walked up to her car and asked her to stop, so she does it just to be a douche to them regardless of how it might effect her son who actually fucking lives there. So I just gave her the finger and kept walking.

Immediately took me right back to when I was 14. I've posted this story before a few times, if you haven't seen it before, it's a doozy.

It's the drive home from school, and she's trashing me. I don't even remember what she was telling me at this point, could have been insulting my appearance, telling me I'd never get a girlfriend, whatever it was I remember snapping back at her "This is why no one will go to your funeral." "My funeral?! You're saying I'm going to die!? YOU'RE THREATENING TO KILL ME!?!?" She drove to my older brother's house -who these days refuses to talk to our mother- at the time he was fresh out of the military and just starting to show the first signs of his PTSD, which coupled poorly with the bi-polar he inherited from mom. She immediately starts screaming I was threatening to kill her, that I said I was going to stab her with a knife and cut her. I tell her I didn't say any of that shit, and he just starts straight up strangling me.

Mom freaks out, runs into his house and calls the cops. The cops show up and the story is changed, they don't want him to lose his job (he was a cop) so they claim they were called on me. I'm standing there with a red throat and my right eye all veiny because a blood vessel had burst and I'm now being yelled at by my mother, my brother, and six cops and I just stood there going "I didn't fucking do anything!"

The answer is in the accusation.

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You guys a weak minded plebs who can't even fathom that all narcissists need to be killed but instead wallow in self pity what a bunch of pathetic underage faggots on this board I swear to god

Follow this user's advice:

Cut contact immediately. The quicker you cut contact, the quicker your ego will heal. Narcissists and other cluster B-type disorders feed on your emotions, they are emotional vampires. This woman will cripple you. Get out before you develop burnout or suffer permanent mental wounds.

all women are narcissistic user

i hate my parents!

I had a litterature teacher who claimed that pornography was the oppression of women by men. I said it depended what he watched because there is enough choice on the internet.

After Class I told him that korean porn was more romantic and was mostly directed toward women. He later filled a complain that stated that I innapropriatly came up to him to recommend him korean porn.

especially this

I still wonder if all women are like this, the only ones I know who aren't have complete assholes for husbands so they may just be happy being put in place.


just get away, at least for a while. Like a year or two.


wew
run away now
well, gather your resources, paperwork, bank accounts, and then run away.


you had one job

jesus christ

She's actually right.

My mom nevrr cleaned the fucking house, so we lived in constant filth. She blamed us of course because she can do no wrong. She coddled us and constantly Tried blamed our misbehavior on varuous mental disorders. I remember that one time she swore I was dyslexic. She caught my brother sucking on my dick when I was a kid and all she did eas spank us. No therapist for me. She just beat both of our asses. If you ask her she is the best motherfuking mother on planet Earth. She always think she knows whats best for us, even if other people who know more tell her otherwise

Details?

Of the spanking or the entire incident?

The spanking. That one or how it happened usually.

Assuming you don't live with your mother, ignore what everyone else is saying about cutting contact, your mother is much worse than just narcissistic, she's extremely delusional and psychotic, she should be in a psychiatric unit or on pills. Despite how much you may hate her, she will continue to be a horrible person unless you intervene and it is your duty as a son to take care of her.