I posted this on Holla Forums, but they deleted it because it fostered actual discussion and didn't push forward whatever the current narrative is over there. I briefly posted about it on Holla Forums, but the general response was just "do it" I'm hesitant to post it here because I just expect a bunch of wizards and jealous trannyfags either saying it's not worth it because she doesn't have a dick or because she's 3D. Just pre-empting those boring unfunny responses. Here's the deal:
So I don't much like trannies as a general rule, I've seen countless online communities destroyed by their bullshit and insanity. Every experience I've had with one has been negative, but a month ago I was at an arcade and a girl working there started flirting with me…
When she came up to me I'd already judged her, she looked like tumblr incarnate in her problem glasses and her hair dyed blue on top and shaved on the sides, but she had wide hips on a petite figure and very perky breasts, and she was into me right away, so I sat down and talked to her. I told her my name, and she told me hers… a guy's name. Through conversation she revealed she was ftm, had legally changed her name to a male one, and was on her second month of testosterone. I was nice and calm about it, but I let her have it. Explaining to her about chromosomes, comparing her to Dennis Avner and Rachel Dolezal and she took it in stride and mostly agreed with me. I told her in essence "Listen, you're really cute, but I'm not into dudes. I would never refer to you as male. I'd have you taking supplements to increase breast growth and wearing frilly dresses." and she was on board with it. I told her she probably fantasized about being a 50's housewife and she just blushed.
She's 17, apparently she'd only had one boyfriend when she was 13, they never did anything sexual, and after that when her breasts initially weren't growing and she didn't like make up, skirts or having long hair, she decided she was a boy and since she's identified that way no guy has wanted to date her (despite what I assure you is a smoking body, and a very pretty face.)
She's only attracted to men, and high-testosterone men at that. She wears lingerie and thigh highs under her male clothes. I was shocked at how readily she was willing to give this entire identity up to get with me. I met her family, her sister and mother both refer to her with a male name, it's on her ID, I've seen old pictures of her, the testosterone she's taking which so far has just made her really horny and enlarged her clit.
Can she be saved? Is she not too far gone? I find her really attractive, but I have to admit I'm a little ehhh on the boy clothes. Oh, and yes she's white of course. Politically she hasn't said anything one way or the other. I've been afraid to open that can of worms, but I did tell her if we lived together she'd have to embrace my ideology as well and she didn't seem bothered by it.
Can anyone let me in on the psychology of why a pretty girl like her would do this to begin with? I get the feeling it's some gay friend she has that influenced her this way. From the sounds of her social interactions, it seems like her family and friends all still think of her as a girl, but entertain her fantasy for her sake. Her mother seemed to genuinely love her, I'll say that much.