Sexual Frustration

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You're right. Sex DOES feel a lot better. It isn't a feeling you can really recreate from any form of masturbation, be it dry or lubed, with your hand or with a sex toy, because part of the feeling is purely psychological. It's part intimacy and part "holy shit, another person is spending time to make me orgasm." Once you experience it, jerking off gets even less satisfying.

I lost my vcard at 15 and now, after a series of relationships and flings during high school and college, jerking off just doesn't do it for me. I still jerk off regularly, but nothing can compare to having someone else do it for you. The worst part of my particular circumstances are that I don't have a problem getting laid. I have a few slutty friends that I could probably call this weekend and, between all of them, I'm sure at least one would sleep with me. But I'm in a relationship right now and - long story short - I have to wait a few more months until I can have sex again.

Before I got laid, back when I was a teen/preteen, I jerked off a lot more and I felt a lot like you seem to be feeling. The best advice I can give you is this: work on your own shit. Get in better shape (you don't need abs or big muscles, but if you can get them then getting laid becomes easy mode–I've never managed to get myself in that good of shape, but I supplement by dressing nicely–wear expensive clothes and women assume you have more worth, both financially and otherwise), read books on how to socialize ("How to Win Friends and Influence People" has sold a lot of copies and has stayed a bestseller for decades for VERY good reasons), and learn how to talk to girls (which, when you're trying to fuck them, is a different skill than socializing). Also make sure that your life is in decent order: do you have a good job? Do you have anything to be proud of that you can bring up casually? Have you done anything admirable? If you haven't, then you'd better.

If you can't figure it out on your own, then find someone to help you–either a male friend of yours that gets laid regularly, or a female friend that you trust to help you get laid.

Also, get ready for rejection. It hurts, but you NEED to deal with it. Ask a girl out that you can afford losing from your life. Do it face to face to face, never over text. Don't say "will you be my girlfriend" or anything like that. Just ask her out to dinner. Can't afford to take a girl to dinner? Repeat the above steps about self-improvement until you can.

I don't know how old you are, OP, but I hope to god you're still pretty young. If you start young it's SO much easier. I did most of the above in high school and it paid off in the long term. As long as you're younger than 40 you still have a chance, and even if you're THAT old, you might still be able to bang some gold diggers.

Good luck.

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im 29

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Don't fap. Cultivate your seed.

get a prostitute

Is surely an exaggeration

4 times a day is too much, just stop for a few days and you'll enjoy it again. Good things need to be taken with moderation man

Fapping has become less enjoyable for me since I realized I won't find love.

nah

Only 19 and already feel like im over it. Given up on sex, and jacking off just feels draining.

Has been somewhat of a blessing though. Just makes me feel motivated to self improve for the sake of self-improvement.

The thing is that my dick is bigger that what I can handle, and I often forget about it, and when I get an erection it's hard not to fap, it's like the dick is controlling me sometimes

I wish I had something to post here. I wish I could still give enough of a fuck to go off on some retarded flight of fancy and write some bullshit that sounds good but means nothing. But I am dead inside. There is nothing more I can scrape together to describe the sky queen. Even when I was arguing with myself I could come up with some pithy phrase to keep things going for years. For years and years and years I talked about her. There is nothing left in me. I talked with her friends. I talked with her family. I even once called Blockbuster Video CRAAAAWLEEEEEEEEEEEE ROAD and hung up. I can't even remember the names of most of the players. I can't remember which of the ones I remember were my sockpuppets. All I remember is that for a good part of ten years I loved you Olivia. Not the you you, but my image of you. You were alway 15 and perfect forever. Now you are old, broken, bitter, and very likely not attractive. It's funny you know. Even now as I profess to not care a still have a little day dream where I shave you from yourself and all your bad decisions. I know that would never happen. You are too jewy and will always fuck your own shit up and blame the men around you. Still I can have that day dream. After all there is no cracky, only the collective dream we have all been blessed enough to share. Well this was fun. This is the first time I have thought about you in two years.

Petting alone beats fapping.

Sometimes I pull so hard, I rip the skin!

I would say that you masturbated 0 times today.
Your dick is a little bitch. I masturbated until I ripped the top layer of skin on my dick, and I didn't even notice until the day after.
Get the fuck off of Holla Forums, you are a disgrace.

This is one of the most Holla Forums things I've ever read.

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noice

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You know what OP.

By constantly jacking off to porn you're not just getting yourself a dopamine deficiency. You're also developing a state called death grip.

As you become more and more desensitized, you have to use a tighter grip which again contributes to expand your vicious cycle of mastrubation.

If you ever even get with a girl, you might not even be able to get it up, let alone stay hard, because your penis has so little feeling left after your years of abuse..

She'll be looking at you with disgust and dissapointment as you frantically jerk to try getting your penis hard enough to penetrate.

You might as well just… cut it off.

wanker talking about wanking, omg

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I jerk off about 2-3 day, that can get up to 7 if I have nothing to do, and find porn I really like.

I doubt it is 1000x times better, but the only reason that jerking off would make you feel this way would be because you ascribe value to 3DPD and the approval they give out in the form of sex, which is very beta, so I would stay away from 3DPD until you get that worked out, as if you don't you'll just be used and get nothing out of it.
I would try not jerking off so much, and finding something else to do that isn't sexual in its nature

you know 2DPD doesn't really work, because if 2D was PD that would mean you made them PD, and that is on you.
If you 2D waifu cucks you, then reason she would do that is because you're a cuck, and no blame can be put on said 2D waifu, you literally control her every action.

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To quote some guy I met on OKCupid (I'm bi fuck off), sex without love is just like jerking off.

To date, I'm still a virgin at 21 because I'm saving myself for love, and I actually have had multiple opportunities for sex (even a threesome at one point) which I declined. I have a girlfriend now whom I actually love, so it's only a matter of time.

You are, as my grandpa would put it, a jack-off. He had no idea that jack-offs were actually low-testosterone males with dopamine/serotonin balance issues, he just knew that guys who jerked off too much were no-motivation-man-children. I'll give you the same advice he would have:

Knock that shit off, dumbass.