Discipline Greentext

Brandon Gomez
Brandon Gomez

What sort of discipline did you get as a kid, anons?

A poster with hippy parents said this:
instead of normal shit like spankings & timeouts you get sat in the corner or is have things like me and my sister being punished by being forced to stand in the hallway for an hour or two in our underwear as a supposed symbol of all we really own something like that

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Jeremiah Carter
Jeremiah Carter

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Aiden White
Aiden White

come on anons, I know you have stories to share

Owen Martin
Owen Martin

get timeout
told not to leave room
peed in closet
parents asked why i did that
because i wasn't supposed to leave room
never get punished again
i guess i'm just too retarded to punish

Jose Morris
Jose Morris

wanna cyber? :3

Easton Torres
Easton Torres

Holy shit, exact same story here, except not a closet and I did get punished again, just not by being sent to my room.

Easton Foster
Easton Foster

peed in closet

They just werent punishing you hard enough. Pic related

Jose Hernandez
Jose Hernandez

Can you imagine what that would do to the kid?

Jace Turner
Jace Turner

yes

Oliver Evans
Oliver Evans

I got spanked. It basically made me realize how stupid I was being. My parents were pretty apolitical but identified as democrats. We weren't that religious but went to church on Easter. I'd guess you could say that I was raised in a traditional christian home.

that being said, now I am in my 30's and i think my parents are fuccing retarded for still being democrats. I try to convince them of this buy they constantly rely on shit they heard on the news (MSM).

Democrats in the 90's weren't that bad compared to how they are now.

Isaac Sullivan
Isaac Sullivan

You mean roleplay one of the discipline stories?

Adrian Price
Adrian Price

OK. What is arousing about that?

Easton Perez
Easton Perez

I got spanked. It basically made me realize how stupid I was being.
How the the physical spank make you realize

Landon Brooks
Landon Brooks

i guess i'm just too retarded to punish
or too smart?

Jaxson Rivera
Jaxson Rivera

I was made to succ my father's dicc.

Jace Rogers
Jace Rogers

Democrats in the 90's weren't that bad compared to how they are now.
How so?

Parker Flores
Parker Flores

?

Henry Lewis
Henry Lewis

Ah, I loved that game. Wish I still had time to play it. Really cool aesthetic going of living in the ruins of a really high-tech society, at least in the artwork.

Gabriel Smith
Gabriel Smith

How about "Wood Toy Saves Christmas"

Andrew Reed
Andrew Reed

yea me 2

Ian Sanders
Ian Sanders

God yes.

But it is calming down.

Thomas Davis
Thomas Davis

MAccED

Sebastian Evans
Sebastian Evans

single drug suicides take way to much money and effort

kek what the fucc am I reading

it's impossible for a suicide method to take "too much money" because if it works you don't need the fuccing money any more, do you?

Adam Morales
Adam Morales

who else but Holla Forums!

Adam Sanders
Adam Sanders

I remember when I was a kid my parents would shame me for barging in on me masturbating. I would pray to god to help me stop and would cry because I felt guilty about it. When I was in my room in the middle of the night at 16 or 17, my mom came in my room and forced my laptop out of my hands so she and my father could read the text-based sexual rp I was involved in, which was humiliating and a major invasion of my privacy. They then proceeded to interrogate me about my sexual interests and shame me for them while I sat there and cried and begged for them to fuccing stop and leave me alone.

Hudson Cook
Hudson Cook

A lot of anons need a good spanking followed by this

Sebastian Long
Sebastian Long

Me and my siblings always got spanked when we were kids. One day I came up with idea of wearing diapers to cushion the belt strikes. It worked. Boy it was hilarious checcing out with those adult diapers.

Logan Bell
Logan Bell

mainly just got grounded for various lengths of time.

Hudson Cruz
Hudson Cruz

not getting bare-assed spankings
Those were not real spankings you were getting, user.
I was left bleeding many a time. Couldn't even go to school often because the belt, and I always got the buccle end, sometimes made it's way up to my head and face.
You millennials don't know what a fuccking spanking is!

Logan Myers
Logan Myers

it was funny when some of my friend's parents made them go get their own switch from a tree to whip their asses. and they would use a belt of the branch was too small or something.

Logan Mitchell
Logan Mitchell

I would have loved that tbh.
I was only ever given time-outs and groundings, possibly why I turned out like I did.

Levi Wilson
Levi Wilson

Yeah pretty much. My dad went easy on us. Compared to the spankings he got when he was kid, we got off super easy.
I was left bleeding many a time. Couldn't even go to school often because the belt, and I always got the buccle end, sometimes made it's way up to my head and face.
I don't know user. That's just abuse. No reason to go that far.
head and face
No matter what you did, you didn't deserve that kind of shit. Fucc.

Bentley Wood
Bentley Wood

my parents tended to be kinda strict but when i look bacc i think it was all worth it given the amount of entitled people in the world right now.

John Diaz
John Diaz

Yeah, my mom was a thousand times worse than my dad. She would bring a lot of anger and hatred into it.
be me. 15, almost 16 yrs old.
mom gives me spanking because she caught me listening to rocc music. Motley Crue to be exact. Yes, I'm that fuccking old!
it's, as usual, a bare-ass spanking, and she was really going to town with my dad's belt.
I was laughing so hard the whole way through that she actually wore herself out strapping the shit out of me.
she was so mad she couldn't stop beating me, blood everywhere, and I couldn't stop laughing.
when she had worn herself completely out I jumped up off my bed, grabbed my dicc, waved it at her and said, "You want some of this too, bitch?"
I never got another spanking again.
moved out a couple weeks later, on my sixteenth birthday.
thirty five years later I tell this story on an anonymous image board.
I don't feel any better. Still don't get along with the parental units.
there were so many worse stories, anons. I could spend all night horrifying you with stories from my childhood. Just thought you'd enjoy that one, because it's funny af.
I'm a single dad who has raised two daughters all on his own.
another long story, and one that would make you hate women even more than most of you already do. Weirdly enough, I don't.
I never abused my daughters, nor spanked them.
they are wonderful, and well adjusted, considering they never had a mom. Really involved in the community, and super smart.
my oldest daughter turns 16 in one month.
neither of them knows about my rough childhood or about the abuse I received from their grandma and grandpa, but neither of them has ever been allowed to be alone with grandma and grandpa either!
my brother won't let my niece be alone with my parents either. They are in their 70s now.
tl;dr Abuse has long-lasting consequences.
I guess I'll go have me a drink and a bowl now.
Thanks for letting me vent, Holla Forumsros.
I know I'm old, 50, so you don't have to tell me. Trust me, I FEEL old!
Long story short… You don't have to spank your kids. My kids are better adjusted than I ever will be.
hence, Holla Forums for me!
pics completely unrelated to anything except this being an image board and they are images.

Christian Nguyen
Christian Nguyen

fucc yeah love the crue

Sebastian James
Sebastian James

But why did you kill your wife?

Hudson Powell
Hudson Powell

Which one? They're all ugly!!!

Jaxon Cooper
Jaxon Cooper

listen to any other great hair metal like ratt or warrent or autograph or even bon jovi or cinderella?

Cooper Martinez
Cooper Martinez

you fuccing what m90 the crue are the hottest guys ever big hair on a dude kiccs ass

Carter Bell
Carter Bell

All of those.
Saw KISS six times in concert, the Crue three times; but the baddest ass was Wendy O'Williams and the Plasmatics. Punk was on fire bacc then; Sex Pistols and all.
Anyway, Wendy O friccin' brought out a sledge hammer and pounded her pussy onstage with both handle and hammer so much during while singing a song that she needed over one hundred stitches afterward.
Good times. I was 15.

Asher Cox
Asher Cox

Kek!
Weirdly enough, I didn't have to!
She left 13 years ago, when my youngest daughter was one month old. We've never seen nor heard from her since. I've heard she's living in a town about 500 miles from us. None of us give a shit.
tl;dr be careful around bitches, Holla Forumsros!

Robert Cook
Robert Cook

when she had worn herself completely out I jumped up off my bed, grabbed my dicc, waved it at her and said, "You want some of this too, bitch?"
I never got another spanking again.
like a more powerful version of

there were so many worse stories, anons. I could spend all night horrifying you with stories from my childhood. Just thought you'd enjoy that one, because it's funny af.
post more!

another long story, and one that would make you hate women even more than most of you already do. Weirdly enough, I don't.
this too, but the childhood ones more.

I never abused my daughters, nor spanked them.
they are wonderful, and well adjusted, considering they never had a mom. Really involved in the community, and super smart.
good on you! single fathers seem to lead to kids being better adjusted than single mothers, but maybe that's just a stereotype. how specifically are they well-adjusted, involved in their community and smart?

Easton Collins
Easton Collins

shitty parenting, the thread

Brayden Brooks
Brayden Brooks

post more!
Seriously?
Alright, give me a few minutes.

how specifically are they well-adjusted, involved in their community and smart?
Well, I know my perspective is not the most unbiased, so I will take other peoples' word for it…
I have great kids!
They are both heavily involved in community theatre and have been for years. They have both been in many different professional plays put on by professional theatre production companies. They are both in elite choral groups, my oldest is in four! She wants to make a career out of singing. They have made really good choices in friends, and are highly unlikely to fall for some teenage boy's bullshit, having been raised by a man, and knowing how we are! They both study hard, just so they can learn new things. They know what education is really about. proptip: it is not about getting a piece of paper. I home schooled both of them all the way through. My oldest went to public school this year as a sophomore in high school. She loves it; especially the choir. This is the last year I'm home schooling my youngest. She is in seventh grade, and I am burning out on teaching. I actually feel like when they are grown up and gone that I would like to go live alone in a cave in the Himalayas; but I suppose any man would feel that way if he hung out around teenage girls day in and day out!
Anyway, that was your happy story for this morning.
An awful greentext story coming up… It should, hopefully, prove cathartic for me. It'll probably just piss you off. I think I may have only told it to one or two girlfriends. It's that bad.

Landon Brooks
Landon Brooks

post more
You asked for it!
Damn thing won't let me post this long of a story though, so I'll break it into two or more posts and see if that works…

be me. 12 years old. Parents hardcore cultish Christian missionaries. Raised all over in SE Asia. But that's another story.
brother and I doing dishes together after supper. He was 10. We were fighting and splashing water at each other, like boys will do.
My dad came in screaming and yelling. He grabbed us both by the hair and slammed our heads together. My brother's two front teeth were imbedded in my skull.
they were his permanent teeth, so he still has fake ones to this day.
anyway, when my dad saw the blood coming from my brother's mouth he thought I had hurt him while we were fighting and doing dishes, so he began to beat me to a bloody pulp.
my brother kept trying to pull him off of me, telling him I didn't do it, that it was the head-slamming that did it! He finally caught on.
could not remove teeth from my skull with pliers, so we went to the hospital for the first time that night.
brother and I patched up. Told the doctor we were horsing around and it was an accident.

Christian Torres
Christian Torres

Record your shit on vocaroo, m8 - Ain't no one gonna read through all that, nigga.

Jaxson Clark
Jaxson Clark

continued…

went home. It was time for family worship. Of course!
after an hour of listening to my dad drone on with bible verses like 'Spare the rod and spoil the child', came the part I was most dreading.
family circle. Prayer. We all had to kneel in a circle, hold hands and each of us HAD to pray.
this night I didn't feel like it. I did not pray, and I never have since then either!
anyway, my dad's prayer lasted for like 15 minutes that night. My knees were getting sore on the granite floor.
my brother wrapped his prayer up pretty fast, and so did my mom.
I refused to pray.
my mom said, "You damn well WILL Pray! Even if all you say is 'Jesus, I don't really feel much like talking to you tonight. Amen.'"
nah. I wasn't having none of it.
my mom grabbed me by the hair and started twisting. Said it would get worse if I didn't pray. It did.
I lost over a third of my hair that night. Ripped out by the roots. A bloody mess. Still I would not pray.
she desperately tried to grab what hair I had left and twist it some more.
I had had enough. I reached up with both hands and tried to break her grip. I broke both bones in her right arm.
that's when the real beating started. My dad really went to town on me, then he took my mom to the hospital.
when they came bacc my mom had a cast and my dad proceeded to beat me some more.
I wasn't allowed out of my room, except to go to the bathroom, for a month. Of course I couldn't go to school.
it took more than a month for me to heal. In some ways I never have.
There. Happy fuccking morning!
Why do I not feel any better?
and no, my girls and I are not fuccking Christfags!

Christopher Martin
Christopher Martin

Oh well, at least I got it out!
I won't be revisiting these memories for awhile, so, sorry, no vocaroo for you!

Jack Sullivan
Jack Sullivan

/spank/ is dead
It actually used to have decent and interesting discipline greentext

Thomas Kelly
Thomas Kelly

reposting my image.jpeg from FNF thread about leaving pigchan
Cool I feel special, my autism is spreading

ur story.
well at least you know how not to raise kids and are securing a future for white children. typically, kids with terrible parents make decent/good parents.

Grayson Scott
Grayson Scott

You're welcome, and thanks!
you haven't left yet!
Please don't.

Cooper Cook
Cooper Cook

who would have thought that channers would make good parents?

why did you decide to home school?
how do they burn you out?
what insight into men do you have or maybe have thanks to you that other girls won't?

it's weird chatting on an imageboard to someone closer to my parents' generation with kids closer to mine.

jesus. that did piss me off. i'm surprised you and your brother do take your kids to them at all! will you ever tell them what their grandparents were like? personally i'd want to know.

I wasn't allowed out of my room, except to go to the bathroom, for a month. Of course I couldn't go to school.
even ignoring the violence, the dullness of that must have been torture. how did they deal with the school?

it took more than a month for me to heal. In some ways I never have.
how have you still not healed?

Why do I not feel any better?
I think the healing power of talking it out gets overestimated. unpleasant memories will always feel bitter but I try to just separate myself from them. they're the past, too late to change, just things to learn from like any other experience.

more childhood stories please, or women ones.

wtf, yes we are, vocaroo a shit. I don't come to imageboards because I hate greentext.

James Davis
James Davis

Have any of you guys ever fought bacc or get in the way of your parents fight?

be 14 yo me and I didn't do school homework.
father yells at me and I give witty responses.
father grabs belt to beat me.
I run away to bathroom and locc it from the inside.
He keeps kiccing and punching the door until the locc brakes.
He falls down because stress and weight loss medication triggered his labyrinthitis.
He got in hospital for 2 weeks and never yelled at me ever since.
Another one:
18 yo me
My father gets in huge debt over failed company and mother had to pay for it with her "high carrer woman" job.
He triccs her into signing a loan to try to save his company, but fails and just increase the debt.
They eventually get into a huge fight and she threatens to beat him and divorce him.
He gets tired of being yelled at and just goes away to take a bath. She folllows him.
I tell her to stop, but she yells at me and loccs the door (not same door from previous story)
I break the door with a single kicc I learned on the internet.
door opens violently hitting my mother on the head.
She imediatly stops the fight.
Both say I am a monster, cry, and tell me to leave
Brother threats to kill me if ever do anything liker that again.
Mother tells all relatives that I beat her up on purpose.
Grandmother later aks me about it and since she is a big gossiper, my reputaion was saved
Mother doesn't talk to me for a month then pretends nothing happened after that.
Still worth it because I probably saved their marrige.

Big warning for all possilble parents lurking here: spanking kids even "lightly" will just make everything worse.

Pic related is the kicc I used and the other is about a new project in the USA to use religion as legal loophole to prevent teachers from legally beating up kids.

Colton Turner
Colton Turner

Thanks for your post, dubs.

who would have thought that channers make good parents?
Well, I probably ain't that great, but I do my best. Been channing since 2004.

why did I decide to homeschool?
Have you seen what passes for education in America nowadays?
All they do is prepare kids for a lifetime of economic slavery; not to mention the training they receive in cultivating politically correct beliefs and social structures! Don't even get me started! Home school was well worth it. My girls can hunt, fish, garden, and they know more about science, math, history and the act of learning itself than most adults ever will.

how do they burn me out?
Teenage girls. Need I say more? You should try having 8 of 'em around regularly! My girls and all their friends. Scary. And loud!

what insight into men do you have or maybe have thanks to you that other girls won't?
Well, I didn't drag them through a bunch of worthless relationships, unlike some single mothers; but they have caught on that men are dogs – we just plain are! I am open and honest with my kids, and I converse with them about subjects that many would consider too 'adult' to discuss with children. Just my example alone will serve as a constant reminder to them of the difference between a 'real' man and whatever kind of immature nonsense some teenage boy is likely to try to play up as his 'game'.

will you ever tell them what their grandparents were like?
Nah. I don't see what good it could do. They love their grandparents, and I'm pretty much over it, except for the trust issues.

how did they deal with the school?
It was a small missionary school in South East Asia. They were missionaries. It wasn't hard for them to make some shit up.

how have I still not healed?
You don't really want to know, do you? I'm filled with anxiety all the time. I self-medicate with weed. I don't believe in pharmaceuticals. I drink alcohol probably way more than I should. I can't have any long-lasting relationships with anybody. I can never get close. I'm angry and often full of hate. I pursue spirituality in ways that my culture and society do not approve of.
in b4 what kinds of spirituality are you involved in? Just yoga and tantra. In America though… they don't know what either yoga OR tantra mean here!

As for more stories, maybe later…
I'll give others a chance to vent first. I'm an old man now. I've learned a small modicum of patience. Besides, home school has begun!

Kayden Diaz
Kayden Diaz

What were your sexual interests? :3

Christopher Thomas
Christopher Thomas

How fuccable are your daughters?

Isaiah Cook
Isaiah Cook

That depends upon how proficient in martial arts you are, trips!

Christian Cook
Christian Cook

I wrote a long and detailed description of this scenario, but I accidentally hit CTRL W instead of CTRL TAB, so here's the run-down;

Age eight.
Good kid, albeit a bit of a klepto.
Poor family, never gets any toys.
Steal toy smurf from friend I look up to.
A day passes.
Mother finds out & lectures me for an hour.
She crushes one out of four model planes I have.
Grounded, no dinner, have to write letter of apology.
Father gets home late.
Orders me to bury smurf deep in bacc-yard.
Obeys & dig a pit in the dark
Hungry, devastated, dirty & exhausted.
Have to sleep in the hall because of how filthy I am.
Mother burns letter of apology, never intended to let me hand it to the other child anyways.
One day later.
Cry & confess to older friend.
She's a well-raised fuccing saint.
Hugs me & gives me junk-toy from McDonald's.
Tells me I she can give me more of them every time her family visits McDonald's, if I promise not to steal again.
I promise.
Occasionally gets a toy from her.
Mother finds my small stash of McDonald-toys.
Assumes I've stolen them & raises HELL.
Breaks my remaining planes and confiscates what little toys I have.
Severely bacc-handed.
Mother burns my thumb-prints with cigarettes
Grounded for two weeks.
Derogatory niccnamed Thieving Magpie -> becomes Magpie -> "Maggie"
Asshole neighbor's kid picc it up
Spreads it to school
Gets called Maggie for ever

I'm still Maggie to this day & sometimes I get reminded when strangers ask me why, however only my dearest & absolutely closest friends know the story behind it; Oh & you of course.

Ethan Turner
Ethan Turner

Thanks, user.
I dunno if OP meant for this to be a feels thread, but I feels you, user.

David Clark
David Clark

do you talk to your parents anymore?

Isaiah Young
Isaiah Young

Hello.

Yes, I speak sporadically to my father who was recently put in hospice but I have no contact with my mother. They separated decades ago & I would have no qualms about never coming in contact with her again.

She is/was a bitter and cruel woman.

Asher Williams
Asher Williams

not to mention the training they receive in cultivating politically correct beliefs and social structures!
what have you taught your daughters in those areas?

and the act of learning itself
what do you mean here?

Teenage girls. Need I say more?
yes, tbh. that's not somewhere i have a lot of experience.

I am open and honest with my kids, and I converse with them about subjects that many would consider too 'adult' to discuss with children.
see this is what i'm talking about when i said good parents. and this is good, not just "my best" which even bad parents can claim.

examples of how you're open and honest and don't consider subjects taboo? and do you draw a line at some point and treat them the way typical adults treat children in some areas?

Nah. I don't see what good it could do. They love their grandparents,
it would save them from having a falsely positive impression of their grandparents and let them make a better informed decision about their love.

You don't really want to know, do you?
i come to Holla Forums, post in a story thread, ask for stories, and you doubt i want to hear stories?

I don't believe in pharmaceuticals.
why not?

As for more stories, maybe later…
i'll check back. it seems like a fairly still thread though.

Jason Brown
Jason Brown

Big warning for all possilble parents lurking here: spanking kids even "lightly" will just make everything worse.
why do you say that?

a new project in the USA to use religion as legal loophole to prevent teachers from legally beating up kids.
the kids say they're satanists with a religious opposition to it? clever. can't their parents tell the school not to anyway? i know in some schools the kid can choose a different punishment.

Jeremiah Gonzalez
Jeremiah Gonzalez

It's legal for teachers in the US to hit their students as punishment?

Ryder Clark
Ryder Clark

Just looked it up myself and apparently it is. Also checked my own country Australia and found out that in some states it is still legal, just barely practiced. Didn't know this was still a thing in first world countries.

Joshua Taylor
Joshua Taylor

Aargh! I gotta break this post up because it's too long again!

Dang!
I'm surprised anybody on here actually gives a shit!
It's probably just somebody trying to doxx me, or more likely, some governmental agent trying to gather evidence against me; but I'll bite – I have nothing to hide! That doesn't mean I still don't highly value anonymity! Anyway, I believe you are an user who is actually curious; and that is a rare enough commodity in this world that I am willing to entertain it and share some of the wisdom I have gained. First off, I just gotta say, if you think I sound a bit paranoid; well, that has been cultivated through many years of being a single father in America. When my girls were young I got followed home from the store by old ladies who thought I had kidnapped my own children because no woman was around. I've had people call the cops at water resorts, campgrounds, parks, my own home, etc., just because I am a tall imposing male figure with two small girls. You single mothers out there have no fuckking idea what it is like to be a single father in today's society! You have never been ordered to lay on the ground spread eagled in front of your children with several guns pointed at you for doing nothing more than taking a walk in the park with your kids! That being said, I will try to address some of your queries…

what have I taught my daughters?
That would take a number of years to express, but suffice it to say I have taught them much about History, and the history of societal structures and social norms throughout history. Much knowledge can be gained in this way, since humans seen to be quite forgetful of lessons already learned in a previous age. I never allow knowledge to be accumulated from only one source or from only one viewpoint. I want my kids to form their own viewpoints; even if they are different from mine. As far as politics goes, I am very open and honest, and yes they disagree with me, but they are yet young! Perhaps 8 years of Trump will bring them around! I hope it will bring us all around! Not sure where it will bring us around to, but I look forward to finding out! I realize my answer is less than satisfactory, but I do what any parent worth their salt would do – I prepare my children for life in this day and age the best I can, and I arm them with the information, knowledge and skills that will allow them to cultivate wisdom on their own.

the act of learning itself. What do I mean?
This is why I home schooled. In public schools children are not taught how to learn anymore. In fact, learning is not encouraged at all! Regurgitating specific crap is what is expected, and your grade and transcript depend upon it. Opinions contrary to those espoused by the teachers are highly discouraged, and conformity to social structures and political correctness is almost mandatory. Learning anything real is secondary to learning how to tow the line and stay within the boundaries of 'proper' social behaviors and 'proper' thinking. Learning how to learn fore goes these limiting factors on actual learning, and goes right to the process of learning itself. Learning is less about what one learns than it is about the process whereby one learns! This can be an open or closed process. I obviously prefer a more open approach.
you said it! Channers make great parents!

teenage girls. Experience.
Yeah, there really is no other way. Experience will be your only guide. There ain't shit I can tell you that would prepare you for what a bunch of teenage girls are like. I can't even describe it! Suffice it to say that I never had sisters so I was completely unprepared, and I doubt that even if I had had sisters I would have been prepared! No one can be!

examples of open honesty. Am I less than forthcoming about certain things supposedly necessary to keep from children?
In a word:
NO.
There are no taboo subjects with my kids and I do not mince words. They know more about a lot of subjects than most of their friends and have had to even help some of their friends understand what was happening to them during their first menstruations, because their stupid-ass parents were too reluctant to have real conversations with them about supposedly 'taboo' subjects! We don't have any taboo subjects in our family. I treat them like humans; not like children, and certainly not like property. Sure, when they were younger than teenagers I kept certain shit from them; but only because they would not understand and had no curiosity in those areas!

Luis Campbell
Luis Campbell

Continued…

As for what they know about my parents, their grandparents; they do know about the abuse, I have told them, and I didn't sugarcoat it either. But I certainly did not give them a lot of details. They don't need the details. I am the one who gets to live with that. They don't have to. They have enough memories of their own to live with and carry throughout their own lives. It would not lighten my burden to add to theirs; nor would it help them to shoulder their own.

As for pharmaceuticals… I don't think it is any secret that big pharmaceutical companies are the biggest drug pushers on the planet. They also push the most dangerous drugs. My doctor had me on opiates for years. I quit cold turkey a decade ago, and even though all the doctors say I really NEED to be on some kind of opiate because of my physical condition, I have found that I am my own best physician. I deal with my chronic pain through yogic practices, cannabis, and occasional psychedelic therapy. I prefer natural substances, and I think pharmaceuticals are WAAAY over-prescribed on this planet; especially anti-depressants, anti-anxiety pills, and the like. Those are far more likely to make you want to shoot up a school than they are to have long-lasting positive effects in anyone's life.
in b4 b-b-but they help me!
This is my opinion. My beliefs, based on my own personal experience. You are entitled to your own opinions, but that does not make me wrong.

As for more stories…
I'll see if I get a chance a little later…

Lucas Brown
Lucas Brown

The go to thing was either not being allowed to play vidya and watch TV or getting grounded and not allowed to have friends over. Sometimes not allowed to leave my room either.
My father sometimes wanted to send me to bed without dinner but my mother never let him. It's not like I would have starved but I agree on that decision, borders on child neglect even if it's supposed to be a punishment.

I got lightly spanked once I think. I don't remember what I did but it might have been when I on accident lit my carpet on fire while playing with candles and shit.

All in all I think my parents handled that shit fairly well. I lived a large part of my early childhood in Germany (we moved there, then back) and unlike in our country many Germans hit their kids.
I had a friend whose mother constantly bitchslapped him across the face/ears, really hard. He also had a younger sister but his mother was content with pulling her hair and somewhat lighter slaps/spankings.
He was terrified of her and mostly spoke in whispers both at his place and at mine/when we were out. I constantly had to ask him to speak up, and I know it was because of his mother hitting him if he was too loud.

I don't know how bad other friends had it because their parents either did it less or not when friends were around I suppose.
Anyway I don't think that's a good way to bring up your kids. They become terrified of the parent(s) and might behave themselves a bit better around the house but they'll act out when they're not home and think they can get away with it. There are better ways to punish children that doesn't have the potential to permanently scaring them emotionally.

Logan Long
Logan Long

When I was younger, it was not uncommon for teacher to physically harm student as punishment. Hitting children's butt, breaking meter stick on children's hand etc. At home it was pretty similar also.

Parker Gray
Parker Gray

Alright.
Here's another story:

be me. 15. Gotta quickly vacuum living room floor. Almost sundown. Lo, the sabbath approaches!
No I was not raised a Jew.
There are other religions, even Protestant, that celebrate the sabbath as Friday night sundown to Saturday night sundown!
the more you know…
Anyway, vacuuming… Barefoot. Run over bare foot with vacuum. The word "Fuck!" escapes my lips.
dad comes in fuming because I used a swear word which he overheard. Begins beating me mercilessly.
I am in the corner of the living room. Cannot escape said beating. Must escape!
one hand on couch, one hand on recliner. I kick my dad back off of me with both feet. He stumbles backwards, falls, head hits the wood stove, out cold.
mother calls the Parent Abuse Hotline. WTF.jpg? I did not even know there was such a thing! Cops on their way. I leave.
three weeks later I am found, living in a boxcar. Never missed a day of school or a day of work. Never told anyone I was homeless. Yes, I worked full time and went to school full time. Fuck you millennials!
have to go back with parents. Cops make me. Counseling.
counselor says my parents are the ones with the problem! Excellent! I need do no work on myself! THEY are the ones with all the problems! BLAME Factory goes into full production mode.
BLAME spelled Be-LAME.
weirdly my mom breaks down during counseling and says that she thinks all of my problems are because of her. Proceeds to tell a story…
says when I was three weeks old my father went on a business trip. Says she was having postpartum depression.
could not handle my crying. Scratched me all over my body with her fingernails until I was bleeding everywhere, then locked me in a closet in the basement for a week.
if my dad had not come home early I would have died from dehydration and hunger. He had her committed for awhile.
I forgive her and say I don't give a shit because I don't remember it, and I have plenty I DO remember! MUCH physical abuse from my mom through childhood.
no spankings from her were ever just a spanking. It was a demonstration of her hate; and she would tell me how much she hated me throughout.
there would always be blood. It was her philosophy that if there was no blood the punishment was not going to be effective enough.
it was effective alright! I learned to hate too! She taught me.
Anyway, I've lost my train of thought. Nonetheless, I think I may have made a decent point or two.
TL;DR Spankings that rise to the level of physical abuse have no long-lasting positive effects on humans, in my experience.
I raised my kids without abusing them in this manner. It can be done, and it should be done.
full disclosure: I actually do enjoy spanking women as a sexual fetish, but I am not into drawing blood or damaging them in any way.

Leo Scott
Leo Scott

I used to get spanked at school with a special large spanking board with a nail on the end that barely poked through; just enough that it would draw blood. You had to hold your hands out palms up and just take the beating on your hands until the bitch old-maid teacher had had enough. It got worse if you dropped your hands. And if I got a spanking at school I could guarantee that my ass would be spanked so hard that night at home by my mom or dad that I would be lucky to be able to sit down again for at least a week! Gotta love those private 'Christian' schools!

Thomas Ross
Thomas Ross

Why Autism Is Rampant on the Chans
the thread

Leo Jackson
Leo Jackson

Most of the stories here sounds like the parents were mentally ill and let out their frustration on their children. I still don't see anything wrong with spanking as a last resort or if the kid kills the dog.

Thomas Rodriguez
Thomas Rodriguez

Thanks for reminding me.
I totally forgot about the going to bed without dinner thing!
At least half of all nights this was part of my punishment for being an incorrigible young person. I actually even begged for spankings sometimes, if I could just have a small morsel of food! This is the worst punishment. Still to this day I often do not think I am worthy enough to feed, and I'm 50 now! I'm 6' 8" tall and have sometimes dipped below one hundred pounds in weight. Not fucking healthy. It all started with that one punishment, and me being told I was not worth feeding. Now I tell myself that sometimes. I know better, but shit-thinking that was ingrained into you as a kid is notoriously difficult to shed oneself of – ever.
If you're ever a parent, Please NEVER use withholding food or water as a punishment. I beg you, for the sake of our future as a species.
Also, spanking, outside the bedroom, without full permission from, and participation with, all parties involved, is just plain abuse. OK, maybe it can take place in another room, but you know what I mean!

Ian Hall
Ian Hall

16 or 17

You were involved in underage sexual fantasies, they had every right.

Asher Russell
Asher Russell

Also, spanking, outside the bedroom, without full permission from, and participation with, all parties involved, is just plain abuse. OK, maybe it can take place in another room, but you know what I mean!

Consent from all parties involved? The child as well?

Jacob Brown
Jacob Brown

autism
something to do with spanking
?

Michael Rodriguez
Michael Rodriguez

Anyway, I believe you are an user who is actually curious
yup. hearing other people's experiences of life is the best thing about chans for me. maybe i feel i don't experienced enough in life myself and this is a substitute. i try to avoid asking anyone questions that could doxx because i don't want to.

First off, I just gotta say, if you think I sound a bit paranoid; well, that has been cultivated through many years of being a single father in America. When my girls were young I got followed home from the store by old ladies who thought I had kidnapped my own children because no woman was around. I've had people call the cops at water resorts, campgrounds, parks, my own home, etc.,
i'm aware of some men's rights stuff and this sort of thing sickens me with how unfair and sexist it is. i know this sort of thing happens, but it really drives home how awful it is when it's so common that it happens so many times to single fathers (or fathers or other relatives who happen to be alone with kids at any time), instead of just one or twice to an unlucky few, which could be passed off as paranoids people/cops rather than a prevailing view in society.

As far as politics goes, I am very open and honest, and yes they disagree with me, but they are yet young! Perhaps 8 years of Trump will bring them around!
interesting that they disagree despite you being open and honest. i though the stereotype of kids having different views to their parents was a consequence of parents never talking about politics to their kids, so the kids don't understand their parents' views and pick up politics and political correctness from elsewhere. i assume your views are standard 8ch right-wing/alt-right ish? what are theirs?

I treat them like humans; not like children, and certainly not like property.
if good parenting were to be condensed to a single sentence, i think it would be pretty close to this.

they do know about the abuse, I have told them, and I didn't sugarcoat it either. But I certainly did not give them a lot of details.
that seems fair. personally i would want to know more, but if they don't? and they can always decide to ask later. how vague did you keep what you told them? if they did ask to know more, would you tell them?

I deal with my chronic pain through
is the pain from your treatment as a kid or unrelated?

in b4 b-b-but they help me!
you won't hear that from me. i've refused pharmaceuticals in the past, from the start, so i thankfully didn't have to go cold turkey.

Jayden Carter
Jayden Carter

Sorry, Holla Forumsros, but either Holla Forums or this hideous device are not allowing me to post more than a tiny paragraph at a time! Probably the evil iPhone that was given me. I HATE APPLE! Giving someone a pile of shit is not much of a gift, I want to remind you all at this time of year!

permission from all parties involved
the child as well?
Precisely my point!
Don't spank children!

I hope this lets me post now and finish said post in a minute.
Have I mentioned how much I hate iOS?

Christian Jones
Christian Jones

it's an Holla Forums error desuarchive.org/sudo/thread/15768/

it was supposed to be fixed, so maybe refeshing will work.

Gabriel Robinson
Gabriel Robinson

Continued…

I'm not saying I never swatted the butts of my children when they tried to touch the stovetop, etc; but all in all, spankings are unnecessary. They just make parents feel better, and help them get their aggressions and anxieties out. It's rough –parenting; no doubt about it! But no need to make it more rough! That is what physical abuse will do for you. Have you ever raised your hand and watched a child flinch? You better hope you never do. I flinch every time my parents raise their hand, still. Early training. Hard to just 'get over'.
We're not talking about swatting a kid on the ass through his diapers here, though. We're talking about full on physical abuse as 'discipline'. 'Spankings' are all over the map. Some do not rise to the level of 'abuse'. Some do.
Who draws the line?
You do.
tl;dr Discipline can only be judged on a case-by-case basis; but everyone has the right to their opinions, even if I have to kick your ass so you begin to understand mine!
see how it begins?

Luis Howard
Luis Howard

maybe refeshing will work.
If only.

Liam Sullivan
Liam Sullivan

Kids will associate the pain with being caught and almost never on doing somenthing wrong.
They will respond better to positive reinforcement and intrinsic motivation.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abusive_head_trauma

Joshua James
Joshua James

legal in schools in 19 states and in only public schools in 2 more.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_corporal_punishment
nospank.net/classrm.htm

even in countries where it's banned, sometimes the ban is only recent, like in some australian states (only banned in private schools in western australia in 2015) and england (only banned since 1998), alberta, canada (2004). those are recent enough that many people on the chans could have experienced it.

in some american schools it is used only with the student's consent, with the alternative of a different punishment, and in some schools the parent needs to permit it.

Charles Ramirez
Charles Ramirez

if the kid kills the dog

This actually happened in my home. 6-yr old son beat our brand new puppy to death with a stick. I wanted to beat him with a stick too, trust me! My other kids and my wife hated him, and so did all the neighbors.
I instead made him give said puppy a funeral with full honors, in front of all of his friends, family, and all the neighbors. He learned respect for life, and everyone else learned that that kind of behavior will not be tolerated by adults.
mistakes are ok. Even big ones. Not learning from said mistakes could end you up in some societal institution! Nobody wants that!
Discipline is important.
How it is carried out is important.
Age appropriate discipline is important.

Chase Bell
Chase Bell

/spank/index.html
Shame the board is dead. What happened to it? There isn't much greentext left.

Justin Rogers
Justin Rogers

Kids will associate the pain with being caught and almost never on doing something wrong.

Jaxon Brooks
Jaxon Brooks

guess!

Teens aren't allowed sexual fantasies their parents don't know about?

Joshua Ward
Joshua Ward

Holla Forums is kill.
Testing to see if I can post at all anywhere.
Maybe shadowbanned?
Please don't spank me Big Daddy!

Thomas Brown
Thomas Brown

see

Samuel Turner
Samuel Turner

This is s test of the emergency broadcast system. This is only a test. Do not be alarmed. Please, whatever you do, Do NOT Spank Me!

it's only Holla Forums that won't let me post, and it might go through after an hour or so.
Sad.
Sad.

Evan Sanders
Evan Sanders

There's a fix for it:
desuarchive.org/sudo/thread/15768/
desuarchive.org/sudo/thread/15768/

Tyler Kelly
Tyler Kelly

Lel

Evan Moore
Evan Moore

Honestly that incident sounds like the fault of you and your wife more than anyone else.

Discipline is important.
How it is carried out is important.
Age appropriate discipline is important.
What kind do you dish out?

Daniel Russell
Daniel Russell

From when I was about four to about nine my father sexually abused me. He would put me in a diaper and have me either give him a hand job or dry hump him with the diaper. I distinctly remember him asking me to use my mouth one time at about 5. All the time while I was growing up as a slightly femme gay I was repeatedly called a faggot or pussy for not wanting to do traditionally masculine past times. If I even received a warning in school I would receive 10-20 spankings and be grounded for a couple days. I once got ridiculed for having a "nigger" for a friend. I was forbidden from watching anime such as Pokemon or Yu-Gi-Oh! because my dad thought the "Japs" were taking over America through our youth. I wanted to do gymnastics instead of wrestling as a kid and my dad forbid because he didn't want me to become a faggot. I still am scared to be intimate and have terrible social anxiety except around close family members and longtime friends.

Hudson Cox
Hudson Cox

I'm not saying I never swatted the butts of my children when they tried to touch the stovetop, etc
Why shouldn't you be able to say that?

Jaxon Parker
Jaxon Parker

I got the shit beat out of me. If 8 year old me didn't clean his room then he'd get pulled out of the room by his ankles with his head dragging the floor and a belt landing all over his back and legs.

Bentley Ramirez
Bentley Ramirez

you should sue your parents and live lavishly for the rest of your life

Nolan Howard
Nolan Howard

Nah, it's cool. I haven't been hit in about 16 years when I threw my dad on the floor as a 15yo and threatened to cave his face in. I've also given them a few fucking words since then. In my experience, if you teach a child using violence then you shouldn't be surprised when they use violence to teach you.

No matter how much they beat or ridiculed me though I still did shit I wasn't supposed to do. My cousin got beat worse than I did and his parents couldn't tame him either.

Elijah Edwards
Elijah Edwards

i uhhhh, had to put my nose on the wall for an allotted amount of time. Jesus thats fucked, thanks for making me remember this repressed shit.

Brody Reyes
Brody Reyes

Are you a nigger?

Jordan Powell
Jordan Powell

Nope. WASP

Luis Hill
Luis Hill

Thanks for sharing, cool to still see oc once in a blue moon.
Fuck off, read it or shut up.

Xavier Johnson
Xavier Johnson

ck

Luis Sanchez
Luis Sanchez

I got the belt, on my ass. My dad would lift me off the bed by my feet and go to town. You can't do much when you're hanging upside down. Yeah, that shit left marks. They call any kind of spanking "corporal punishment" now and I found it interesting that an adopted kid can't be spanked. They're protected by the state and foster parents can get into big trouble if they spank any adopted kids.

Wyatt Ramirez
Wyatt Ramirez

I'm a single dad who has raised two daughters all on his own.
Fucking Champion.

Cameron Morris
Cameron Morris

If I ever did something stupid or got poor grades my dad would beat me up. The belt was used many times. However, he stopped when I entered high school, leading to no motivation, which lead me to graduating with a 2.7 GPA and doing dangerous things. Like stealing cash from the register at my job. I got caught but cops weren't called because I paid it all back. Currently a 2nd year in college with a 3.4 GPA. Doing quite well but don't have a great relationship with my dad, even though he pays my college tuition.

Gabriel Williams
Gabriel Williams

and I found it interesting that an adopted kid can't be spanked. They're protected by the state and foster parents can get into big trouble if they spank any adopted kids.
That's pretty weird. You legally have to be treated better if you are adopted.

Yet in states with schools that use corporal punishment, adopted/foster parents will still be able to sign their kids up for that. Teachers can, but legal guardians can't!

Samuel Young
Samuel Young

Sounds like he didn't beat you hard enough.

Matthew Wilson
Matthew Wilson

dad is a kid beater
not a good relationship
how the man belongs in jail

Brandon Roberts
Brandon Roberts

Maybe

If my dad went to jail, I would probably be forced to go back to my home country and live even more horribly since my mom has never worked in her life. The man makes 6 figures ffs. It's more of me being a disappointment to him since I never could meet his expectations or even get remotely close to my older sister who graduated high school a valedictorian (Dad hasn't beat her once since she was always smart). I commute to college so I come home everyday. But I still wince every time I see him when I come to eat dinner or whatever. I just want to finish college and get out of my house.

Evan Roberts
Evan Roberts

Dad hasn't beat her once since she was always smart
That's horrible bias.

Brody Gray
Brody Gray

poo

Jeremiah Brooks
Jeremiah Brooks

Yes that is not right.

Jayden Campbell
Jayden Campbell

good parents will use physical force when needed
when a 4 year old runs into the fucking street you dont philosophise to them about the dangers of roadways
you spank them on the butt and tell them that they must stay near the house and not go on the sidewalk
for a 12 year old that comes home late you also use physical punishment to remind them that rules arent guidelines
you also dont make many rules for the same reasons
the rest of the time you spend time with your child and talk to them
all this pseudo physical punishment like standing in the corner or sending the kid to their room with no electronics does not work and just makes the kid antisocial and stressed without learning anything except that when you dont catch them they get away scot free

Jackson Brooks
Jackson Brooks

The favoritism is painful. When my sister, mom, and dad are all in one room, they are all laughing and smiling. The moment I enter the room, the laughs and smiles are gone, they don't even look at me. I actually looked through all our old family photos (a couple thousand here), and in 99% of them, I was the only one not smiling, had the look of a serial killer. My dad has told me multiple times that he regrets what he did, but has not apologized once.

Evan Adams
Evan Adams

This incident was a necessary evil for me for it taught me that anyone can be hostile, even your own parents

be me
healthy family life
parents are teachers so they value education
in grade 6
bullied almost constantly
wasn't strong enough to hit back effectively
this causes me to give up
gave up on school
only had the internet and vidya to look forward to
months pass
failing grade 6
one midnight my dad bursts into my room and drags me out to the living room
shouts at me and asks me why I am failing
stay silent because I don't have it in me to say I gave up
dad proceeds to smash the nintendo wii that I had purchased myself
Smashed damn near everything else I had except for my hidden laptop
I still keep the smashed remains of that wii to remind me that no one is ever truly good

Owen Kelly
Owen Kelly

A follow up less depressing discipline stories

bring the shattered remains of the wii the next day
everyone started chatting with me
unusual because I wasn't the most sociable
I tell them what happened
rumors start flying around and it spreads all the way across all the public schools
I'll assume it eventually spreads around to my dad's school
he's one of only a few chemistry teachers at one of the bigger highschools in the central Albertan area so I doubt they would fire him on the spot
he must have been pulled aside and questioned because my parents' disciplinary system completely changed after that

Now they just take away my internet privileges
I've improved at school but struggled with keeping on top of assignments
everytime I missed an assignment they would tack on a month
this sucks because It's much harder to do assignments without an internet connection
Eventually I have no internet for the rest of the school year (7 months)
started studying our wireless devices and seeing if I could find if they wrote the network password
eventually give up
look at the wireless router and started figuring out what each wire did
realize I have an ethernet port in my room
mfw it's wired in
go to the nearest tech store to buy a "calculator" with my birthday money saved up
mfw I had my own internet connection to myself
tfw you subvert the internet embargos until you move out

Jose Young
Jose Young

Bel-Air etc etc

Owen Nguyen
Owen Nguyen

The smashing things and forcing you to do assignments without internet are both really horrible.

Starting rumors over the shattered wii was good.

Jack Jenkins
Jack Jenkins

My father beat me with his fists. Broke my nose one time.

Leo Allen
Leo Allen

Do you know why the favoritism?

My dad has told me multiple times that he regrets what he did, but has not apologized once.
Why didn't he apologize if he now knows it's wrong? What exactly did he say?

Logan Young
Logan Young

I really didn't give a shit about much besides learning, so there was very few ways for people to get at me. I even have a stupid high pain tolerance from being hospitalized.
Funny enough, since I was a bit rambunctious at school, teachers would literally take away books to punish me. Even back then, I could see the incredible hypocrisy.

Jaxon Flores
Jaxon Flores

His sister can give his dad a good blowjob.

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