Regarding marriage

A nuclear family is one of the, if not most, crucial aspect to a society's well-being as most of us know. It's also equallly important to the best interests of the white race.

The problem is of course that modern women are brainwashed into being whores. Women worthy of marriage are a rarity these days, and reforming a whore is nearly impossible because of the permanent cognitive side effects sleeping around has for women.

Getting married is high risk, especially if you live in the U.S. You will likely get divorced and cucked.

The only things I can think of to prevent this is to be as alpha as you can and be very picky about your future partner.

Proposed points of discussion:
- Where do you find a decent wife prospect?
- Is it a bad idea to take advantage of sluts until you do find a wife?
- How do you into alpha?

Other urls found in this thread:

jesus-is-lord.com/cath.htm
jesus-is-savior.com/False Religions/Roman Catholicism/catholic_church_is_not_christian.htm
carm.org/is-catholicism-christian
faithdefenders.com/articles/worldreligions/Ten_reasons_why_Christ_Catho.html
ianpaisley.org/tiara.asp
youtube.com/watch?v=xeAerBwVL14
soundcloud.com/stefan-molyneux/fdr-3285-the-war-on-men-suzanne-venker-and-stefan-molyneux
amazon.com/gp/aw/reviews/0982947933/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_hist_1?ie=UTF8&s=sd&sortBy=sd&filterByStar=one_star&pageNumber=1
amazon.com/Two-Income-Trap-Parents-Choosing-Stay-ebook/dp/B00R6QG1AE?ie=UTF8&tag=freedradio-20
chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/308404/jewish/Abandoned-Baby-Syndrome.htm
archive.is/Uxj4f
thefamilyalpha.com/
catholiceducation.org/en/education/catholic-contributions/virtue-and-the-art-of-living.html
twitter.com/AnonBabble

Not a fucking clue.
You'll just end up feeling shitty about it, and you'll increase your risk of getting an STD, so why bother?
The whole alpha/beta thing is a load of shit. A man's a man.

All you need is 95% white country, and everything is fixed. The focus on anything else is BS, and is just a distraction from what actually matters.

Among Christians. Not Chrizis, but actual Christians.
Yes, as that’s degeneracy. It damages you psychologically, just as it damages the woman.
Act like a fucking man.

No, there are definitely better and lesser men. The lesser ones being beta of course.

With that said, you can't be inherently alpha or beta, but you can possess traits that are. Acquiring alpha traits is what every proud white man should strive for.

Beta mantra right here

I can't tell you how many "good Christians" turned into total sluts once they actually found their "one" man to break her chains, then screwing him over to find another man.

Wrong. Nuclear family is degenerate. Extended family is the traditional foundation of society.

A high number of sexual partners for women will increase the likelihood of failed marriage. It hardly matters for men. There's a complete study for this but pic related.

He said a decent wife, not a feminist coalburning slut.

how is this Holla Forums related?
sage
k
This is blown way out of proportion. Loud minority and a silent majority. Although this age of decadence has shown increase in the "whore"ish behaviour.
lol (((they))) have been saying that for decades.
It's not so much that fucking men changes them. Women who do participate in that type of behaviour are characteristic of what not to dedicate your best years to (marriage).
It is. It's (((basically))) a social contract certified by the Government now.
Only happens if
Gee thanks for the advice Sherlock.
They're everywhere. The most important quality you need is undying loyalty. Without that your relationship won't last. There are multiple ways to gain someone's loyalty, so do that.
No one gives a fuck. Just avoid fucking niggers/eastern city slav girls because AIDS.
Pic related.
^ You just have to be a bit more physically fit than the available pool.

No thanks, I'm a fan of not having alimony or being a cuckold.

Tons of female christans are huge sluts though- especially the catholics. Plus they will only marry a fellow christfag.
You don't need to go to church to find a decent, traditional woman.

The meme of "pure religious girls" needs to die. If they were so pure why would they subscribe to a religion based around submission of guilt?

It is basically all connected to each other in steps:

Stop watching porn and masturbating until you get so horny that you will only care about fucking women and won't give a damn about trivial bullshit.

It's not, but it's risky. It will make you more experienced and you will feel more satisfied and confident about yourself. Just make sure you always have protection and don't get attached to them because they are damaged beyond repair and should only serve to elevate you, not to drag you down.

There is no certain answer to this question, but you will eventually meet her when the time is right, don't rush it. Perhaps she lives in your neighborhood, goes to the same church or some of your friends and acquaintance know a girl that's just right for you.

That's the advice I can give you, it worked for me so far.

Incorrect.

How is it not Holla Forums-related to find a decent wife and start a family? Breeding white children, you know?

Why so rude desu

Ever socialise?

Fixed that for you.

In Isreal.

Yaaas goy, marry and reproduce to form a nice family.

So you can enroll your children in our public education system.

So you can buy things for your child and family, don't forget the diamond ring!

Don't forget about taking a loan to afford a 3 bedroom+ house!

What about a family sized vehicle? Also use a loan for that.

Don't forget to teach your kids about loans so they can go to college and learn to be politically correct!

Also make sure you have a TV so you can let it raise your kids, while they are watching "kid appropriate" television!

I'd recommend against the sluts. Women raised by single moms clamour for any male approval. That is WHY they go whore. They go bi because idiots wanting threesomes applaud them trained seals.

I for one like Christian girls. Long hair, encouraged virginity, they are great. Opposite of the Tinder, Whisper, Kik whorebags.

As for Alpha that is an American phallacy. Just work, get good grades, go up in your career. Money, career, and confidence attracts ALL women. Try chatting online woth girls if it works cool if not, next. Not for sex just chatting.

Yes, and it is apparent that all modern females are whores.

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Yes goy, don't reproduce. Why don't you try homosexuality instead?

Your point is what? You’d prefer to pick from a pool of moral relativists with zero ethics whatsoever, or from a pool in which you WILL get some with ethics?

Reported for obvious INTL.

Come on.

That's some subtle shilling right there

You don't need either of those things to have a successful family.

Statistically it happens 50 percent of the time.

No true scotsman fam. Catholicism is probably the oldest denomination. And I didn't say only catholics. I meant female christians in general.

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Today's women aren't fucked in the head because they sleep around. They sleep around because they're fucked in the head. There's no chicken-egg question at all here: They're fucked in the head because their parents mistreated them, lied to them, befriended them, saddled them with confessions, and then disrespected each other, cheated on each other, and in the end very often broke apart the family.

Whether a woman has slept around is still important, but it's important because it's an indicator of her deep rooted baggage. Not because it's going to cause involuntary behavior down the line. Adult misbehavior doesn't really make that kind of a mess. Childhood experience makes that kind of a mess all over the place.

This is why the absolute most important thing to look for in a woman is a love of her parents and a good relationship with them.

Second to this is calm. A ruined woman is rarely calm. Sometimes calm can be taught, but there has to be a core of peace in there somewhere for you to start with or she's a lost cause.

If all else is well, don't worry so much about how many men she's been with. What you want to watch for is how long she requires you to wear a condom. If she's been serial dating and hooking up with friends but not taking loads, she's probably not too badly poisoned. Your babies won't have some other asshole's DNA lingering around in their brain stem. But if she's letting you spunk in her gash after just a few weeks, even if she only fucks in a relationship, she's probably been doing this with a few men per year since she finished high school. Sex is good for you, and you'd be a fool to dump a cool, fun, sweet girlfriend just to salve your obsessive-compulsive thoughts about what ghosts are swimming around in her scarred uterus - but when it comes time to grow yourself a baby, you might want to think twice before doing it in there.

This thread is /adv/-tier.
OP is asking essentially asking
lol k
thread's purpose is to help someone with their life. they are asking a question so general to bring in an audience it fails to answer any question besides regurgitating the same information any of you nignogs would have heard.
You know how that happens? Guys marry the first girl that happens to treat them slightly better for a bit longer time.

Jews gotta love this world. Upsetting that today's youth are being taught only one thing.

there is where the discrepancy is.

Statistics say a lot of things that misrepresent.

It is much higher than that in the younger generations. If you remove old people and only focus on couples of child-bearing age, it is closer to 60-70%.

Good point, I didn't even think about
For most people on this board the odds are even worse.

If they live in modern society, they are modern whores. Unless you are going for Amish girls or something.

If a female has ever watched a Hollywood movie, watched TV, or listened to popular music, then she is permanently damaged and unfit for marriage. This is just a fact.

From what I can tell you about that high divorce rate it comes down to
or they do it to be "romantic", prove to their elders they're a "grown up", etc.
That and marrying previously divorced people with kids has to be the most retarded thing ever.
It destroys the family every time. Makes the mother hate herself. The kids hate the mother. Absolute destruction of any family bond.

Just fucking stop. You’re embarrassing yourself.

Reported for obvious INTL shill.

Unless you're well off, good luck trying to have a "traditional" family without buying it from the merchant.

You DONT need any of those things sure, but good luck getting ahead in modern society with a family that will be more of a hinderance than a blessing.

The largest Christian denominate as Christian? You can't really blame him user, personal definitions are hard to keep up with.

It is either that or marry a used up whore who is past her prime child-bearing years. People should ideally be marrying around 16-20 years old. The fact that you need to shop around for a girl who isn't damaged for ten to fifteen years before finding one that is halfway decent only shows that our society is already destroyed.

*denominate

I'm not asking for advice. This is an important discussion to be had and the proposed points were only for getting the thread going.

We already have plenty of Trump and jewry threads. Fuck off with your low energy.

HAHAHA i finally lost it, how far will/can the merchant go?!?!?!

user, you're posting wrongthink on normalfagchan.
The meme police will be dispatched to your house immediately.

The average western women has fucked 7 men already by that point we have to younger

Is that all you have to say? No actual rebuttal? Alrighty then. My point still stands, cathocucks are christcucks.

Yes. You don’t know the definition of the word. Stop embarrassing yourself.

Commit suicide immediately.
jesus-is-lord.com/cath.htm
jesus-is-savior.com/False Religions/Roman Catholicism/catholic_church_is_not_christian.htm
carm.org/is-catholicism-christian
faithdefenders.com/articles/worldreligions/Ten_reasons_why_Christ_Catho.html
ianpaisley.org/tiara.asp

You are the one on the defensive about any critiques to your idea. Quit low energy posting and give us relevant scenarios quadcuck.

So your personal definition is more relevant or real then a billion other peoples, wow that's faith I guess.

This doesn't debunk what I said. Again, catholicism is the largest and oldest christian sect/denomination.

Well, ideally they wouldn't do that either.

Those all seem like good unbiased sources.

You do not understand?

Your criticism is of no value, all you do is shit on the thread with no real input.

Also, your neglecting of the importance of breeding white children makes me suspect you're just a faggot shill

We truly weren't meant to live like this.
I'm so lonely.

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youtube.com/watch?v=xeAerBwVL14

also, i doubt women are as horrible as the electric jew would have us believe.

It is the opposite. They are worse. TV tries to present females in the best possible light.

If your butthurt comment is true. Then you have contributed nothing but waste everyone's time by baiting comments for your desire for attention.
Do you have narcissism bro? Maybe that's why (((women))) find you as a insufferable faggot.

So If I mask anything with "promoting whites" loosely then I can get away posting a shitty low effort thread? k
HOW DO I DATE IN THE EVIL POST MODERN 100% JEW CONTROLLED LIBERAL SIDE OF THE CITY WHILE KEEPING THE SANCTITY OF THE WHITE RACE and making white babies!
Almost as bad as those threads a few months back (((literally))) asking about dating advice and "r8 how i did today".

Get a hobby that's male dominant. That's how you get good friends.

Don't tell OP that. He might have a heart attack with your disapproval of his perfect insight.

A true pollack would not get this triggered m8.

Work. Friends. Church. Regular encounters. Avoid bars like the plague unless you've seen her before outside the bar.
No. What are you, a degenerate? Save your seed and have some self-discipline. The Marital Embrace is named as it is for a reason.
Let's be honest, just give zero fucks. Lose, and you're no worse off. Can't hit a homerun if you're afraid to swing the bat user.

The wouldn't do that if they had a traditional society in place and that requires strong men with a strong threat of ostracism, and it's easier to cut them off at the pass on this, once you understand women it's obvious how dumb they are, just start looking for a husband when she has her first period and take time to vet a nice guy and let her pick, this sort of thing would get many more young men into church because that's a good way to meet age disparate girls.

I could write a paper on why this needs to be done but it wont matter unless Holla Forums stops acting like a bunch of white knight faggots and realizes women are whores by nature they are not a noble creature and it requires some suppression by society to keep them in check to form a society worth being a part of.

OY VEY
i see you are changing ips!
change tactics scholmo

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the average virginity loss age is 17
so it not impossible to find wife material technically
i don't know get engaged with a 16 y/o ?
it's not illegal as long as you don't sex her right?

You can't.

saved for posterity

first angle is glorification
tv presents people in a good light for doing bad things.

it's glorification of degeneracy.

the second angle is creating fictional characters that are the exception irl, pretending it's the norm, creating guilt and false hope.
feminist angle would have us measure a woman's worth by the size of her paycheck, and all other measures of man.

women just oughta be healthy, happy and supportive. only in a shit society with shit men do women work as hard as men on top of child-rearing.

This would require changing the laws, though. As long as the state is playing daddy to all girls, there is nothing that can be done. You can be as alpha as humanly possible, but you aren't going to be more alpha than the government.

Then go out and become your own hero.

hey stefan

Sorry goy, Schlomo #1 is on break.

But I would prefer if you addressed me by my Hebrew name, Big Chaim Longjohnskin.

Explain.

Oh hey one of these threads
The last one was I went on about trying to reform a girl with bubblegum hair.
Turns out yes, she is a virgin. I found out as I fingered her to her first orgasm, while I wore a MAGA shirt. She is now more or less wife material, submissive and all of the cherishable qualities. Overheard her telling a friend that she was learning to cook. Going to spend the day together, getting her to watch the entire star wars saga since she somehow has gone through life without seeing it.

They can be saved, but you have to nab them before college.
I've never been happier in my life. It's all thanks to you Holla Forums.

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The only way to break the future chain of feminist kike-inspired brainwashing and whoring around is to revert back to arranged child marriages and raise her to be both a proper woman and a perfect spouse/mother.
When you leave a woman to her own accords, she'll pick what's worst for her every time.

There is nothing wrong with that. Its like the faggots the say we need to cut down on pollution it won't even matter because China and India won't stop, no reason to be the morally superior loser.

I could argue with you about how i was pointing out a contradiction according to statistics in this very thread, but i doubt you'd listen.

You do you.

Why is everyone with a Iphone always a shit poster?

Actually, men who are well off stand to lose the most from a marriage. At least someone who is already poor won't be any different after alimony.

I don't know. Maybe i'm a low effort thinker.

fuck sluts to build confidence. this is how you into alpha. STDs are a CDC scare tactic to prevent white sex.
t. guy who fucked 17 single mothers.

nuclear master race family incoming after the economy crash.

heh

Wasn't that suppose to happen like half a year ago

that's how women work in general user. You want them to be sluts for "the one". the point is to be the one, and marry them first.

how did you meet?

Woman fucks lots of men = loss of inhibitions concering sex = slut

It wasn't a shit post; i just criticised the stance because its hypocritical.

Why do white supremacists on pol have this weird fetish that only Nordics are white?

They're literally a tiny minority within white race.

because shame is the only way to control a woman

Catholics literally are the worst of the christians, all the catholics I've known have been brainwashed white girls who will blow anyone, and hispanics who want to pump out 10 brats per guy.

I have no idea what you're talking about. Who let you guys out of your containment board?

So you're telling me that slavs, italians and spanish are white? Maybe for the slavs, but italians and spaniards are almost all contaminated from jihads.

every woman you fuck and don't marry ruins her for her future husband.

its degenerate and the reason why is because it causes long term problems to your fellow man for your own short term gain.

She was sitting at a dunkin donuts, I complemented her cuteness. She turned red as a cherry, apparently she didn't get many sincere appraisals. I told her I thought it was a crime that she wasn't used to that, and payed another complement.
I then became addicted to making her blush with corniness, like kissing her hand while bowing. Her friend had to hand me her number because she wanted to, but chickened out. It's adorable seeing such a snow white face turn so many shades of pink.

There's always going to be cum-dumpsters, they're cum-dumpsters inherently, and won't be good wives anyway. Having sex with one won't damage her value more than what she's done herself.

Yes

Nordic traits are rare within in Europe, mostly found in Norway, Denmark, Sweden and Finland but they are tiny fucking minority in Europe.

There is no point if fetishizing them and turning them into poster child for white nationalism.

Fuck them. I don't know those men, and they wouldn't have problems if they weren't such omega tier bitches.

schlomo get out

Why don't things like that ever happen to ME?

is it because I'm a slavic untermensch?

This is why we can't have nice things. Fucks like you not caring about community. There wouldn't be half as many sluts if guys like you hunted for a wife instead of just sex.

Thank god someone has a brain in this thread.

It's foolish to care about something that can't reciprocate for me. I don't even know you, faggot. You certainly don't have my best interests in mind, and that's fine. I don't want you to, and I don't want your support either. I won't ask for my fellow man to help me for free, and I won't do the same in return for them. That's fair.

Why are you in a thread, started by someome who was concerned with the impact of his choices on wider society? I get that it all starts with the individual, but Its individuals choices that shape their society.

lol no, that would be Orthodox, who actually take sin seriously and work to avoid it. Personally I think one of the reasons is because in Orthodoxy, you're not shamed or guilt-tripped into avoiding sin, but rather encouraged to self-improvement and to be the best that you can be. We look at the positives of avoiding sin, rather than at the negatives of giving into it.

I'm under the assumption this is the free speech board. Hide my post if it triggers you that much.

It doesn't trigger me, but i'm curious about what you think your input will contribute when it relys on contrdictiry ethics.

This is you, this is your reasoning
If you're in a city I can see how you got this opinion. If you had fewer people bustling through your life, if you recognized most of the faces you saw every day, I think you might reconsider.
Your actions affect the whole. You making whores makes the whole a bit whorier. You are adding to the problem. You're apathy for other's marriage prospects is, dare I say, immoral.

God damn autocorrect.
Your*

Forgo marriage until the eventual collapse. I truly hate to say it, but the best chance any man has to go through as many women as possible until they find a 'unicorn'. That doesn't mean pump & dump, you can simply date, be honest, and see where it goes. And remember it isn't just about the girl - find a girl with a good family and she'll likely be good too. Never date a product of a single mother. Never date a product of a beta father.

All that being said, good luck finding a valuable and worthy wife. You're better off becoming wealthy and simply buying children. Hire a mother figure (nanny, make sure she's white, educated, and devoted), and hire the best tutors money can buy and raise the next generation that will fix this terrible mess. Another thing one could try is finding a barren woman. It's sad, but they seem to be utterly devoted to their 'children'. Find one, hire a surrogate, and have an actual wife to raise a family with.

OP, google the book of pook. Read it. Live it. Struggle to make your life great. When everything falls into line you will find your wife waiting for you.

You are not yet a man, you are unfinished, so why should you deserve a good woman. Become a man first.

Are you 14?

Ugh, this stale old meme?

If you have three brothers, and two marry once for life and the other marries and divorces 3 times, then the statistics would say that between the three of them, they have a 60% chance of divorce.

The other two brothers would be idiots to base their life decisions around these statistics, though.

Age of consent is 16 in a lot of states.

The greatest predictor of success/failure in relationships is how well your parents got along (did they divorce? were you raised by a single mom? was your father a betacuck?, etc.)

23, and she's about to turn 20
Yes I know, very childish, but if it works it works.

For posterity

Good going, user.

Listen to this interview with Suzanne Venker. She has a lot to say on this topic.

soundcloud.com/stefan-molyneux/fdr-3285-the-war-on-men-suzanne-venker-and-stefan-molyneux

Oldfag here.


Literally anywhere. Don't listen to the shills, Jews, and bitter betas around here. The world outside is not nearly as bad as they might tell you. The shills and Jews want you to be afraid and give up before you even try. The embittered want to convince themselves that the shills are right because they're weak and want an excuse it's not me and my laziness, the world is just so shitty I'm actually making the right decision!! …but then why am I so lonely and depressed?

Stop going to male-dominated things and expect to find a good woman. There are no good women there, and even if there were, you'd be priced out of the market. Go to female-dominated things (yes, they're boring and stupid) and you'll be in hog heaven.

Get a good social group from all generations. Make bonds with them. People might introduce you to a woman, find you a job, or give you things they don't want. Return the favor, too.


Yes. Women don't actually want to hand out free sex, even the sluts. There will always be a price to pay (usually emotional aggravation, sometimes worse).


Lift, eat right, have a plan in life, and make some trusted friends. Don't externalize all your problems (women have ruined everything in society!), internalize them (have I helped ruin society lately? what have I done to make it better?)

The problem with marriage is men can no longer enforce the contract as the (Western) government is the sole repository of force/violence and they refuse to enforce the contract. In fact they will often enforce the woman's abrogations of that contract.

What you need to do is set up your life so that you are not dependent on the (Western) government to enforce your contracts.

There's two ways you can do this:

1) Set up your life so that you can commit and get away with crimes at will.

2) Set up your life so that you can avoid the jurisdiction of (Western) governments so that they cannot enforce the woman's abrogations of the contract against you.

1 can be achieved by mastering combat. Learn how to fight and kill your enemies and avoid any retaliations for doing so, whether by the government or by other criminal gangs.

2 can be achieved by learning a trade-able skillset that can allow you to find employment anywhere around the world and having enough cash on hand to ditch your country for another one that won't extradite you should you need to avoid your former country's jurisdiction. My suggestion is to obtain an engineering degree or if you don't have the money, then either programming or some trade like electrician.

Go get your own women you fucking beta. It's your fault if you can't.

And I make a conscious effort to not recognize or even attempt to know any of the "faces I see every day". I don't want them to know me, and I don't want to know them.

Again, why are you contributing to this thread? The question was 'how can i find a good white woman' not 'how should i view all women and lead my life'. To present that argument, you'd first have to prove that a woman that has had numerous sex partners isn't more likely to have a divorce or be unhappy - which has been statistically proved.

Your advice is worthless. It is a whole different ball game than the 1960s when you were chasing skirts. It is literally "walk up to the manager and give him a firm handshake" tier advice. Things have changed.

Why do you think I care about your opinion?

Why do you think thats an acceptable response? Justify your stance beyond "i can do what i want and no one else matters".

It's funny how you think I have to justify myself to some random user.

It's funny that you are making yourself out to be an irredeemable ass to complete strangers. An odd form of entertainment you have there.

What if I told you that an oldfag around here is 30

Then your argument is poor. i think you're only posting in this thread looking for confirmation bias, and you're panicing because you've only found resistance.

Fair enough. Your opinion is your own to have, and I'll defend that right. I just don't have to care about what that opinion is, because you are a nobody in every way to me, as am I to you.

Same thing. Things have changed significantly even since the early 2000s.

And how would you know?

Because society has deteriorated significantly since then, and females are simply a reflection of their society. Low quality society equals low quality females.

I mean how would you actually know? If you're under 30, you were a child in the early 2000s, your opinion is shaped by what others have told you, and is worthless for comparison.

Care to expand on this one?
I've toyed with things like ballroom dancing (usually even in male/female rating) in the past, but outside of that I honestly don't know what women from my generation Millennial do nor do I know where they congregate.

Is that something that needed to be declared? We know that, you know that. Nobody is attacking that. There is disagreement with the implied set of priorities you have brought to attention.
Your ego entered the thread, and it's shit. Who are you trying to impress, virtue signal, get to notice by declaring to the world "I don't give a fuck about you"?
It's fucking pointless, self deprecating. The way you publicly declare your casual misanthropy may come back to bite you.

If there is one thing I've come to learn about Holla Forums, one overriding principle, for better or worse it is where the anons that do give a fuck come to talk. You're an odd one for sure.

Almost spilled my soda.

Ok user, let's say I do give a fuck. How am I being productive by posting on a degenerate imageboard if I care so much? You would think that I would want to do something productive.

Girls don't do anything that isn't completely gay.

Don't try to fool me kike. America only ever gets worse. It is like an iron law of reality.

On second thought, you could try becoming a high school teacher and seducing a female student, marrying her after graduation. This is the only thing that could possibly work today.

Center of web culture, shared with Holla Forums, /a/ and Holla Forums
Web culture is the center of pop culture thanks to social media
Pop culture is the center of western culture due to the nature of post industrial entertainment

Being here, in this faceless domain, is the absolute closest humanity has come to the concept of a hivemind. Coming here informs you in the most direct and colored manner of the relevant information and connections. If you care about the bigger picture, this is probably the only public forum to get something of a clear picture of it.
Being is is a waste of time, yes. Being here and applying the knowledge isn't.

The women who go into male-dominated activities are usually insane or low-quality. Avoid them. That was my main point.


That's surprising, but your head is in the right place. I'd recommend bookstores, thrift stores, anything to do with animals, anything to do with interacting with people, farmer's markets, gay ass craft shows, and overpriced health food markets. Also all social functions that you get invited to but might otherwise blow off, weddings, graduations, etc.

And don't give up after 1 or 2 times.

That criterion alone isn't really much help. What's considered gay today might be the next hit fad tomorrow and Millennials are known for their adherence to shitty fads.
As appealing as a teenager's nubile form and malleable psyche are, I doubt that what you recommend here would fly today. Especially considering that anything involving a male teacher and female student is blown up by the press and would ruin my name.

Thanks for the input, though.

It might be worse today, but it's only about 2% worse. Ask anybody who remembers it.


Gas yourself.

8ch is extremely unpopular and has a few thousand regular users. I go here exactly because it avoids the regular public.

So sorry, me posting on 8ch is extremely unproductive and accomplishes nothing. Knowledge can come from anywhere, and so applying it is not a credit to 8ch, but to the individual action to apply said knowledge.

This is basically what most people who come here believe. I as an Individual, I like to come away from this board having learned something. to do that i have to cut any emotional ties i have to my views.

If you don't learn something from scrolling through the theads here, or any of the discussion - then you're not making the most if it.

No. Just on the tattoo issue, we are probably 10x worse than in the early 2000s. Used to be uncommon to see females with tattoos but now it is the majority of them.

Again, you have no idea or you just have very low standards to begin with.

Good luck finding a single girl who
-has no tattoos
-is a virgin
-is not fat
-is not "gender fluid"
-is not insane
-does not consume Jewish media
-is not over 20 years old
-has not attended college

Even with this, things that would be considered normal in the 1950s, you are talking about 1-5% of females, max.

Kek what. I come to imageboards for entertainment, always have and always will. Discussion eases boredom for me and I like laughing, and good OC threads are funny.

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Seems tolerable, though I certainly need to work on initiating conversations with women without liquid courage.

And we've come to one of the major issues with my generation, people often have large circles of so called friends in social media but these translate poorly to reality, where people may have a group of friends that rarely exceeds 5 people.
I can't remember the last time I was invited to any kind of social function that didn't involve college, a drunken bender, or both.

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I think what he's getting at is that the chans in general seem to be the origin for the most effective and popular memes that are passed around on normie websites like faceberg, with Holla Forums having the largest contingent of near original 4chan users.
It's not that we're the population center for modern web culture, we're more of the foundry of it and can be at the center in terms of indirect influence.

You come to a political board for entertainment? I usually go to Holla Forums if i want something to laugh at.

>>>/mgtow/

Yep, that's what I was getting at. If it were an ancient society we'd be something of a mystery cult.

1) find a girl 2-8 years younger than you
2) lower or equal sex # partner than you
3) willing to give up her career to raise kids (ask her if she would early in your relationship)
3) decently intelligent and outspokenly opposes feminism
4) prioritize the above over looks (ignore your penis/lizard brain)
5) convert to Christianity if necessary

The only thing you remember from that time is your mother's titty. I am telling you, it's not much worse now.

This is a trend among everybody. If she has a small one, who cares? If she has a tramp stamp or sleeves, run. Either way, still happened in 00

This hasn't been on the table for several generations. Stick to 2 or under partners and you can mitigate your risk.

This actually has gotten worse, I'll give you that.

Have you ever met one IRL? This is just LARPing, like all things women, they drop it if they find a worthy guy.

top kek, when have women ever been sane?

Hasn't happened in living memory.

Retarded standard for a type K race.

Questionable.

I wouldn't say your standards are too high, but rather completely retarded on some counts.

Everything that leaves imageboards immediately goes to shit when they get to other websites though.

8ch doesn't influence anything except angry feminists and GoodGoys who followed here when that was all the hype. Pretty egotistical to think an imageboard of a few thousand is that important when it isn't.

My advice is to first work on initiating conversations period.


Your mom's co-worker never invited you to her son's wedding? Nothing like that at all?

This. Holla Forums isn't a board for entertainment. Sure Holla Forumsacks can be funny but it's not entertainment, there's a core message which is serious and far-right. Or else we will sink into a cancer cuckchan/pol/ state,

Your standards are simply too low. I only ask for the same thing that all of my ancestors asked of women. And that list is only a minimum that should be sought, and doesn't even mention any positive qualities. When you start getting into that, you are looking at less than 1% of females.

Lol no. Lower age of marriage has always been desirable. It could be as high as 22, but today that means at least 2-3 more added on the cock carousel but more likely many more than that.

And there are no r or K races. This is a dumb idea that people repeat that has no evidence backing it. You can even see it being btfo in the Amazon reviews of the book.

amazon.com/gp/aw/reviews/0982947933/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_hist_1?ie=UTF8&s=sd&sortBy=sd&filterByStar=one_star&pageNumber=1

31 year old oldfag here, things are different. How do I know? Because I still date girls in their early 20's, same as I did when I was in my 20's.

I have to say though, it is much easier to spot a problem woman from afar now, than it was 10 years ago. Now that tattoo's are a thing her parents get her on her 16th birthday for maintaining a 3.0 GPA. Not to mention the venom colored hair.

These girls take for granted that there are more than two genders. They believe that identity is whatever you say it is. Their sense of self is purely superficial and hedonistic.

Spontaneity and being agreeable are the virtues of their society. They have zero tolerance for any critical thought. They are allowed to like Marvel more than DC. They are allowed to like Batman more than Superman. But any sort of disagreement outside of these pre-approved variables is not tolerated.

I had one 20 year old girl look aghast at me when I made a comment about their being two genders. Like, how could I be so bigoted? She laughed it off though, dismissing my "ignorance" for being 10 years her senior and I "just don't get it".

They simply have no idea of the world or the dangers that await them.

This is not to say good women aren't out there. But the traits we here on pol look for in a woman make those women outcasts among their peers.

You just have to look for the right signs and keep your power level in check until after the 1st date

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I'm not denying that a meme becomes stale and unpalatable once it is co-opted by normies and is passed around regular social media like VD. What I'm saying is that many aspects of chan culture that didn't seem acceptable years ago are used in common parlance today without anybody batting an eye.

Angry feminists control the media narrative and triggering them has an outcome on what Johnny Public thinks when he watches the nightly newscast, for better or worse.
That said, it's probably a stretch for me to claim that this backwater imageboard has any influence however.

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Will do.

Never, both parents are teachers.
Dad (Boomer) has 40 years in the school district so his colleagues have all moved out of the classroom, either to admin or retirement. Mom (Gen X) is a special educator and apparently that carries a certain level of stigma, so she's just been punching her timecard for the last 5 years, biding her time for retirement.
The parents don't entertain guests and I grew up in a soulless suburban tract where families were atomized and neighbors wouldn't know each other.

Apologies for the blogshit

Nuclear family is the first step to isolation and pathological individualism, a by-product of an already broken familial system.

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Mine didn't either, user. I suspect, if your life was like mine, that your parents put you in a Latchkey program. Or maybe they put you in some other day care. Either way, they weren't there for you to develop that trust and bonding when you needed to develop first 18 months of life

Babies have no concept of time. And studies show that when the parent is away from their kid for more than 20 hours a week, the kid gets kind of, I guess, panic-y. The baby experiences it as abandonment. Which, to a creature that can't defend itself, instinctually sees that as a threat to its life.

So, I/we never learned how to bond. we have issues with trust. We don't know how to love properly. etc.

How do we learn lessons that we should've learned before we could even walk or speak?

I have no idea what a meaningful friendship is supposed to be like. Or a meaningful relationship.

pol are my most reliable friends

Just face facts. Most of you will have to settle for some degree of damaged goods, and you'll have to help her overcome her deep seated daddy issues if you want your relationship to succeed. You might even have to do things like entertaining her opinions, or compromising, gasp. Fuckin manchildren on this site I swear.

Not worth it.

Disagree. Women need selective pressure against whoring around. If you ignore it or take part in it then you're part of the problem.

I think you may be onto something user, do you have any sources for those studies that you mentioned?

Garbage advice, except for the part about not pumping and dumping. You don't even explain what "female orientated spaces" are, or how to find them.

Any man who actually wants to help by having lots of white babies and a stable relationship needs to find a woman as young as possible. That means in the 17-20 bracket. The older the are:

You need to catch them before or just as they go off to college, ideally, so you can get in on the ground floor before Marxist Brainwashing 101 and so you can be an anchor to the outside world for her inside the safe space she's undoubtedly going into.

For men who are between 25-30, this means getting into contact with a girl significantly younger than you, and the ways to do that are limited to already knowing people or going to a large church.

No "oldfag" can give any advice that's worth more than basic common sense, and none of them I've seen try to sperg and be wise have ever given a better game plan than this.

Or like I said above, become a high school teacher.

Anyway, I think our only hope is the race war. During and after the race war, females will be enslaved and raped to produce a new generation of children who will be raised to not be horrible. All the imaginary boogeymen that feminists talk about like patriarchy and rape culture, we need to make those real.

damn… this is kinda like me except this kind of "abandonment" happened around age 12+

both my parents where there…but they werent there

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Sluts will die alone and be laughed at as they do so.

Traitors like you will hang.


If you cannot even understand a concept like "it's better to end having not compromised what you are than to continue on but lessen yourself," then you don't belong here.

we're your most reliable friends because we have everything to gain from your friendship

Rape of Sabine women, m8. Western civilization was literally founded upon capturing and raping women. And the pater familias, the principle of patriarchy, was central to Rome.

This book touches on some of the things I mentioned:

amazon.com/Two-Income-Trap-Parents-Choosing-Stay-ebook/dp/B00R6QG1AE?ie=UTF8&tag=freedradio-20

I have no idea what this website is but it talks about the abandonment thing: chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/308404/jewish/Abandoned-Baby-Syndrome.htm

Not to mention the effects of absent fathers on both men and women.

girls enter puberty a year or more early if they dont have a father, for instance.

I'd also point you to this post I made earlier with Stefan Molyneux interviewing Suzanne Venker whom discusses this stuff in great detail. Shes also the author of the above book

Sure you don't, chaim.

Western civilization was founded upon Greek innovation, Christian teachings, Roman civics, and the labor of white men, none of which involved raping anybody.

I don't know if you're a purple-pilled liberal that got lost, or just some projecting shitskin who wants to feel better about their own actual culture of rape by pretending that it's important and great and vital to the process of any civilization. Either way, you're an idiot and a degenerate.

Oh god, I didn't know, I didn't read the URL string or the nav, only skimmed the first few paragraphs.

here's an archive: archive.is/Uxj4f

I feel ill

or maybe men could rebel/revolt against an elite that offers them such a shit sandwich

It involved quite a bit of rape. Anyway, the Greeks, Romans, and Christianity are dead because they all became feminist and allowed women to have rights. We are just the next in this repeating cycle.

The future incarnation of Western civilization will once again be built upon rape and patriarchy, as was the Roman republic.

It was pretty funny though, to post possibly the most Jewish site in existence here.

I, as a woman with a vagina think that rape is really good because we need more warriors for the white race and feminism has made it impossible for nice guys with amazing personalities to reproduce any other way.

just don't marry a girl over the age of 20 and you still stand a good chance of her being a virgin. Aim for girls that have part time/casual jobs at grocery stores or fast food joints. Thats where young girls congregate.

The world would be a much better place to live in if it were guaranteed that wicked men died as virgins. I’d like to be able to point at a typical bully, abuser, or thug and taunt that no woman would ever want him. It’s the only thing they understand. They have no conception of morality, unable to perceive humanity as having any purpose beyond feeding, fighting and fucking. Especially fucking. We’re taught that women are the arbiters, offering future offspring to those whose genes should be passed on. We’re taught that they drive the process of evolution by selecting only the best and the brightest men. Oh, I wish. Why bother trying to better yourself as a person when there are thousands of battered, raped, psychologically broken and easily manipulated BUT TOTALLY HOT girls turning eighteen every day? They’ll even do anal if you verbally abuse them enough! I try to keep fighting. I try to deliver punishment whenever I can, within the bounds of social decency, which doesn’t get me far at all. Any argument I can try to lay down is always met with “Yeah, well MY GIRLFRIEND…” One day, I’d like to be able to respond “Too bad, son. I’m putting her down. Step aside, I’m a professional.” Of course, that’s a lie. I’m not a professional. But I have to start somewhere. If you don’t treat your toys nicely, I throw them away. Because that’s all that these girlfriends are. Toys. I cannot see them as human beings for they offer nothing to the human experience. They will create no art worth seeing, write no tale worth reading, have no thought that couldn’t be gleaned from Nicholas Sparks novels and trite ‘inspirational’ posters. They have the intellectual curiosity of a germ. They believe that ambitions are something for other people. They seek happiness in nothing but the love they give to others, believing their relationships to be divine and meaningful rather than something that is easily replicated by a Labrador retriever. Therefore they do not know that they are endlessly rewarding the evil deeds of men unworthy, and thus inadvertently weakening society. And quite frankly, they’re not even pretty. Nothing is lost if I put them down. In fact, we have everything to gain. But her mommy and daddy will be sad. :’C Of course your girlfriend isn’t like that, I’m sure she’s a beautiful and unique snowflake. She’s had some troubles in the past, but learning to trust you has made her so much better. Please. there is no such thing as a cute couple none of you fucking fucks are cute you’re all stinking sweating bags of meat propagating a race of pig-apes in the absence of a benevolent god who has either fucked off to another universe or been buried under a pile of innocents lying cold and rotten in a mass grave and here you are making gifs of yourselves kissing as the value of human life continues to deteriorate i would sell your souls for a pistol loaded with a single bullet this is how much i hate you this is how much i hate a world that you exist in my prayers for annihilation dissipate into the empty cosmos and die as you ought to your story ends here

No it didn't. None of the things that actually mattered had anything to do with rape, nor were those important things in any way enabled or assisted by rape.

Thanks for outing yourself as a shill. If you want to be a defeatist cuck, >>>/mgtow/ is that way.

Marriage and monogamy is the cornerstone of all civilization. Only delusional shitskins and liberal feminist academics believe otherwise.

Being a teacher is a sacred duty. You would pollute that just to try and score some tail, and you wouldn't even feel sorry about it.

Go fuck yourself. Honorless shitskin scum like you hangs first.

Exactly. Thank you. We will rape you somewhat more respectfully than we rape the others.

White knights will be the first to hang on the day of the rope.

Sure it is, buddy.

For one thing, females shouldn't be in school to begin with, so seducing them as a teacher in high school is not polluting anything.

You're so MGTOW I can smell the crusted semen and cheetos dust from here.

Also:
Go back to where you came from. If you don't even understand the concept of lurking to learn about a community before participating, then you deserve the ban you're going to get.

I didn't lose anything. You just don't accept historical facts, so there isn't really any response. You are an irrational feminist who ignores all of history, so there is no use trying to convince you of anything.

You will simply be killed and your women enslaved as they ought to be. Problems solved.

my mom was a stay at home mom but she didnt really put in much effort at all. i think she was depressed or something. father also worked a lot and didnt really try and bond with his sons (im guessing his upbringing was similar, and he didnt really know how to be a good father ya know?).

If you are an atheist, you don't.
They are taking advantage of you. Go celibate until marriage.
Stay at or below 15% bf. Lift and get stronger. Make eye contact with everyone who looks in your direction and don't break it before they do.

- Where do you find a decent wife prospect?
Any woman can be molded with the right amount of authority and momentum

- Is it a bad idea to take advantage of sluts until you do find a wife?
If it is for practice in dealing with how women think differently from men, yes. If you are simply having your essence stolen from you, no.

- How do you into alpha?
If you have to ask, you will not "into" alpha.


Beta.

Ha, you don't fool us, Jew! If this kike says we should have children, we should do the exact opposite, just to spite him. Who cares about the survival of the white race anyway?

pro's tip: for "Christians" only count the ones who voluntarily returned to the church and began to attempt to grow & improve themselves after some limited amount of flirtation with the slut life (except for those who returned after the slut life ruined them, or otherwise too late in life, i.e. no spiritual healing can reverse the 1000-cock stare)

thefamilyalpha.com/

I'm 150 and my last set is 3x225 for squats. That guy has no excuse for lifting that little unless he broke his back

I started this and I can't stop it. My eyesight is so aggressive now, I don't like it.

Assuming you want a non-overweight, virgin, practicing Christian wife, you're in for a lot of trouble since they're basically unicorns


One of the biggest issues is that if you want to narrow it down to marriageable women, guys far outnumber what few women are available

I like these threads a lot. Feels like early fullchan

Are you that fag from the girlfriend thread ?

whoring is still damaging and bad. I'd rather take a virgin who had a bad childhood than a whore who had a bad childhood. The whore will never be as loyal because she isn't the first one to bond with you. These images have probably already been posted in the thread…

It is possible to find a virgin wife, or at least a relatively untouched wife if she is young and/or shy. The problem is that our culture doesn't condone it. I like the "no hymen no diamond" movement for its progress on this front.

Do what works, don't let people convince you that anything that isn't fucking a girl on the first date is childish.

In my bluepilled days, I turned down a girl because she wanted to stay pure until marriage. She was a qt white with a good family, but at the time I just wanted muh dik.

On a scale of 1 to kill myself, how bad did I fuck up?

Church, get a hobby, work, interact with people (eg fairs, farmers market etc).

Sluts just go to clubs, so if you find a girl at a state fair, she's likely to be non-slut.

Just breed like niggers do. We need all the hwhites we can get. Just find a white girl that you have have sex with and cum inside her. If she takes the pill, try to get her to stop, say it might make her fat or some shit, or replace them with sugar pills. Too many white women take the pill or have an IUD or whatever its called, the thing that sticks out of her cervex and pokes your dick. Fuck those fucking things. Birth control was a mistake…

what happened to her?

I lost contact. Last year I called her and told her that I made a mistake and that she was making the right decision. Haven't talked to her since.

So much this. Without that, all of the "where is my perfect wife" is an impossible quest for 99.5% of males, because they choose to be part of the problem.

why you did not talk after?

It had been a year of no contact when I made that call and it was just so embarrassing. I tempted her many times to break her oath and while we would make out she would never let me go any further. I felt that I disrespected her and realized that I didn't deserve her. It feels better this way.

If you have been around a bit and known a few men who have rode the cunt coaster, you would know that this is totally false. Every man I know with 10+ partners (especially in cases where a lot of casual sex has occurred) is a lost cause. Thinking of them getting married to a woman and staying with her and only her for decades is absolutely laughable. Inb4 "they're exceptions/anecdotal evidence!", I'm talking 15-20 different guys at least.

you wanted to marry her? why did you not wait? how do you know she was a good girl? how do you know she was even a virgin?

We dated for like 2 months, but the blueballs was too much. I couldn't handle not muh dikking at the time.


I had another very beautiful girl I met and decided to pursue a relationship with her.


We would get into some pretty heated situations but she never let down her guard. She wasn't the "but only the tip" kind of girl, she really rejected any advance past passionate kissing.


What kind of a faggot question is that? Of course I don't have CCTV footage of her vag from her whole life, but she was a very upstanding girl and it seemed that way very strongly.

Sounds like a cop-out but have fun being a loser instead of living each day to be a better man.

What happened to this one?


If you would have fucked the virgin girl, would you still think about her now?

kill yourself tier m8
pure till marriage girls are like finding a diamond in a sea of shit

I do live each day trying to be better, I just thought I fucked up too hard with her to ever really come back. I think she moved on anyway. We only dated for 2 months, I doubt that it made such a lasting impression that she'd be willing to open her arms for me 2 years after the fact.

Dated that one for a year, but it didn't work out either. She was my last relationship, and since then I've just flown solo. This one cheated on me and I haven't really recovered from it. I was a bluepiller back then as well, a bit of a lefty. It's kind of inevitable when you come from a single mom household, you become cucked.

Thankfully I found you guys. I'm basically in a relationship with Holla Forums, and it's getting pretty serious.

I know.

If it's that long after, don't even bother reminiscing about it and just move on. You are an idiot though for fucking that up on a girl who was saving herself for marriage because I have yet to find a girl in real life that is doing that. Trust me, I don't have problems with women but it's just a shame that you more or less caved into your own insecurities. If it was really just 2 months time that you knew and dated each other then there was definitely plenty of time to change your act and to make up for the way you treated her.

But there is no use in crying over spilled milk… I'm glad to know you are at least working on improving yourself everyday as a man because you will find happiness and you will find the right girl eventually.

If you fucked the virgin girl after 2 months, you would have got tired of her, it would have not worked out just like with the one you were 1 year, you would not be thinking about MUH virgin girl now.

How I know this? Because I fucked up just like you … wait for it !!! 5 years ago !!! had other relationships in these years but still thinking about that virgin one that was never ever touched by anyone when I first met her!

Thing is.. last time I checked on this virgin one, she got to college and became this giant cocaine whore after she got some modelling job.

You think.. if I was not a faggot back then, now she would be in bed with me while I wrote this and in the other room there would some blonde angels with blue eyes!

Fucking life.

PS: pic related: she looked some like that one, but better.

I know, I've moved on, but it's still funny to think about how stupid I was. I tend to learn from my mistakes though.

My real problem is that when my last gf cheated on me, she did it with who was supposed to be my best friend at the time. While I now have trust issues with girls, the worst part is that I've flatlined in my desire for friendship. I was a pretty popular guy, but my entire friend circle got blown up by that girl's infidelity. I live a pretty lonely life now since I've already graduated and am tossed out of involuntary meetings (like classes).

It's been about two years since then and I still don't think I'm okay. It reminds me of that JRR Tolkein quote about how do you go back to the way things were when so much terrible stuff happened. It sounds weak when you compare it to people who've been in war or whatever, but I can assure you the mental torture of not having parents is pretty horrific. I basically have no family, yet I come on here and I'm inundated with posts about the importance of strong familial structures and it just feels like the knife keeps turning. Why would a girl from a stable background pick someone who has none for himself? If I was the girl I wouldn't make that calculus.

I don't regret not fucking her, I regret being a nigger and listening to jew memes about relationships and how you have to fuck 1 picosecond after you meet or else you're a beta.

This story breaks my heart. I think the lesson is that if you find a virgin white woman, you should either marry her or guide her toward marrying another worthy man. Don't just pump and dump her, creating another sad whore in this sad world.

Only sicily was conquered and the normans purged them out and replaced them with lombard immigrants.

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Oh well, I got another one closely like her that year, could say I saved her from degeneracy, was with her 2 years, she got a job, bought an apartment, I set her good.. but in the end I just did not like how she looked.

Most guys would rate her at least 8.. the average cuck would say she is hot as fuck. But she was just not for me. Tragedy would be that she had a good heart.

I'm pretty sure from the looks on her facebook and all the HURTED WOMYN posts that now she is tormented by her ugly wannabe Chad boyfriend. Whatever.

We'll see what the future brings, just funny how I am searching for the same thing that I fucked up years ago while it's possible that if I did not fuck up I would have said the same about her like I say now about this 2 years one.

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I don't know what to say about this. It would because she wants to save you, but.. that would not really be a type of girl to be in a stable relationship, it would be more like the type that would cheat on you, throw you once she gets tired of saving you.

It is a good question.

Nearly vomited at the last line, you fucked up

what do you mean?

Dad skipped out when I was 5. My mom, while nice, isn't the brightest crayon in the box and was unable to give me what I needed to mature so my adolescence was a comedy of errors. For example, my mom never drove me over to friends' houses and whenever I would bring kids to my house, my mom would always sperg out at them over them being uncleanly. Needless to say not many people came over and I was alone a lot.

Even though my mom was there, she never once thought about whether or not she was being a good parent. In essence it felt like I had no parents and only one nanny.

You are doing fine still, it seems you have a good head on your shoulders.

I wouldn't get bogged down on things that happened in the past or things that your ex's did. I mean take it from a guy who has experience that if you were to talk to your ex who was unfaithful now I'm willing to bet almost everything that I own that she still would be the same old mess now that she was back then.

I'm in a relationship now but I spoke with an ex once over dinner and a few drinks who I hadn't seen or heard from in over five years because we had randomly run into each other at restaurant. She wanted to apologize for cheating on me back then and I decided that I wanted to meet her because I'm open to the universe with its experiences and also interested in seeing what some sort of closure would be like.

What I got from the meeting was a heart felt apology but, to be honest, I could easily tell that she is still doing more less the same old shit even with the guy she is with now. In fact, the whole time, I was left feeling like that she somewhat wanted me to take her then and there and cuck her current boyfriend.

The conclusion I formed from the experience is that people are only so self aware of themselves and that what you see is pretty much what you get in a person. People do things based more on impulse than rhyme or reason. In the end, I know I need to be more aware of myself because she wasn't good for me back then and she still isn't good for me now. And now that I'm older, it doesn't really matter to me with what happened because the truth of the situation and whatever pain I felt during that time was just an experience and nothing more. I guess the universe decided it wouldn't work and that there was someone else it had in store for me.

The other women I have been with all have had their own individual pros and cons but I have learned over the years which ones I can or can't handle. The point is, not to bog yourself for eternity with questions like the ones you are asking yourself. We are all guilty of doing irrational things against our own best interests. The best thing we can do is learn to avoid doing irrational things ourselves against our own best interests.

More like LET FREE to accept their natural urges to be whores
Women are just like a Pandora's box the we dared to open here in the West, they didn't need any "brainwashing" to be whores

I doubt you were serious but in modern times this idea has about the same ratio of success:getting jailed as the idea of raping every attractive female you see until one likes it and wants it on the regular. This sort of thing is more common than you'd think and other staff as well as the other students in the room (not all of whom are guaranteed to be fools) will be quick to catch on and fuck your shit up.

So now you have some type in mind when looking for a girl? You want to get married with the next girlfriend you meet?

You know what's actually funny about the experience of seeing my ex? That afterwards, I actually felt angry at myself for being stupid enough to feel sad and upset about it for as long as I did. I mean the reality was that she a dumb hormonal bitch and I was just a dumb young man who didn't know what he was doing at the time. I almost laugh at the thought of holding onto emotional baggage these days because it really does nothing but slow you down. Plus, there really is nothing cool about being an adult and carrying around emotional baggage…

How the fuck does it feel to be cheated on? I had some wild nights with a few girls, would chase them down around town thinking they would cheat on me, always tried to find them doing it, but it was always nothing.

I would do it, would find the biggest whore and try to get cheated on only to see how it feels.

Good, at least you know your limitations. Enjoy not procreating and raising children.

Meh–it's just betrayal of trust. Like everything else in life, you will eventually get over it and learn to get over it quicker. I don't think you will have to look too hard because most people cheat, not just women. That's just how hormones are.

She is, fear not. She actually called me trying to reconcile, but when she said she was currently in a relationship as she tried to get back together with me I knew she was just cucking someone else and that I would be next if I took her back. I told her I wasn't interested and she was fairly upset about it. She thought I would always be her backup, but I'm not a cuck anymore.

Sometimes I think that I messed up too. I've learned about the impacts of hormones and remembered that the problem times in our relationship only happened when she was on the pill. When she was off the pill, she was exactly what I would want in a girl. While she made the choice to betray me, I could have guided her better too. Live and learn of course.

I'm not stupid so I'm not in a hurry, but I'd like to get married to someone who shared my passion sooner rather than later. I've always wanted to be the parent that I never had.

I'm sure I'll be upset at myself for holding onto this baggage for so long, but I'm not there yet. I'm more career focused to be honest. I got a good accounting job out of college, but I hated accounting so I quit and am close to finding a new job in infosec.

I don't mind if someone wants to be with someone else, but the pain comes from the hopes being dashed that the person you held up as a potential mate actually turned out to be a turd sandwich. You start to question your own evaluative qualities ad nauseum.

Correct. Females need brainwashing to not be whores. Naturally they are all just whores.

I will move on though, but I think I need new environs and to be in a new place. There's nothing like a new place to make you feel like the past feel distant. That's why I'm applying to jobs away from home

could not agree more.

Not to be a white knight but you could say the same about men in training them to behave like men.

I'd like to think people aren't actually created equal and that the world is maybe filled with people born as good people and others as ass holes.

Oh, that feeling I know. Whatever is released in the brain when you find out your holy girlfriend lied to you.. should be made into a pill and give to soldiers in battle.

You want the girl to be a virgin?

You pretty much already have moved on user, whether you decide to move to a new place or not, you are moving on with life.

Just keep up the good work.

This is all you need to know:


catholiceducation.org/en/education/catholic-contributions/virtue-and-the-art-of-living.html

If this was an al a carte menu and I could pick and choose attributes then yes, I think it's pretty well established that # of sexual partners is inversely correlated with marital happiness. I can always show her how to fuck.

Thanks friend, I wish you the best.

WAIT SO WHY THE COCK IS THIS THREAD BUMPLOCKED

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This is actually a godly post.

What universe are you from? Causing whitey to die out is more important than making shekels.