Let's talk about something more pertinent than no gf and NEETs under communism. Lets talk about what kind of people you need to organize a successful political movement, and why most of us will never be a part of it.
Now there are a few preconditions to being politically active. The biggest one, I think, is that you need both an income, and a lot of free time. To be active in the bureaucratic and social aspects of a movement, you need a lot of time. Time you can put into activities, preparation of activities, meetings, paperwork, funding activities. But because political activism usually doesn't pay (unless you are part of a very narrow group of professional politicians), you also need a source of income to sustain yourself on a purely material level.
These things alone narrow the pool of possible political activists quite a bit: certain kinds of self-employed people who can mix work and political activity (journalists, writers), workers who don't have families (free time after work), students and other people funded by parents, and bourgeois. And the more time they have to put into political activity, the more dominant they will be.
Secondly, you also need certain skills if you want to effectively engage in political activity. At a very basic level, you need to be able to engage with people, to transmit ideas to them, convince them to do certain things, to effectively work with them for extended periods of time. You need to be sociable, and preferably very good at being sociable if you want to be an effective politician. If engagement with other people tires you out, you will make a poor politician, because it is by definition a social activity. This seems very much a predetermined thing.
Thirdly there's also a lot of stuff like being sly, charismatic, determined, intelligent, a correct dogma, etc. But I think these first two considerations, income/time and personality type, by and large rule most of us out as effective political activists. It also really tilts the field in favour of the bourgeois classes, explaining the gap between the type of policies we get and the kind of policies people want even in a formal democracy. So no need to beat yourself up for not being politically active if you are kept from it because of material conditions.
Now is there anything we could do about this? Well, to a degree you can to try and find alternative funding that leaves you with free time: benefits (autismbux, with or without fraud), illegal activity (it worked for the Bolsheviks), receiving philanthropy (sorosbux). As for the kind of person you have to be, that's mostly the luck of the draw.
So I suppose, in so far as you use your free time to organize politically, scam the system for all it is worth. Deal drugs. If you have the charisma to come out of your parents' basement, even a NEET can potentially contribute. Cheer up, NEET, your material conditions make a political life possible! Use your free time in political activities.
