How do i get a gf without confirming to capitalist norms of manhood?

how do i get a gf without confirming to capitalist norms of manhood?

Those norms aren't capitalist. Look at ancient Greek statues.

ancient greece having an even worse class system doesn't really make those norms uncapitalist

Conform to biological norms of manhood.
Culture fades away when millions of years of evolution scream in your blood.

It was a different mode of production, you may identify one or the other proto-capitalist element but that's not the point. Throughout history, mentioned norms of manhood have been proven to be the most attractive. That doesn't mean you need to be a macho, but you'd delude yourself to think that there would be a potential society where having a nice body, a successful social standing (in communism that would mean more than in capitalism since the latter is based on money) and not a whiny attitude (means: can be emotional but not a diva) would not result in attractiveness is possible.

i know being a hunter or fisherman is seen as attractive by women, but that just isn't an option for me


i do think a society would be possible in which girls aren't repulsed by me being a neet

Not really, even in the socialist society first question that you would be asked is what do you do as your job. It`s been the society`s way since division of labor started to specialize during the agricultural revolution.

People will always be interested in your labor I strongly doubt that people would start to abandon this social norm build into us by the last 10,000 years of social conditioning and evolutionary biology.

Lack of employment in socialist society would be even worse as it would be show of total lack for any skills.

Meeting girls is a good start.

You should probably try to find a job regardless.

i can somewhat why the aristocratic anarchists shit on socialism


i've been meeting them but my alienation from the capitalist economy and it's world leaves a barrier between us, if they're my type, it just doesn't work

Our capability to lead one kind of life rather than another does not only depend only on what we are, but also on the circumstances in which we find ourselves. We can exert all sorts of influence on the nature of the world in which we live.

I know it's cliche but the answer is to just be yourself; by modelling yourself after something you're not you are changing yourself into something you're not and so these standards must be external to you.

JUST

t. spook

Please kill yourself

Shut the fuck up, you are a literal spook

but being myself has only lead so far to attracting girls i can't really be in a relationship in which makes me feel all conflicted and leads to violent fantasies


when i'm dead i'll be a spirit so i don't really see the point of not anticipating that by being all spookless here

Religion is a spook, spirituality is a spook. Off to the gulag you go.

i feel for you son

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So you'd rather sacrifice your own being to get laid? Come on, famrade. Sex isn't THAT important.

I would say you have autism, but that is also a spook.

For you.

t. person who probably gets sex easily

not really.. i'm not planning on hitting the gym, getting some of those 4d persuasion pick up lines and using it to higher my sexual market value

it's just that i don't want to interact with girls in a way anymore that only brings me conflict and sexual frustration, which i think i might even being doing on some lacanian version of purpose

Sounds to me like you are the autist

As long as females have choice, they will lead us further down the path where machismo arrogance is the only way a man can get a gf, and further degenerate humanity

this numale had a gf though

The Third Reich was specially socially engineered so that females would love the nerds. Hitler had a girl he was never able to get in his adolescence.

If you are a neet, it just baffles me what kind of women you meet.

Being a neet is a luxury, haven't you seen the Welcome to the NHK?

As always, tankies lack empathy for other humans and can only assert their own ideas of what people should be/do, as is typical of authoritarians.

You are grossly ignoring the emotional torment that our comrades suffer in consequence of constant alienation by the opposite sex. And believe me, you don't need to be annoying and rude to be socially excluded. Just different from the norm.

Wtf man? It's not me that is setting the standards, it's women. I was merely stating the reality. Some of that alienation is caused by a capitalist cultural impact on women, I give you that, but the things I've mentioned are universal in partner selection, I hate to break it down to you.

You'll never get a fattie to be recognized as attractive as someone with a sixpack. Hell, if there is anything that would be different in communism it would be that now physical attractiveness counts even more, since you take away the aspect of money that helps unattractive people to find a partner.

And to be honest, with all that misery going on now the Third World, raising your attractiveness is not that hard in comparison. Working out a little bit, shaving that neckbeard and learning to talk about things that are not always autistic is achievable with no big effort. If that's alienation for you, then you probably wouldn't be happy no matter in which socio-economic system you live.

this is why we should just engineer sexbots and catgirls

What kind of hobbies do you have?

What are you interested in?

What areas of your life do you want to improve?

also, just what type of gf you want fam?

Women love these so called 'capitalist norms of manhood'. Don't listen to what the anfems say.

Translated to

Dude you don't get to call anyone lazy when you are begging for state appointed gfs and arranged marriage.

Says the retard that complains about women being race traitors.

Muke you hardly fit in the 'capitalist norms of manhood'

But you sure are cute.

Those aren't related to gender but more to general norms for everybody, what kind of man doesn't want a woman without a nice body, successful social standing and a not-whiny attitude?


NEETs probably wouldn't exist under communism, we would all lower our workdays until working wouldn't necessary for anybody (and if everyone's a NEET then noone is) but until that is accomplished everyone would be employed. But I hope this won't bring you down man, your lifestyle is still a result of capitalist alienation after all.

I'm not Muke, he does not use the Lenin hat for posting.

hi ill be ur gf

That's what I said. They are not capitalist. And also, they are not entirely the same for both sexes
I refuse to use the word gender, it's retarded, there is literally no other language than English that does this stupid distinction


I want another photo thread

Aside from posting here, reading and going walking, not much
Politics, history, wars, tennis, gardening (don't laugh), space
Social life, cooking skills, ability with women

anyone that doesn't mind me being a shy loser

Gardening is possibly the manliest hobby ever. Agriculture was man's first technological step.

I've just always enjoyed tending to plants, cleaning and digging etc. I kinda wish I lived in the countryside so I could learn properly about all sorts of skills for dealing with nature. Farming sometimes sounds nice.

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mostly girls with issues who hang around at the house parties i go to


no, but i looked it up and i'm not really in the luxury position of landing in the lap of a caring qt


my succulents keep dying ;_:

*slow clap*

AFAIK all western languages make the distinction nowadays, my native language is Spanish and this debate exists here too, though it's true that it came from English.
And while I know where you're coming from I find it to be a useful word for the more artificial differences between the sexes (women do the housework etc), talking about "sex roles" sounds weird and the phrase "gender is a social construct" is empirically correct even if it's used by cranks to make excuses for stupid shit like non-binarism.

1. Improve your physical appearance, work out more, better hygiene, etc.
2. Improve your mental abilities by reading more and acquiring knowledge
3. Improve social skills by getting better at talking to people and reading body language
4. Approach girls you're interested in and talk to them
5. Learn how to handle rejection, it sucks but it happens and it ain't the end of the world
6. Realize that getting a gf isn't guaranteed and that casually fucking girls you're not interested in dating feels good but won't make you any less lonely

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move along incels this is a Chad board

conform to socialist ideals of manhood

Hey op it's time for your feminist alliance meeting, don't be late

Reminder to bully incels until they leave

basically what you want to do is purposefully give conversations a subtle sexual edge then ramp it up till its overt gradually but humorously. I've never done this on purpose but when I look back thats what happened every time

There is no such thing as being yourself since the moment you communicate you are already behaving like another, and this keeps going for all of life for everyone who participates in society.

That said, one way or the other you will have to behave differently than you usually do to get a girlfriend, either a normal girl or whatever you're into, e.g. dress nicely, have good hygiene, and most of all, compliment that with being confident.

I myself have problems with confidence but I am currently trying to drop it by interacting with women more.

Feminization of men is a bourgeoisie tool to subjugate working class men.