After a year without a real argument, my girlfriend blew up last night. I knew it would happen eventually...

After a year without a real argument, my girlfriend blew up last night. I knew it would happen eventually, but she'd always been so tame about it I thought when the topic came up she'd kind of just acknowledge where I was right and agree to disagree where she thought I was wrong.

For starters, she's the typical modern western girl, all her favorite films are Disney, Studio Ghibli, etc. Over the last few weeks she's gotten me to watch several of these children's films with her, the last four were Tangled, Wreck It Ralph, The Princess and the Frog and Coco.

After Coco was finished I told her overall it was good, but it contained the three tropes all western children's films now contain, and regardless of politics I'm sick to death of because it's been nothing but this formula for around 20 years at least. These are:

-The women are in charge of everything.
-The men are scoundrels, bumbling idiots or both.
-Near the climax of the movie there's always a scene of one of the male leads apologizing to a female character, without exception.

After saying this, things quickly spiraled out of control.

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your girl is mad that she is flat

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A liberal western modern girl and feminist was teaching a class on Chimamanda Ngozi, known WOC

”Before the class begins, you must get on your knees and worship Ngozi and accept that she was the most highly-evolved being the world has ever known, even greater than Alexander the Great!”

At this moment, a brave, patriotic, pro-male MRA champion who had signed 1500 petitions and understood the necessity of BTFOing feminists and fully supported all MGTOW decision made by men stood up and held up a picture of Chris Hemsworth.

”How sexualised is this male body, pinhead?”

The arrogant girlfriend smirked quite Jewishly and smugly replied “It's a male power fantasy, you stupid male”

”Wrong. A woman created it. If it was made by a man and patriarchy, as you say, is real… then it should be oppressing you now”

The woman was visibly shaken, and dropped her Coco DVD and copy of Everyday Sexism. She stormed out of the room crying those womanly crocodile tears. The same tears feminists cry for the “women” (who today live in such luxury that most can vote) when they jealously try to claw justly earned alimony from the deserving divorcees. There is no doubt that at this point the gf, Sarah Dumbitch, wished she had pulled himself up by her bootstraps and become more than a western indoctrinated womanchild. She wished so much that she had a man to hug her from embarrassment, but she herself had rallied against them!

The students applauded and all went their own way that day and accepted Elliott Rodger as their lord and savior. An eagle named “Roasties Out” flew into the room and perched atop the MGTOW Flag and shed a tear on the chalk. Elliott Rodgers Manifesto was read several times, and Alexander the Great himself showed up and triggered some feminazis, epic style.

The woman lost her relationship and was dumped the next day. She died of the hitting the wall too hard.

Tldr

Best solution would be to break up with her. If she takes movies seriously,she may probably take anything else seriously.

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what was the point to your story OP?
did you have a question you needed answered or did you just want to share?
you should try to lead the argument in a way that lets the person you are arguing against form your conclusions for themselves, that way the feel like they have come around to a new way of thinking on their own.

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I found the problem, OP

I don't know how to be that manipulative to be honest. I wouldn't mind learning the technique though.


I've dated plenty of girls over the years. Honestly, I'm kind of surprised it took this long to have an actual argument.

girls never have arguments, they only have feelings

its not a technique you learn, its something you pick up through debate and arguments irl and online, though face to face is always more beneficial. just think more ahead next time, its like a game of chess you need to be at least 10 moves in front of your opponent

Why are you justifying yourself to her? Don't you run shit in your house? Just smack her and tell her to stop watching shitty Pixar movies or else you'll rape her.

woahohoh pleb patrol is in town

just rape her every time she watches this shit and she'll stop

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post pics of her butthole

Sounds to me she never put much thought on the matter, and felt her floor crumble a bit, but its not like she holds any strong beliefs in the matter and time will tell if she a normal girl who can slowly think her way out of it, or damaged goods vulnerable to the feminist cult of perpetual infantility.

But you shouldn't unnecessarily antagonize your woman like you did, never make it sound like she is part of the "women" collective for you and always sound like she is on your side as your family.

when a woman gets emotional you slap her, cuck

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Honestly, I told her I just thought we were having a spirited discussion and I wasn't at all upset with her and I was surprised she got so upset about it. I told her I loved her, she kept saying she was sorry and I told her she didn't have anything to apologize for as I wasn't upset and we don't have to agree on every thing.

It wasn't until like halfway in I realized the discussion was upsetting her. Honestly I felt really condescending because I thought she was joking about some of the stuff she was saying but she was serious and I was like "…Oh…" Like she also said "representation matters" and "fragile masculinity" and the last one especially I've mostly only heard as memes or in extreme feminist circles, so I thought she was joking.

Do girls really unironically say stuff like this? Do they all have extreme autism? How can you even be less self aware?

#justislamthings

You are next in the JUSTice league, mate. Drop her before she ruins your life. You cannot fix a woman that intoxicated, her life's goal will be to ruin you.

She wants a kid retard.

But overall you're also an idiot. And since your woman is an idiot you should have eased the tension at

No, we've thoroughly discussed that. I want a kid, I tease her about it all the time. Once in a while she'll admit to maybe wanting one, but most of the time she swears up and down she doesn't want one ever as "that would be less attention for me" and "it would destroy my body". I'm not pushing it, I told her that her clock'll catch up with her.

The post was already pretty long, the argument was three times as long. I tried changing the subject twice, teasing her and being playful, that was actually when I realized she was upset because she got upset about that as well.

I mean, I'm not wrong.

user, you're dating a whore.

University age women that don't have kids seem to love Disney and other animation studios. You could put it down to infantilised society but honestly women like cute inoffensive shit, you can never break the princess mentality


It just seems insecure to complain about. You should be able to put a body that takes years of work (male or female) on screen without people complaining. I wish there was more eyecandy for the gents but having buff guys on screen is fine and reminds you to kick your ass into gear and hit the weights.

If this is actually true, i will let you in on a little thing youre missing. I speak woman.
to her, youre not talking about movies. to her, youre talking about her. the problem is that what youre saying cannot be true, because if that is true about things she enjoy, that means she has enjoyed something without knowing why. It means she is different than how she percieves herself. That's what youre talking about. not movies.
For what youre telling her to be true, that implies that she enjoys things for entirely different reasons than she thinks she does, and that means coming to terms with redifining herself, exploring, for example, why she enjoys seeing "strong men" humiliated. She has likely never considered that she does, and while to you, this is a general exchange of abstract ideas, to her it is a extremely personal revelation, realising that she has a sadistic side to her. If she has never seriusly considered this - and many women havent - when feeling like she's "backed into a corner" by you, she reacts by lashing out.

would you like to know more y/n?

Y

A different user but I've come to these revelations too by myself. Give me more insight, senpai.

She wants to ease up to you on common ground and start some light conversations about kids. From your writing I assume she's very stubborn but does want to go your way. Make some sacrifices.
Welp your pretty much confirmed she's an idiot.
And you too.
I'd recommend that you get some books about pregnancy, read them and leave them about the apartment so she picks them up and reads them withouth you knowing. EASE her in and let her know that it's by far beneficial for her which it is even you look at cancer rates alone not even counting psychological. And try to discredit some examples of the media that brainwashes her.
The type of woman you have is manageable but you have to do it around lots of corners.


Women do nothing withouth purpose when concerning
etc.

got anything specific on your mind?
good thing to keep in mind is that women in relationships rarely want to "win" arguments. they do at some surface level, obviously, but doing so doesnt make them happy. If Op's GF "won" this argument, she would feel nothing but resentment for it, for having been "made to feel" this way. she would compartmentalise the whole incident as him being mean to her for no reason. She feels hurt for the aforementioned reasons, and wants his compassion, feels confused that he (in her view) is trying to hurt her. She cant even get to the point of considering, "if he is right, then his primary motivation wouldnt need to be to hurt me", before dealing with her immidiate emotional reaction, which to her is self-evidently true. You gotta go the long way with these things.
A basic rookie mistake is apologizing. It only makes her feel more hurt. When a woman raises your voice at you, you never, ever, ever say "sorry". You say, "dont raise your voice at me", at the same level of volume she did, +1.
This, however roundabout it seems, shows her that you recognize her frustration. By apologizing and asking why she's mad, all she hears is that you dont understand her, which makes her even more frustrated and sad -> self perpetuation spiral.
A lot of OP's problems can be solved by meditating a little on the old saying, "men test ideas, women test men". This is not meant as an insult, simply a sociological pattern.
raising hunting dogs and reading hegel is good tools for really understanding women, if you have the time for it. dogs, because itll teach you to love something while also understanding that it thinks and concieves of the world in a way that is almost entirely alien to you, and hegels writings on slave-master relationships as being co-dependant, rather than inherently tyranical

oh yeah and stop watching porn

How do I give them the Daseinpill, Satan?

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women are innately closer to pure being than men, so I wouldnt worry about that. But honestly, I dont know if you can do it the other way around. My current thoughts on the matter would be that you likely need the opposite toolset to do so. It is much harder to teach women to understand men - ask any couples therapist (at a moment where they do not have an economical insentive to bullshit you).
The most important thing is realising that you are not speaking the same language, and that you are not playing by the same cognitive ruleset. Even stupid men are likely better advisors to you on matters of relationships and "understanding what women want", than brilliantly genius women, because even if the latter knows everything there is no know, she is incapable of saying it in a way you understand, and you are incapable of understanding a word she is saying.
most concise way I can say it is if men are poetry, women are theater.

very good video by the way

Fuck off pleb.

Let me tell you again, she is going to fuck up your life. You had your fun, now you know yourself better and the way to handle a relationship. Dump the girlfriend and get yourself a wife.

Should have just agreed with her on that one.

this is why you don't get a cumskin boifriend

Does anyone ever respond to you positively?

She's going to break up with you asap and accuse you of rape

It's not about that for him, he's just an angry leftist that is somehow so triggered by Holla Forums all he can do is post his porn folders, because clearly that's going to drive those angry nazi's away.

Just imagine hating internet nazi's so much you save loads of self hating pornography and spam it while having to constantly switch up proxies because your autistic ass constantly gets banned.

Being cumskinposter is suffering.

That's his goal.

Although its terrifying because he's learned to post images now, a feat previously thought impossible

The worst part is that it's not even an insult, shit is dirty, cum is used for creating children. plus brown is dirty and white is a more pure color

you went wrong at the start

Literally the most retarded nonsensical political theory to ever come about

holy shit you're such a fucking faggot

not him but women always think in terms of social dynamics. starting an argument with a woman to prove her wrong - for you it's an argument about feminism, for her it's a personal attack and you're just using the argument as an excuse to pick a fight with her. when she tells you to leave the toilet lid down she doesnt mean the toilet lid needs to be down, she means you need to show her that you think about her and that you care for her wellbeing. if you say "I leave it up because I use the toilet" she understands "I dont care about you"

that's just how they think. women are from venus men are from mars

You watch too much pop-culture user. Take a month off of the television. Go for a walk in nature and push your girlfriend off a cliff instead.

Lurk 5 more years.
And then neck yourself.

tl;dr?
anyway just stop being an autistic faggot and get back together with ur gf. some of us dont have the luxury of having one, so enjoy it while you can

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whatever helps you sleep at night, kid.

What good is a woman who won't give you a child? Dump her.

Do not try to discuss or reason with a woman, a toddler or a cornered animal, ever. It's a waste of time.
You deserve what's coming to you

Have you even read it? If so, give me some arguments.

Why did you two get so worked up over children's movies and comic books?

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For the love of God, never reproduce. You see imaginary demons in movies and try to convice your girlfriend that it's all real, and then rush to Holla Forums's shitposting parade for backup because you lost the argument. Raising a child is beyond your abilities both mentally and emotionally. Please get a vasectomy or leave the internet.

Yes I know the dumb guy smart girl trope is done to death but everyone expects women to be dumb in real life so that's why it's funny.

Girl logic.

1. its racist
2. its antisemitic
3. its sexist
4. its racist
need anything else?

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It's like that on purpose because its ultimate goal is to destroy the world.

they do
t. live with socjus sister and mom

Okay, but what are some arguments against it?

You're right OP you should watch kino with your gf and see if she can handle it. Try Possession (1981)

Racism is morally good.

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bumpu

Whatever leftie, have fun with you wife's son Bix Nood Jr.