COPING WITH HORRIBLE FEMINIST MOTHERS

no I am not drunk. I type poorly and didn't re-read what I wrote to correct it. But man, god man for 25 years I hated my dad, it was the first time I ever actually felt hate. and not looking back on it. He was responding just like me. I am just like him, he worked super hard long hours, was tremendously dedicated to work and family, and was manipulated into arguments that didn't make sense, were so insulting, were so hurtful and damaging, that if he raised his voice the police were there to kick his ass and lock him up, and he looked like a complete fool in public. Because cops believe the woman the white knights they are, and get this, they'll also believe the mother over the crazy son. There was a shooting on TV, guy fighting with his wife, drunk fleeing from the police, momma stated to the police her boy's got problems, cops killed him, failure to compile.

You know, it broke my dad, he was never the same, never as successful, never bough or had such a big nice house built as he did back then. He was ruined. He went from being a hard working respectable businessman to a wife beating raging drunk getting beat up and arrested by police. While his wife laughed at him.

You're the man now, user, and nothing your mother does can ever take that away from you. She will do everything she can to make you forget it, to make you believe that the world is against you and that you will always be a weak little boy under her thumb, but that is all lies based on her fear of the simple, undeniable truth that you are a man. Yes, you will always be her son, but you are a man now, and you are more than capable of handling the pain it will take to walk away from all her shit and take control of your own life.

Go find a more appropriate board for this shit.

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It's just a fucking jew bot calm down.

Fuck off (((Jew))) your ways have ruined this country. I know I agree. Huge fucking problem I have. Total mental fucking games being played significantly damaging me. By my feminist mom, and I can't tell any of my friends on the kikebook, any of the people I work with, it's so fucking damaging that I'd being committing career suicide if I let people know. That's what we have done user, given up our lives to feminist women, ad an all powerful state police apparatus to that and we are fucked six way to Sunday, and if we don't like it, our moms or our wife throwing around that pussy. Fucking those cops who arrest our dads. Tough shit

It's abuse that can't be talked about because to talk about it it makes the person talking about it look crazy and it is real, I am a man and I live, have been living it since I was a kid, and I am so tired of it.

Your father made one fatal mistake that allowed her to ruin him like that. He loved a woman more than she loved him. Don't make the same mistake yourself. You're the man, it is not your role to be swept away by love and any other emotions, no matter how much (((Hollywood))) urges you to "be true to your feelings". You are not your feelings, and love is merely your guide, not your master.

Jesus Christ, everyone on this board is totally jealous a f of you I'm sure.

This is excellent advice.

Anyone have those studies that shows children with a single father do better than single mothers? It's so sad. Women tend to marry men like their fathers and without a strong good daddy they get into trouble and boys need a strong father figure to set them straight.

while that is nice for you to say I give these things a lot of thought and I may not have arrived correctly at every turn because I do not know everything I think my dad had a vision, with his kids, and for his kids future, and it was going to be better for them and for him than it was for him in the past, but that vision didn't fit with mom's I can scam this man financially because of his belief in the 14 words and instead get child support and keep the house and get alimony and a division of property debt free while actual debt is assumed by the man/father as local Jew lawyer educated her over his desk. He didn't love her as much as he loved his kids and it pained him being betrayed by a worthless woman and made a fool of for the good things he tried to do. 2 generations user, I am really worried about it being three, damn I want kids, I really think back to that girl form the soccer team and track. I liked her, man she was nice, I didn't know she was interested and I was involved somewhat, she's married now and does have kids, irks me in fact

If this is true then it's one hell of a sick mind-job to play on a kid. Sad thing is that things are so degenerate these days that I can actually believe this might have happened.

One of the most common but still most effective things evil mothers do to their husbands is to try to falsely conflate "love for his children" with "love for his wife". A selfish, childish woman will invariably be reflexively jealous of the love that a father has for their own children, so they do everything they can to either "steal" that love, and/or "punish" the father for "cheating" on her.

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Ha, your feverish dream user. A woman after pleasure will never find any and raise no children, though she may have some but they will be as strong as her and alone.

On the question of women my mother told me to, "become a girls everything so she cannot leave", and I have. No need for prostitutes and a controlled sex life, I doubt what she did for you gave any last benefit. Such is the way with that kind of woman.

Repairing our nations is the larger goal and National Socialism of the people is the method. However, you must be a National Socialist at heart to repair yourself and bring order to your life.

Here is another area that is problematic. values and ideals. I am not married. I would like to be married and I hope to get married only once, I intend to work towards that and it be the right person, to have kids, love and respect each other, and grow old, and retie and then spoil the grandkids. Here is the problem with having a feminist mother. Call it, I don't know, racist, bigoted, I don't think the jews have invented the world for it yet but for a woman that has been married three times, they don't like that (only married once) expectation, they don't even want it to be an ideal their kids adhere to. It's to closely associated with their own failure and lack of commitment. But I was talking to my mom about husband number two, and I didn't like him, he was an ok guy, I guess, I was in my early teens but he was a slob. But I said this, mom you have been married three times and I don't want to be married three times, it effected me, it still effects me, and I don't want it to effect my kids in that way.

This is what is fucked up with a feminist mother from the 1990's……… I was floored. Marriage number two, he was not officially divorced from his wife when he married my mom, so it was never official, this little known fact was somehow used to fleece him out of everything he owned to avoid arrest for whatever it is called for being marrying to two people at once….. which paved the way for marriage number three. And now here is where it gets even more complicated. Mother is resentful that I am so judgmental, you see she feels it is unfair, and she is angry with me for being so virtuous and she will be vindictive, this is why discussion are derailed, and sidetracked, and insults are thrown, and nothing of value is ever accomplished when anything is talked about like how to take such and such train to such and such station to meet so snd so at a certain time. And from my point of view anons I only want to get married once like I said, that's it, nothing more, nothing less, but that simple ideal has to encompass all of the other perverse bullshit described.

And this is the worry, mom will fuck things up like she fucked this up in the past, and then absolve herself of the blame and lay the blame on me and call me a the failure. And then make the claim he is emotionally disturbed and has mental problems…. and which based on the relation of the facts I've described may be accurate because they are problems for me I didn't expect to have and only encountered them going down the road of life choices my mother made when I was a minor child, and the courts mandated, and society recommended (Cosmo and TV) and allowed.

I don't even think I am alone in this, maybe hit harder than some but not as hard as others who have OD these past few years.

The "Tomorrow Belongs to Me" scene was highly controversial and potentially confused with a real Nazi anthem. John Kander and Fred Ebb were accused of anti-Semitism until the world found that both were Jews. According to a November 1976 Variety article, the film was censored in West Berlin when it was first released there theatrically, with the sequence featuring the Hitler Youth singing "Tomorrow Belongs to Me" having been deleted. The article stated that the elimination had been made "because of the feeling that it might stir up resentments in the audience by showing the sympathizers for the Nazi movement during the `30s." The sequence was restored, however, when the film was shown on West German television on 7 November 1976.

I'll have to watch the movie I am unfamiliar with it or it's meaning

Wew, that was my mother in spades. This one is probably rarer for mothers, but mine was also very neglectful. She really fucked me up. I still to this day have like a pavlovian engrained uneasiness around women. Years of tip-toeing around the powder keg that was my mom. Once puberty hit, the fear turned into anger and had periods of being an autistic rage monster in my teens. Spent my 20's as a depressed hermit. Attained some mild form of enlightenment around 30 and have just been working on letting everything go. For decades it was exactly like (checked) describes:
Unfortunately I wasn't born with good enough genetics to overcome how fucked up I am on the inside. It would've been nice to realize and accept all that sooner. I wish I had found Holla Forums sooner.

I had a controlling mother who is also a little narcissistic. My advice is to make sure you are not dependent on her in any way. Don't live with her, don't accept money. Then she loses all options to control or humiliate, but you have to lay down the law and learn to make your boundaries. Once she figures out your strategy, she'll be like a crack addict with her supply run out. She'll try to find the pettiest ways to surprise control you. Just think of it like a game and don't let her see an emotional reaction even if you feel one. Make sure you always have your own transport. If she tries to control by making you wait for her you can just leave. And don't get drawn into arguments with her over politics or feminism. Just let her know you disagree and have no interest in discussing.

Learn to develop stoicism and it's partner–a sense of humor. It's what a strong dad would have taught you. Brush off mistakes and learn from them. Overanalysis and wallowing is what women do. By wallowing and feeling weak you're still allowing your mom to control you because she programmed that into you. You don't have to "cope" with her anymore, you have to change your thinking.

I hope you realize that they were either hookers or your mother payed for them, and she likely taped everything and shclicked to it.

Those tapes exist user. She likely keeps them and puts them into the old VHS player with a glass of wine and has at it like some weirdo fujoshit.

user I was forced to do this, purge toxic people from my life and I am going to have to do it again. Today, what prompted me to vent here was for the hundredth time recently, the constant total break down in communication. So quickly, communication can be, so what's going on for 4th of July and then somehow in 5 to 10 minutes, visiting my uncles house 13 years ago is brought up, and I may have sipped a beer. End of the fucking world, call the FBI
In reading the attached article "How to Repair the Toxic Legacy of a Bad Mother" my mother is all of them, a few not even listed, and worse than all of them. This has been getting worse.

I was talking to husband number 3… as if I really wanted to because he doesn't care, and he hates being in the middle, and don't get me started, fuck, and yet I was telling him I never had a father really and he is something a business guy taught me, I worked as a messenger/runner/delivery it was an ok job and tips were good, but I met a business guy (think Italian gangster but not really) and he taught me a lesson in life. I was never exposed to it. This was how he operated. Hey buddy I need you to do this for me, for $20 will you do this? is $20 enough? getting him lunch or something, he wanted to know if it was fair, cause that was important to what he was teaching me, if I felt it was worth $25 and that was a fair amount or not and he wanted to know it. If fair was $25 he wanted to know it and why, ok he paid it. And then this was important, nothing was owed, get it, you did what it was, I paid you, it's not a favor we don't owe each other anything, fair, right? At first I was like were are you going with this, but then I got it. He'd say hey I need you to take my car, fill it up with gas, drop off my dry cleaning here, get food, and come back, and I'll pay you this, fair? yeah. Done deal. He stressed the importance of not doing things for people as favors, or doing things as favors for friends, this creates debt and obligations, and most importantly misunderstandings, and here is what he wanted me to learn, you don't go through life owing people favors or money because what you actually do is create instead is misunderstanding that come back and bite you in the ass, and if they feel you owe them a certain amount you discuss when it occurs then you arrive what is fair, right then and there and you pay it or they pay it. No favors, No debts, No I did this for you, you owe me this in the future, this was tremendous learning experience because fucking people will always rtry to put you in their debt and buy you cheap cheap with favors.

Sorry it took forever user, but this is the story of my mom, she did this for me, you ungrateful little shit. It cost $200, now keep in mind dozens of pairs of high heeled shoes that she has worn and thrown away all cost $200 I can never un-obligate myself from a bill my mother payed for $200 dollars. It's not that I am not grateful, it's not even that I am not thankful, it's that whenever she feels like paying the you ungrateful little shit card it always has to do with this or that I needed when I was unable to do it myself. It's good coping advice what you say user but I can tell you this. A simple comment like, did you see on the news today, in 2 minutes turn into her screaming I'm tired of arguing with you every fucking time I try to talk to you and I've been avoiding her for 86 hours. And then even if I say it's not normal to avoid somebody for 86 hours, she derives pleasure from it. Because avoiding conflict is weak as fuck….. even though this is my own loving mother??? dude, seriously, I have thought of walking right out the front door into city traffic.

and back on the issue of $200 dollars I have heard it 600 times and said thank you 500 fucking times, never is never enough. It's to the point, like facing that, I say and I want to get married, and deal, for the rest of my life with that???? I say I hope the South Koreans develop human cloning so I can raise a little mini me as a single dad and do it right…..

"Conflict" implies that the outcome is in doubt and that there is a possible win condition for either side. There is no doubt that your mother is a crazy bitch, and there is no doubt that there is nothing for you to gain from any interactions with her. Avoiding her is not being "weak as fuck", it's being sensible and rational, even if it goes against every instinct we have to maintain relations with kin and clan. Instincts that she is very clearly manipulating.

here was what i learned today, it is so not true, and she threw it at me which I disputed because it is a untruth b ut then in me disputing it she claimed I don't have to lie because it's normal… dude almost in a way implying and questioning my sexuality at the same time. Get this insanity.

Two years when I was watching an apartment a girl was found in there at that time only in her underwear.

No big deal, right, but completely untrue, so I said that's not true, and she responded, it's not something you need to be ashamed of. The accusation was bad enough, but then the implication, is an additional insult. And it's a total fucking fabrication…. and she'd spread it as rumor all over town, to my friends, my family, co-workers, ever girlfriends.

ok and here is the problem I am getting to. In looking at her directly when this occurred, the look on her face, it was one of daring me, daring me, to fight her, I don't know if any of you people have ever looked into the eyes of an angry women or into the eyes of an angry man but dude when your own mother has that look of lets fight to the fucking death…… I mean you you're in the twilight zone.

That's just bizarre. Women don't normally discuss sex graphically with their biological children. Maybe you were adopted or something.

My mother is a traditional housewife who red-pilled me on racial IQ differences and white genocide when I was growing up in the 90s.

I remember once, when I was a little kid, I saw a white woman and a black man at a mall and asked her why it was that whenever I saw white women with black men, the women were always fat. She explained to me that those women were too ugly to get a white man so they has to settle for a nigger.

I never realised how lucky I was.

Your mother sounds like a fucking psycho. You should cut her off for a few months to give yourself some room to breathe and calm down.

You should also consider moving on altogether. The psychological toll will only get worse and worse and worse with every passing year.

I've seen this behavior a billion times before. Seriously dude, get away from her. She is not communicating in good faith. She's not trying to find common ground or resolve anything. She's twisting the truth, fabricating lies, and use whatever words and memories are necessary to push your emotional buttons and let her maintain psychological advatage over you long after the conversation ends. There is nothing for you to dwell on, there is nothing to salvage from your relationship with her, NOTHING. She's just using her words to cut at you, and you keep coming back to it because you feel that it somehow proves you're not "weak as fuck". When in reality it's just one of the oldest emotional traps women use against men, planting seeds of insecurity regarding their strength. Stop falling for it.

This right fucking here. They do it on instinct. Trust no one.

I had a wonderful relationship with my traditional grandmother before she passed away. I speak so highly of her so often and explain how smart she was, truly, some of the rationals used to bash my grandmother by my mother are terribly inaccurate. My grandmother was the kindest, most loving, traditional woman a man could every have asked for, and tolerant, and understanding, wow. And when I say that my mother makes the ranting shrill claim "…..she was a doormat" the duality between mother and daughter. angel - devil

I haven't been able to sleep all night, and I worry about going innawoods and my mother will sleep like a baby in a big beautiful house, it's fucking crazy society elevated her to success and destroyed my father.

My mother was fine but my father was an fuckwit libtard so I can relate to the article.

What does a normal father do with his son? He teaches him about life, important skills and makes him strong basically. That's what a good, normal father does with his son. He goes shooting and hunting with him. He teaches him the basics of sports. He teaches him how to make friends. These kinds of things.

My father did none of that with me. None. Zero. Prior to writing this post I've been thinking for several minutes straight what my father taught me and I'm literally drawing a blank. Everything I know I had to teach myself as an autodidact of sorts, either by learning from others or books or simple trial and error.

All he ever did was criticize and disparage me and brother and tell us what disappointments we are (without ever explaining how to do things better! criticizing is fine so long as you don't abuse it and show the correct path!) to the point of me being a broken and depressed teenager with zero self-confidence and suicidial thoughts (which I have never been able to get rid of completely, until today).

I'm doing much better these days since time has passed and I'm a fairly smart and resourceful fellow and much much tougher than ever thought I would and could be* but writing this post and reading this thread I'm not even sure why even talk to him anymore. Maybe I should cut ties completely.

*same goes for my brother btw of whom I am extremely proud. He graduated from medical school last year and is currently in training to become a vascular surgeon. I'm literally fighting back tears as I write this, I'm so incredibly proud of him.

I've made several friends off of Holla Forums
you've got to know how to do it though

I can say the same, mom's a social democrat and smoker trash who threatens to leave me over small shit. She's lived in the U.S for over 20 years, yet still refuses to learn english or its grammar and only wants to speak spanish. She's white, yet still identifies with spics and the such instead of american culture or german, since she's from cologne.

Here user:
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"That which does not kill us, makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche.

fuck off feminist fuckwit

Nice story, I'll be sure to put it in my "mildly hot greentext stories that never happened" folder, ASAP.

be proud user, of yourself. I often go back several generation and think how hard it must have been for them, way back past mom or dad or grandpa and grandma, they may have got a smack in the back of the head, of a kick in the pants, but it pisses me off because I remember country music songs where a boy grew up strong after being abused by his dad and he kicked his ass, and well that made him a man. But nowadays, god damn it, if that's the case you go to jail for 2 years, and never escape the domestic violence conviction and may lose the right to own a firearm…. FFS

One of the things that came up regarding national identity. I had said, hey you know I was searching online brought up national identities, awww it doesn't even matter, it's like the other guy told, and here I what I need to really understand, because this hits so close to home, this is the exact truth 100%.

Your mother is not communicating in good faith. She's not trying to find common ground or resolve anything. She's twisting the truth, fabricating lies, and use whatever words and memories are necessary to push your emotional buttons and let her maintain psychological advantage over you long after the conversation ends

She will obscure a truth, and since I didn't ask the 26 questions which she would have lied in answering to uncover the truth at the time I wished to know the truth, she'll claim I didn't care about the truth then or ever, and then drop a fucking emotional bombshell out of the sky that she herself has lied about for 26 years. I mean it's crazy, and her is the fucking problem, she'll tell family, oh he's such a bad child, Like get this. Was 16 in high school, exposed to marijuana in the millions of different way any kid is. I was no different than most average kids. My mother heard through a co-worker through another co-worker that kids I was friends with had smoked pot. Big fucking deal. I didn't buy, I didn't use it, I didn't smoke it, fuck me….. but at that time, at that age, that summer, there was the exposure to the substance, tada, as I got older 19-20 I tried it, didn't like it was like asking Bill Clinton if he inhaled. Moron fucking goyim country, but, son, did you inhale???? reeeeeeeeeee but at the age of 25 I said jesus christ, they had it, it was a party, they went over there, I could smell, I didn't smoke. Holy mother fucking christ her eyes lit up in glee now the fucking damaging claim she had made telling fucking everyone I was a druggy, aunts, uncles, my granddad who was old and I learned to hunt with, my father who was broken the fuck down at a distance, everyone. Now it's this, with total justification, I threw you out because you were 16 smoking pot in the house. Totally not true, totally fictions, and here's the thing anons, I could have embraced the stoner lifestyle, bought the black jeans and the black hoody, but you see it was never my mom, or my dad making me into something, that lifestyle was never what I had envisioned for myself. And yet here I am still to this day, moment, minute in time defending myself against an untruth, that has caused me so much emotional anguish, at the time before my grand dad died I told him it wasn't true and I think he accepted it as if it was a lie from me.

In comparison, I have no idea what someone must feel like if they have ever done anything they are ashamed of. How do niggers live with themselves beating up an old lady or robbing their house or mugging them?

I am so bent I wish my dad way back then, and this is unfucking believable to say had the right to honor kill her. nuts to say right? but this leftist liberalism is a fucking mental disease. We would have remained in that big house, not moved around 15 times, not had to listen to 5 different men bang mom over and over again.

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Thank you user and I know what you mean.

IF YOUR MOTHER IS A LEFTIST THEN KILL HER NOW

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go gas yourself shilljew

Reported, enjoy going back to 4chan.

Get a load of this fag

Sup user, I think you hit the nail on the head. Lots of us here suffer from the same problem. We never had a father who would take care of her so she would take care of us, for instance.
I'm slowly healing and she is too since we got close to a great church. I can just wish you good luck, I'm pretty sure that whatever works for us to fix the damage will be invaluable to the next generations of broken and abandoned kids, which I think are growing in number each year.

I was referring to my own drunk self last night, not accusing you of being drunk.

are you 14

Haha, that just made this thread worth it.

What is anima projection?

She's just a woman, OP. She's only a woman.

can't stand that (((jew))) bullshit. Карл Густав Юнг was a degenerate

Sounds like you have some serious issues, you should make friends outside of Holla Forums, we're an anonymous imageboard, not some neighborhood or something.

No I just don't get triggered when I see a vagina

Here is the answer you whiny faggots.
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I wish I were born in a conservative town.
Compared to the things kids in my high school told me about their parents this doesn't seem that far fetched.

Could be better, could be worse. I still cry over not being able to talk to my grandma and grandpa anymore, but my Ph.D. is going sort of OK, am far enough into it that I can take a masters and leave for industry if I want; I could even take a year off to prepare myself for industry and enjoy a cushy-ish grad school job.

I believe this, even if it's bullshit. I have had similar bullshit happen to me.

user, his mom didn't pay for hookers.

He *was* the hooker.

This, above all else. Shit man, when I was undergrad my mother tried to do this:

"If you didn't have scholarship money, you know who you'd be dependent on? ME! So give me more respect!"

Sorry user, you're living in an /ss/ doujin. That or your story is completely made up.

/fit/ bro thing religiously for a few years and read all the books on the red pill reading lists to develop all the mental game you missed out on by having fucked up parents. Then you can drown in high quality pussy or go waifu hunting whenever you feel like it.

=GET FIT FAGGOTS=

Don't dwell on (((family dysfunction)))

Stop watching hentai.

Link plz?

Hey user, i know how you feel

Hang in there.

im 19. and recently things got so bad home that it all flipped, now im getting an apartment next week, and im off to start my own life, free of the 19 years bullshit they forced me to go through

user, is your mom Muslim?

no u

She sounds like a piece of shit, you have my sympathy user. Get some therapy, seriously.

oh boo hoo
man the fuck up and go on with your damn life
call me when you have some real goddamn problems

Dude, barely half of that made sense, but it was enough to know you need to get the fuck out of your mom's house ASAP. Rent a room from someone - usually only a few hundred a month and about half the cost of a studio apartment. Make enough money to do so and get the fuck outta there. I know you already know that, and I know how impossible it seems. I was in a similar situation until recently - not quite the same, but I have parents that did nothing but make me feel like shit about myself. They always talked down to me like I was a child, even though I'm well into my 20s. And they are pathetic failures of human beings and I have clearly surpassed them in every way, but having pathetic people talk down to you and reflexively dismiss anything you say back to them makes you feels super low.

Point is:

this

No she won't user. She desperately needs you. Leaving her will be the absolute worst thing you could possible do to her, and the best thing you could do for yourself.

i know the feeling user
it goes beyond having to teach yourself basic skills, it's like having to teach yourself common sense or something
you pretty much have to learn not to be a completely retarded sperg in basic social interactions and have self-confidence that doesn't evolve into arrogance

Same. My father is a spineless cuck who taught me nothing - I literally have no relationship with him even though I saw him every day through my mid-late 20s. Embeded makes me nearly tear up every time I listen to it. I want this kind of relationship with my sons in the future.

You're speaking right from my soul. Exactly!

May your wish come true. May you have many sons and a great relationship with them :)

Always
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Disregard any millennial reddit faggot who uses ellipsis "…" in their sentences. It proves that their AD riddled minds can't wait 1 second to formulate proper grammar, sentences and thoughts without being impulsive little shits.

The more, "…" you witness some faggot typing, the more you should completely ignore and bully them - dealer's choice.

Nicely disguised datamining thread. 6/10.

uhh can you not post porn when I'm reading a post making me think about my mother.

Just fucking leave you faggot.

Ok, guys in this bread need some fucking old fag experience and some testosterone, let me go one by one. By far I am not the pinnacle of old man knowledge, but I had plenty of ugly and hard experiences and life and got out of it.My two cents on the matters at hand anyway.

Your mother, as many mothers today tried to, seemly succeeded in emasculating you, that is where she gets her high, her misplaced sense of power and purpose. Woman lack any self-respect, emotional balance and are hostage to hormonal imbalance.

You need to fucking BE A MAN, some are norn alpha, others have to become. Solve your anger issues, go to the range, buy a punching bag, get fit-ish, raise your testosterone, do yoga or meditation, the path is hard and long, but you can overcome it.

Read some goddman books, in my case adopting the training and mind set of special forces helped a lot. I need more info, feel free to ask anything. Punching, shooting and meditating helps a lot.

Doesn't take good genetics, takes will power and commitment. You reached enlightenment, in whatever amount that it was, you did, just keep following that path. Woman must be treated not as equals, never, the moment you do, you lose any respect. Treat them as objects, believe me.

Avoiding conflict is what put us in this mess, jews hate conflict and ingrained that om the populace's mind. Do not avoid conflict and do not fear the results. Respect those who earn respect, put others in their place. Read the eddas.

People will try that your entire life, live a few days in the street/hotel and put them in their place. At the point they see a roof above your head means shit, they will run out of options.

what I highly recommend you to do, when you will be ready to get the fuck out of her house for good and start a life where you have a chance to keep insanity out of your own home, is to save $200 in a saving account/envelope and to give it to her when you leave, saying that you don't want to hear about this shit ever again
it seems she used the event as a manipulation-hook, and having it snap in her face at a time when she will try to manipulate you as hard as she can will improve your chances to destabilize her enough that you can escape without other random catastrophe popping up
and gtfo, as said in

I'll just copy-paste the top Amazon Review to show you all why this book is irrelevant.

you got my attention, please elaborate

I have a brother that has the ability to do this. What it requires is a profoundly well thought-out strategy in dealing with issues and topics never to be discussed, ever, and for any reason, and when I say well thought out I mean as bullet proof as a 100 page business plan drafted by AAA+++ lawyers, and thinking like that about a family member. And even that has it's sacrifices.

Myself, I have found that leaving and never looking back is best. My wife and I have been through a lot already but nothing makes me feel like running ten miles than having to deal with my parents disfunction and then taking it out on my wife which I refuse to do, and, it almost, at times seems to me like that is what my parents wish I would do. That failing would then give them that emotional hold over me too. And knowing that makes me angrier too out of internal frustration.

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