My girlfriend wants to disown my 14 y/o transgender step-daughter

parenting.stackexchange.com/questions/27277/my-girlfriend-wants-to-disown-my-14-y-o-transgender-step-daughter

My 14 year old step-daughter came out to me (her step-dad) as a girl on a bike ride when my girlfriend of 3 years, her mother, wasn't there. I fully accept her and gladly refer to her by her chosen name ('Emily' for the purposes of this question) and pronouns. Emily told me she hadn't told her mother yet and she felt more comfortable telling me first. Overall, we have conflict-free, loving, pretty great relationship. She told me not to tell her mother and of course I agreed.

The bike ride was on 9/11, and Emily finally came out to her mother on Friday night (5 days ago). I don't know what exactly happened, I got home late from work and they were in a heated argument, but it ended with Emily going to her room and refusing to come out.

Later that night, my girlfriend referred to her own child as a "degenerate". She's mentioned "sending him to a camp" and disowning "him". She has made other similar comments as well as creating an unsupportive environment by misgendering Emily and referring to her by her former name at every opportunity. She's become even more strict about Emily's clothing, hair, accessories, etc. I would have understood if she were shocked or in denial, if she thought it was a phase, etc. but to be honest, she might well bully her own child into suicide at this rate.

I have tried to talk to my girlfriend, she only responds that I am "taking his side" and "promoting that lifestyle". I tried everything from telling her about the high suicide rates among trans teens, I showed her studies on how trans teens start doing so much better (in terms of mental health, in school, etc) once they start treatment 1, and others but she is not budging. There is the added issue that Emily is not my kid, so my girlfriend feels I have no say (and to an extent, I agree).

My question is, how do I best protect Emily not only from bullies outside the home, but from the bullying she's experiencing from my girlfriend? I don't want to get between Emily and her mother. Emily's father passed away before she was a year old, so her mother is her only surviving parent.

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Damn, what an awesome girlfriend.
Where can I find a classy lady like that?

Pick one.

At least that one marked "HARSH ANSWER" tried to talk that libshit cuck down.

Why didn't the father do the right thing and bitch slap some sense into "Emily" right then and there?

I'm dating a woman who's late husband died in the desert for Israel. Her son will not suffer the same fate.

Corpses and the absent are both notoriously bad parents.

I meant the cuck raising his wife's daughter/son.

Top cuck.

The father died. Her being a single parent in this scenario is acceptable.

gr8 b8 m8.
Interesting technique too, posting it offsite.

I'm okay with this, nice blog post fagot

Even if the dude died fair and square?

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There's one good answer.
parenting.stackexchange.com/a/27304

Tldr: you aren't the dad, you don't know how to be a dad, so stfu.

Great.

>girlfriend's son decides he wants to suck dick and neuter himself, freeing up resources for your own children >implying this beta fag will have any

The cuckChan invasion is real

I agree with f2ed87, it's not cuckoldery if you're making sure a dead man's final legacy makes him proud.

is it "stop talking to me and my wife's daughter" now?

Fucking hell, it's a fucking flaming faggot that wants to dress up in tutus.

Yeah, suicide rates going down from 40% to 35% is a real grand achievement.

From the top answer:
How can everything be so wrong?


Bugger off, reddit.


You too.


SE is infested with liberals. Not surprising with a faggot kike co-owner.


Would you rather have a kid without a parent? Kill yourself.

Another life destroyed, I guess.

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Fuck off right back to reddit, nigger.

how the fuck is someone going to archive a personal story?

maybe the real faggot isn't the sniveling OP's homo dickless son.

Why so weak?

Devil's advocate incoming:
The kid is lucky because 14 is about the perfect age to start T-blockers; timely treatment can preclude the need for costly surgical interventions (voice surgery, facial feminization surgery, boob job, etc.) to counteract the effects of male puberty. In $CURRENTYEAR the kid will transition sooner or later regardless of what the mother thinks. The only question is whether the kid transitions now to becomes a qt trap, or after years of T-induced disfigurement to become a monstrous beast.
t. tranny degenerate
(who'll probably detransition soon, thanks Holla Forums)

Tumblr looks different from what I remember.

How did such a respectable lady end up with a cuck like you, OP?

Cuck

Probably?
Also, it's $CURRENTYEAR+1.

We should dox "Charlie" and help the family.

I am not really against that as long as the transgendered freaks are sent off to Moroccan harems to die of anal prolapse in the hands of kebabs so that we can maintain social hygiene in our lands.

Fake.

We get it, "but it's LULZY".

Serves no useful purpose.

Good luck, they don't exist except inside a millennial's imagination.

check'd
Right you are.
I stopped taking hormones weeks ago but still "living as a woman" for the moment due to laziness basically.

polite sage for OT faggotry

i wish the dsm v wasn't written by cucks getting their pockets lined by faggots4homosexuals and psychiatry could be a respectable science again and unfortunately sick individuals could get the help they needed instead of expensive physical mutilation procedures and cancer inducing doses of hormone t.nurse
daily reminder that jenner has gone full bitch mode and can't decide whether or not he wants to be a man again.

you're doing god's work

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As I thought, this is bait.

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like i want to disown this get

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I'll take that off you hands

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It's a fresh new account.


This thread came along approximately with the batch of SE subscription e-mails. I'm subscribed to some of the networks. Additionally, the question is being edited right now[1]. I don't think this is OP.

>>>Holla Forums

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I'm just waiting for the payload to be added.

"My girlfriend is a fervent supporter of Donald Trump."

Not saying OP is the author but the question is surely fake.

either use the trap as a fuck toy or neck yourself you fucking faggot

Only a fool would try to protect him from reality in the current year.

Lets set down some ground rules to clarify a cuck:

1.Having a stepdaughter dosent make you a cuck, paying for her bring up, however, does.

2.Dating a widow is not being a cuck. Unless you consider it cucolding necrofilia, but lets not get into that.

The wording is creepy AF.

Who in their right mind refers to a child's mother as "my girlfriend" instead of "her mother" (in the context of that sentence)?

Creepy AF. It's either bait, a child writing about itself, or a pedo/hebephile giving vent to his fantasies of obtaining a fuck-puppet.

ou consider it cucolding necrofilia, but lets not get into that.

You're confusing the cuckold genre of porn with what it is to actually be a biological cuckold.

Yes, if you're raising another man's child, you're a cuckold, whether he is dead or alive. You are using your limited time on this earth and your resources - your lifeblood to sustain and further his genes instead of your own.

I feel kinda bad for this woman, but then again:


ayy lmao no one saw that one coming

And MGTOW kikes say there are no good women.

pick one and fuck off

What help is there exactly?
inb4 antipsychotics. Tried 'em, didn't work.
Transition regret is really common but nobody talks about it (not even in the community) for fear of delegitimizing the "movement."

KILL YOURSELVES IMMEDIATELY YOU FAGGOT TRASH!

Reported. Kill yourself and kill your son.

I think a strong father figure would solve all your problems.

Pity it's probably too late for that and your brain is irreparably twisted by the hormones.

faggot.

OP POSTED ONCE. THIS IS SPAM. REPORT IT.

this, hopefully the fagg gets banned

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She's single becouse the husband died retard.

a good therapist. possibly hormone (testosterone if male/estrogen if female). i would like to think most people are reasonable enough to want to seek alternatives before jumping into expensive cosmetic surgeries and, again, cancer causing hormone regimens.
crowder has done interviews with chad with aids, and chad talked about how he's technically a tranny since he thought he wanted to be a grill when he was younger.

Fully agreed.
Single mothers is not the same as a widow.

respectable widows don't go around dating. especially not >she tier trash.

As far as I can tell transgender is about choosing a nontraditional gender role for oneself and wearing nonstereotypical clothing etc
So explain to me: why are the traditional gender roles better?
>>>/polarchive/1389

A 9mm through the head

Getting more T sounds like a good idea, my testes are probably pretty fucked by now; it's been a couple years
We've informed consent here in burgerland; you just go to your local abortion clinic, sign a few papers and you've got your hormones.
also I was pretty close to suicide when I decided to transition, not exactly firing on all cylinders.

i had no idea we made it so easy. probably another good reason to defund planned parenthood tbh. i'm glad you didn't kill yourself user. please be healthy and happy.

sage
sage
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better than staying a single mother